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Thinking about doing bottom surgery solely to ensure my safety in the future, seeing the state of the world rn. Any thoughts?

For context: I’m not American, but my country (very stable, developed, safe, but conservative and discriminatory) doesn’t allow a future for me as a trans person. I fully pass as male, have been on T for a long time, and have had top surgery, but my gender marker still says F—my government requires sterilization and bottom surgery to change it.

Generally speaking, I don’t desire bottom surgery; I’d feel uncomfortable changing my anatomy, and I never imagined undergoing such a personal procedure just to satisfy government requirements. But given how attitudes toward trans people are shifting worldwide—including in the U.S. and much of the West—I wonder if I need to do this to protect myself, even after leaving this country.

I know I will always be trans and will need access to HRT for life, so I can’t fully escape restrictive policies. But perhaps this would give me more security—reducing risks of danger, harassment, and hate crimes while ensuring my gender marker remains M wherever I go, as it would be tied to my citizenship’s stable legal framework.

Personally, I’d be open to a surgery that adds (and is visually stealth for security) but doesn’t completely remove what I have—something that aligns with my comfort level (e.g., no vaginectomy with phalloplasty + scrotoplasty). I simply feel uncomfortable removing something I was born with and have no good reason to remove.

Does this idea of considering bottom surgery make sense? I’m still processing it and would appreciate thoughts—I don’t want to make a decision I’ll regret, but I figured this sub would understand where I’m coming from.

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2025/02/03
11:06 UTC

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do you think its messed up to send hundreds of small plastic penises to queerphobic peoples houses in my school

ive done it several times because rumours spread about me being trans and an obviously my deadname was being spread but i convinced them it was wrong, they still were visibly homophobic toward people in my school so i sent hundreds of plastic penises in a box, some others were separate occasions tho

4 Comments
2025/02/03
10:44 UTC

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I think my boyfriend doesn’t have gender dysphoria

So, yesterday my boyfriend said that he doesn’t care when people use she/her pronouns, and uses the name that was previous, don’t get me wrong, I don’t have a problem with this, I just want to see if that is something that other ftm people have. I just want to understand him as much as I can, I love him.

15 Comments
2025/02/03
10:29 UTC

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Underwear that doesn’t let my thighs rub?

Hey everyone! I’m finally going to address an issue that has been bothering me for a long time and that is the feeling of my thighs rubbing together!! I do not like the feeling and I think it’s starting to affect my skin. The issue is that with working all day on my feet, moving around a lot I sweat in my crotch area and also have discharge that can make the whole area wet and so unpleasant when it’s rubbing together. I’m a heavier guy so that doesn’t help the thighs rubbing together and my pubic mound area is fat as well so the space between that and my thighs gets very uncomfortable. Do any of you guys have recommendations? Stuff that is the shape of boxers but where the crotch area is more to the skin and up the thighs because all my underwear have that area just kinda open.

6 Comments
2025/02/03
09:48 UTC

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Medical Male or Female?

This sounds really stupid, but do I look at male or female symptoms of medical conditions now that I’ve been on testosterone for 8 months? My chemical levels are way closer to males but I’m still biologically female.

4 Comments
2025/02/03
09:47 UTC

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Late bloomers: FTM over 40s

Hi everyone,

I wanted to share some important news with you all. Last year at 42, I finally made the decision to transition, and it's been an incredible journey so far. Some changes have been smooth, while others have presented challenges, particularly when it comes to my body. I'm still navigating these changes and learning every day.

I'm curious to know if others over 40 have had similar experiences and what changes they've noticed in their bodies. Do people transitioning later in life experience the same physical changes as those who transition in their 20s?

Thank you in advance for your support and understanding. Your comments, personal experiences and encouragement mean the world to me.

Best, Dany

5 Comments
2025/02/03
09:29 UTC

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how to gather the courage to come out?

