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Lost my job almost a month ago now and haven’t been able to get any work. Used to date a Domme that had me train my ass for her pleasure but that relationship is over. My girlfriend now is very vanilla and I love her and need to do something to make money. I don’t really think I could make money when apps like Grindr are available. Never been on Grindr before I wonder if that’s a good place to start 🤔

I’m a virgin, Ik some people like that so was just wondering if there is a price I should go for or anything like that

Everything I'm about to write is true to the best of my ability to recall. I'm a 'straight' guy, in my 20's, and for 8 months I turned to M4M sex work to survive... And then I kept doing it for another 10 months 😅

I started in December 2022 because I was unemployed, broke, and struggling to survive. I could barely afford rent and food each week, let alone bills.

I'm in my 20s, and I'd had sex with men a couple of times when I was younger out of curiosity and as an outlet for my submissive side, but it never really felt right and I thought that I'd more or less put all of that behind me.

I blame having a female sex worker as a former flatmate for putting the idea in my head. She'd worked in a brothel and would sometimes make as much money in a night, as I could in a week at my previous job.

Now living alone and desperate for money I started seriously considering giving it a go, even if it were only one time to keep the electricity on; after all, while my experience was limited, it's not like I hadn't bottomed before.

Still I was nervous about it, and it took a few weeks before my desperation overrode my apprehension. I posted my first online ad in the middle of the day, and by that evening I was doing my first booking.

The guy was a very successful, heavy-set middle aged man; he arrived at my flat and I took cash up front, I'd set an hourly rate but to my relief he only stuck around for maybe 20 minutes. He showered, I washed his cock and sucked him in the shower, then we dried off a little and he had me lay down on my bed with my legs over his shoulders while he fucked me for a few minutes until he came, got dressed and left.

NGL I felt pretty good about myself. While I still maintain my 'straight' or at least 'heteroflexible' identity to this day, it felt weirdly validating, and I had a fresh $300 (Australian dollars) in my wallet.

From there, more men contacted me over the coming days, and I did more bookings; roughly 2-4 per week for the next 8 months. I was still looking for other work, but with a source of income, I got more lax in my efforts.

Eventually though, I finally got a job after months of searching that I'm still doing today. The work is casual, but the pay and work environment are better than anything I've experienced before. Despite that, it took me another 10 months of doing 1-2 bookings per fortnight for a little extra cash until I finally stopped renewing my ads in June this year.

Some people might ask why as a 'straight' guy, I didn't advertise towards women, or top guys; and the truth is that I cum way too quickly, and advertising costs money, there aren't enough women seeking male sex workers for it to be viable, I don't need to be aroused to bottom, the thought of topping a guy feels weird to me, and bottoming just kinda feels more natural to my personality I guess? 👀

There were good and bad aspects to sex work, but overall it was a mostly positive experience and one of the better jobs I've had for my mental health. After a long run of toxic employers and work places I really enjoyed being able to work for myself, and it was nice to feel desirable.

It's not something that I could do forever though, and while I don't miss the work, or dealing with some of the more problematic booking enquiries, there's a small part of me that wonders if I should renew my ads again... Just for a little while.

Propositioning my barber. We've done stuff together, but nothing like me penetrating him, nor has he ever done it before, but is open to it did the right price. Any straight guys in a similar situation, or have been? How much did/would you charge?

I'm not in the USA but Europe so probably no one here really cares...

I was in prison for a while when I was 20. So even though I have a good education etc.,, my criminal record is checked whenever I apply for a job. In prison I learned that most men do not really care about sexual labels. I mean outside prison I was straight and now that I am out I still am straight. But I found out that some gay men are ready to pay me just to blow me. So if I go to a bar and I am a little drunk I am OK to let a gay blow me in the toilets in return for money. I don't do anything else. I'm 6' , have a reasonably good body and looks. What would you pay? The few times I did it I just got 20 euros for maybe 5 or 10 minutes.

The title, I'm not soliciting, just asking for advice on how I could be put into one of these scenarios 32, only ever been straight, have a gf who doesn't know I made this post.

I’m not gay, and I don’t like guys. But lately big thick cocks have started to have me curious. And I’m seeing now that people pay for straight guys to be gay? Do people start online or is it an meetup type of thing? I’d like to know more

I’ve always been curious about how it feels for straight guys that do gay for pay porn. How do you reconcile it with your heterosexuality? Is it really revolting and you just think about something else? Do you think that maybe there is a part of you that is bi-curious? It’s gotta be tough to bottom if your straight. Do you guys ever wind up getting into it?

I ran out of money and I’ve been thinking about doing this shit as I think I could gain well, but how the heck do I get started? Where do I find people that are willing to pay for this kind of sht? Any apps online?

are us straight guys like an extra kink? knowing you can make us do what you say gets you off?

This is me sucking him. I turned him on so much the other day when I told him guys would pay for that BBC. He laughed and called BS. What do you think?

Dm….. might meet up tooo

Bro. I even blew my straight big step bro. Its out of control