I (17) am trying to figure out I'm gonna come out to my mom. I plan to medically transition as soon as I turn 18 in a few months (if that's still possible where I live, idk) and I want her to know beforehand.

I live in a red state and my mom is very conservative, which makes me a bit hesitant, but she's actually really chill about lgbt people from what I've seen. she already knows I have some gender identity issues but we've been tiptoeing around that conversation for years now.

I know I'm safe and won't get kicked out or anything, I'm just scared of hurting her feelings + how awkward the conversation will inevitably be. we're close and she always reassures me that she'll support me no matter what, but I know she'll be disappointed that she's "losing her daughter" in a way. it's just nerve-wracking to think about. I'm not very articulate when nervous, so I think I'm gonna have to tell her over text or on paper.

how did y'all get over that initial fear of coming out, and how do I tell her in a tactful manner? any advice/input is appreciated :')

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2025/02/03
09:26 UTC

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Can any endo guys offer some perspective

Puberty onset I had miserable periods. Absolutely awful pain throwing up fever. At one point a doctor suggested I should get tested for endo. On the list of things I probably should’ve been tested for as a kid, this fell through the cracks

Since puberty, I’ve occasionally gotten these awful tearing pains in my lower stomach/pubic area, similar to a Charley horse in your calf. It seemed to happen more often when dehydrated so I’ve mostly had very few of these flares in recent years. For a while I’d assumed this was linked to semi frequent UT/ or maybe IC as it also caused painful urination and AZO tablets helped, but on reading up on endo, I’ve seen it can also affect your pelvic floor causing pain like that.

I’ve been having soreness below my belly button like right where my torso meets my leg joint I guess (idk enough about anatomy to describe where it is). Heat seems to help, as well as pain killers. But this has been on and off all day today even with staying hydrated and taking pain meds and sitting with a heat pad. It almost to the touch feels like my veins or muscles in that area that’s sore feel slightly raised.

Embarrassingly this seems most frequent to occur day if or days after masturbation (I’m asexual, I hate the act, but sometimes that morning wood takes over ffs).

Assuming this is like normal it’ll probably be gone some point by the time I get up or later in the day, but it has me stressed again about potential endo. I’m working toward top surgery and I really don’t have time or energy to have other health issues at the moment.

I guess I would just appreciate some insight if this sounds like potential endo, or if anyone else has had this kind of pain/soreness. I also read about atrophy causing pains but no idea what that’s supposed to feel like and that as a concern worries me as well.

Thanks all.

4 Comments
2025/02/03
09:12 UTC

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Want Pre-Op Top Surgery Advice

Ello, I have top surgery March 14th, and I just got the call a week ago. I know that a month isn't a lot of time to prepare the body for surgery, but still, I wanted to know what some fellas recommend for the time I got.

For starters, I typically eat 1-2 meals a day, and don't really have access to healthier food, mostly cheap boxed stuff, I don't work out but I go on long walks and use resistance bands instead of going to the gym, and I have really bad insomnia so I get around 4-5 hours of sleep. Also I take Calcium, Vitamin K + D3, Vitamin A, and Omega 3 daily.

My plan for the month is to spend an hour a day doing stretches and chest workouts to at least have something to work with and to hopefully help mobility. I have a bad shoulder instability in my right shoulder already, so I've had shoulder stretches on my agenda for a while. I don't think working myself to the bone is worth it, so I think 30 minutes stretching and 30 minutes working out is an effective way to do things.

In terms of diet and sleep, I'm just not sure how I can improve it. I have a really hard time getting the energy to eat and my household literally has no vegetables. We do have bananas and eggs, though. I do well with getting protein in at least. And then I've done all the methods to improve sleep. I've had insomnia since I was little and my doctors are very aware that my sleep disorder is likely caused by some mood disorder or something. Melatonin doesn't work past one night. I've tried.

I'd appreciate any advice, or even recommended meals to improve my physical condition (rn kinda just thinking of egg sandwiches, egg fried rice, eating bananas a ton, whatever I got in the house).

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2025/02/03
08:24 UTC

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Bottom Growth

so i’ve been on T for coming up to 2 months now, i’ve had a slight bit of growth down there, it doesn’t hurt nor does it really feel uncomfortable but this past week it’s been itchy, not extremely bad or anything. is this normal? or should i go see a doctor, i absolutely hate going to the doctors and especially for a reason that makes me super dysphoric so i thought id ask here incase it is something that’s quite common with bottom growth, thanks guys

2 Comments
2025/02/03
08:12 UTC

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Finally Happy

I knew I was trans since I was really young, and I felt like my body could never show who I really am. My biggest dysphoric moments come from looking in the mirror and seeing a girl's body.

I started taking testosterone January 23 of this year. I took my 2nd weekly dose only a few days ago, but the changes I've noticed are life changing. I can look in the mirror and feel like myself for once. I feel like I can finally love myself. Realistically it can take months to see dramatic changes that I'm hoping for, but the knowledge of starting T makes me view my body so differently. I see a boy. I see someone who's strong. I see someone who's attractive. I see someone who is proud, loved, heard, understood, smart, and everything positive.

I started working out slightly (muscle growth is something I'm so excited for with my journey on T). I've been cooking more meals, cleaning up after myself, showering, brushing my teeth. I've started doing things my self hate and depression took away from me. I look forward to life and going forward with this. I finally love myself. I'm finally happy.

2 Comments
2025/02/03
07:55 UTC

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Do you communicate your dysphoria with your partner?

I've been in a couple relationships and my partners have all supported me and the way I feel about myself. They've said I could tell them how I honestly feel, but I feel this would be a burden on them.

I am currently in a relationship, and my girlfriend is very supportive of me (I am pre-t). As of late, I have been getting more dysphoric and insecure about my body and all physical aspects. She's been noticing this type of energy but I never told her it's because I've been feeling awful lately because of dysphoria.

Do you think it is okay for me to be honest and communicate about it? I feel it will only drain her out in the long run and that's the last thing I want to do. I really just want my feelings to be heard as I've had a problem with not validating myself.

Have any of you dudes felt this way? and how did you guys manage this? Thanks.

17 Comments
2025/02/03
07:26 UTC

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How to deal with rib pain due to binder?

I've been having some bad rib pain as of late and I was wondering if any of you guys had any tips for it like massages, stretches, anything of help. Most of the pain is to the left of my sternum and my back (especially when I breathe in deeply)

(Please don't tell me to go a couple days without the binder because I'm a college student with a part time job meaning I'm out 6 out of 7 days of the week, im not walking around with my rack out, and I also have transtape on the way so I'll use that once it arrives)

4 Comments
2025/02/03
06:26 UTC

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Wedding Traditions

Okay I’ve been engaged to my partner (cis male partner) since September. We are not doing a wedding due to finical constraints until 2026 (this has been a long planning process for several years, we’ve been together 7, known each other 8).

So I guess I never really put much thought on expectations for this other then setting and theme. Which I feel is the easier part to deal with, we have already settled there.

The part that’s hard to sort are the feelings and wants to approach the ceremony. I kind of have some very mixed confusing feelings. My partner is not picky at all about this and is allowing me my freedom for it. I grew up expecting my father to take me down the aisle. He only has 2 kids the other is my very straight brother. My mother I’m less close with so I’m not really sure I want a combined parent situation here. I a little want my dad to take me down the aisle, but it’s a bit dysphoric too. He is my closest family though. I know we could just skip this step entirely. I just want some acknowledgment to him in my wedding. My mother will get her son/mom dance so eh on worrying too much for her involvement. He is a lot of the reasons I’ve bettered myself and frankly despite issues has been a better father then most typically can hope for in my generation. I don’t want to exclude him?

Thoughts? Have other ppl dealt with this?

I kind of never planned this kind of scenario. I was originally kind of in love with a girl earlier in my life so just expected the more typical male wedding role.

3 Comments
2025/02/03
06:23 UTC

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Mormon family and being trans

I’m just scared. Like, aside from everything happening, just interpersonally I’m scared. I don’t want to be an alien to my family if I transition, the thought just scares me so bad that I just avoid thinking about it all together. Most of my extended family is mormon, so they have traditional values when it comes to sexuality and gender. I mean my mom’s side is fine with me having a girlfriend (any pronouns btw!!<3), but it almost feels like being trans is just a level above because I’d be the first. I wouldn’t have anything to go off of for how my family reacts, I would be the FIRST.

It terrifies me that I have to fight to exist in the way I’m comfortable, and the way I’m used to existing. And once I transition medically there’s no way to avoid that awkward conversation. And what’s even worse is that I’m not even sure I’d be the one having it!!! In LDS (and my family) culture it’s just so normalised to ask someone else to avoid confrontation, or always inserting their belief in every conversation in some roundabout way. I hate it. I just hate it.

I’ll elaborate this, I’m not going to cut them off because I’m sure some of them COULD come around. Besides, there are people in my extended family that are closeted and I just want to make them feel a little safer. It’ll make their lives so much easier if I’m first, and I WANT to do this. It’s just so difficult, and so nerve wracking. I wish things weren’t like this. How do I even approach this??? Do I just do my own thing and elaborate later?? Do I even owe ANYONE an explanation? It’s so hard for me to advocate for myself in the first place… I just... ugh. I’m so tired. I’m SO tired. It’s already hard enough when I barely have to voice to say I’m agnostic, but this is even harder. I just don’t know what to do.

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2025/02/03
06:15 UTC

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Lupron and Testosterone

Looking for some advice or testimonies from other people on their experiences.

Just got my first T shot, and although I’m extremely happy, I’m also a little worried because I had my next lupron shot at the same time. For reference, I’ve been on lupron for 3 and a half years, and this was just a coincidence. I plan on stopping lupron after this dose but now I’m worried after a conversation I had with my friend. He said he didn’t start experience changes on T until after the lupron injections had gotten bad worn off ( he only had 3 1month doses of the drug) as well as said that any testosterone injected would just be destroyed by the lupron.

I didn’t think that this made sense because I thought lupron only suppressed your ability to naturally create sex hormones, not free testosterone in the body. Regardless, this has stressed me out and I’m quite nervous that I won’t experience any changes from T until the 3 months are up.

Does anyone have any advice or experience with this? Please let me know!

2 Comments
2025/02/03
05:59 UTC

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Does this sound like atrophy

(TW: Anatomical language, sex, pain with sex, NSFW) So, I am coming around 7 months on T (🥳) and so far it’s pretty great. My current dose is .35ml subcutaneous injections weekly. But unfortunately over the last 5 or so weeks I’ve noticed a slight issue. Basically, I am experience pain in my vaginal canal that I’ve never really experienced before. It’s an extremely sensitive, achy, and stinging pain just inside the opening and only at the bottom (closest to my perineum). It’s not always a problem, it really only hurts during penetration and not every time but it’s becoming more frequent. I’ve felt pain in that spot before but not this bad or this frequently, usually it would be only after very rough or strenuous activity lol. And it would go away very quickly. I’m wondering if this could be a form of vaginal atrophy? I’m a little thrown because I’ve not really experienced the other symptoms that I’ve seen guys report. Such as, pain with orgasm, pain deeper into the canal, constant pain, excessive dryness, etc…. If I this doesn’t go away and/or I can’t find any over the counter remedies I’ll of course see a doctor. I’d just love to hear your guys thoughts on it and any personal experiences or advice yall might be willing to share? Lots of love ✌🏻

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2025/02/03
05:51 UTC

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I need an advice- Trans ppl in muslim countries

I swear this is NOT a vnt post! i really would appreciate advice from ppl from muslim countries like me and other trans people.

I been questionned and bothered by police like 2 times because i'm honestly kinda passing i'm planning to take asylum in a european country which we don't share borders with so that must be hard because i have to travel. internet use is monitored.

my question is, is there any methods or natural remedies or legal shit that i can use to kinda masculanize myself a bit (idc if it's tiny results the dyphoria's hard bro ) bc i'm 19 and i wanna start transitionning now bc i'm afraid of being too late ( it's not though but in my mind i wanna be batman asap)

second question is how to navigate and comunicate with people in the gym for example and protect yourself from people who want u dead and HOW TO TALK TO THE POLICE UGH beacuse istg these mfs are the hardest most controlling ppl

any people similar to me i really want to hearing your experience makes it easier for me to make desicions and navigate life

recommend ORGANIZATIONS to help people like me PLEASE write them down in the comments i'm short on money and i have to travel to another country that shares a border with the closest european country to take asylum in

3 Comments
2025/02/03
05:51 UTC

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More sensitive to medications after T?

So it's weird but I see that my body doesn't take well the same over the counter medications that I used to take just fine before T. It gives me faster heart beat, panic, sometimes even a little harder to breathe.

I also see that I'm a little more sensitive to antidepressants.

Has anyone experienced that?

Side note: I am suspecting that I'm allergic to the gel I currently use. And I'm planning to try shots instead. Don't know if it could do with that.

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2025/02/03
05:42 UTC

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First time with an afab partner

I have already had sex with amab people, soon my partner and i plan on using a strap-on, and in all honesty i have no idea what im doing. I know how to work around the male body, but i feel clueless when it comes to women. I feel half the time i hardly know how to pleasure myself. Does anyone have any advice on what i can do to prepare? Any help is appreciated

4 Comments
2025/02/03
05:40 UTC

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Convince me not to change my name (or don’t)

hello :)! so, my name is koda. has been for about 2 1/2 years now; all of my friends call me by that name and my family are just starting to come around to calling me the name. and i still like the name, don’t get me wrong! but, i’ve recently started to feel ehhh about it. it always stands out a LOT when i go out in public, and i sometimes dislike having such an uncommon name. my deadname was just as “unique” and i’d always hated the attention it brought me (why i decided to, then, change that to another unique name, i will never know). and frankly, i sometimes cringe when i have to introduce myself as koda ☠️

anyway, i’ve been playing around with the idea of changing it to nicholas for various reasons. i really like the name, and it means a lot to me. it’s also a much more “common” name so it would be a bit easier to blend in with the crowd. my biggest issues right now are that:

  1. i’ve already gone through the process of legally changing my name on basically everything

  2. it’s been 2 1/2 years and everyone knows me as this one name

  3. my cousin had a baby a couple years ago and named him nicholas (weird problem, but a lot of my family tries not to repeat names)

ive been thinking about this for several months now and i feel like im going crazy lol, i would love any opinions you might have 😭

12 Comments
2025/02/03
05:36 UTC

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How to help throat pain??

So for context I’m about 2 and a half months on T and my voice has dropped a noticeable amount based on my friends opinions and the cracks happen fairly often when I talk louder, but I was also sick when a lot of change seemed to happen, my throat hurts really bad sometimes when I talk but especially when I swallow anything, I can’t tell if I’m still sick, if it’s just throat change pain, or if I should see a doctor, it’s been almost a week of throat pain and I’ve been mostly symptom free for several days and I don’t know what to blame at this point. If it does sound like just boy throat growing pains then what can I do to help it go away? Even temporarily.. I have a throat numbing spray from when I was sick that helps for like 15 minutes but I’m not supposed to use it super often. Please help someone 😭😭

{Edit} Also has anyone had any problems getting testosterone prescriptions filled? I go back for blood tests late February and wanna make sure I won’t be faced with problems since I only have 3 doses left. (if you are having trouble getting T please comment where or dm me or something so I know if it’s getting close to me 😭) I’m in the US btw

6 Comments
2025/02/02
20:24 UTC

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Few months on low dose t & starting to gain fat around hips?

Hey guys, I started testosterone gel a few months back. Have gained weight, but was chalking that up to muscle (which definitely has been part) until I realized I was also getting more fat around my hips/upper glutes. This feels kinda dysphoric. I was expecting this part of my body to get smaller if anything. A few questions about this:

  1. Is this something other have experienced as well?

  2. Do you think it might be the low dose somehow causing it?

  3. Maybe I don't understand what it hip fat vs abdominal fat? Can anyone share a graphic or something to help me understand?

Otherwise stuff's going great, so yay for that, anyway. Could just use some info or reassurance on this weird hip fat thing.

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2025/02/02
21:15 UTC

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How do you feel you were socialized?

Do you believe in female or male socialization? If so, were you socialized female?

I don’t know how to explain it but I feel as though I were somewhere in between.

I was perceived as a girl but people also knew I was ‘off.’ I feel as though I was treated as a female but not the right kind of a female.

Am I delusional?

33 Comments
2025/02/03
05:32 UTC

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I’m confused

okay so basically i’m very confused with myself at the moment. i am a masc lesbian and i’m not completely uncomfortable with myself but i do have moments where i feel so icky about myself as a girl. I also have bottom dysmorphia i think because i find myself wishing a I had a male genitalia instead of a woman’s and it makes me wonder if i am trans. I asked my girlfriend to call me names that are more masculine and I enjoy it too. I currently am stuck to where I don’t know 100% where I am at and what I should do. I feel like this is just a ramble but i don’t have people to talk to this about because of the fear or being judge or anything in that nature. I could also be in denial because of fear and it’s holding me back from a true self discovery. Anything would be helpful.
(edit): i’m also not very educated on the changes of taking T or any type of surgeries because i’m now becoming aware of everything, but I am scared of taking T when I get the chance to if I do, because of the changes it might do to my personality (does that happen or what type of changes) and i’m also very curious about phalloplasty surgery because i have done some research about it and it’s something i’m leaning towards in the near future. As I decided the worst time as an American to realize my identity i still need some clarification I guess.

4 Comments
2025/02/03
05:25 UTC

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period trackers

Anybody know period tracking apps or websites that are friendly to trans men? Ive tried a few but I never stay in the habit of updating every day because they're always talking about pregnancy or just other really feminine things.

3 Comments
2025/02/03
05:16 UTC

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Grandmama call me her little boy and I was told I smell like a boy :)))

Went to visit grandmama and she commented I look handsome in my new hair cut. It's a new style for me because I've always have long hair. We went to help her with some business at the bank and she thanked me by saying "thank you my little boy" (หนุ่มน้อย in Thai)

And then I went to a cafe before work like I always do and the girl waiting behind me smiled at me and said "oh sorry, you just smelled like my boyfriend :)" I started wearing men's cosmatic stuff lately to see how I feel (soap, deodorant, power, etc) and it feels nice to be told that!

Anyway, all these changes feels really nice and it's so good to know that "trying things and following the thing that feels right" is working really well for me :))) I'm very much looking forward to life now. Just so happy I had to share :)))

2 Comments
2025/02/03
04:59 UTC

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Chest size on T

Hey I have a big chest and I just started T 4 days ago. Have any of you guys experienced a reduction in breast size?? I workout and I’m currently on a cut. Will it sort of deflate in a way??

I’m on the waitlist for top surgery but in the meantime, I’m getting hella dysphoric about my breasts lol

2 Comments
2025/02/03
04:54 UTC

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Will I grow on hrt?

I'm 13 and been on t for almost 2 months and I hope I grow taller. I take kid vitamins too. I think I grew but I'm not sure pre t with no shoes I was 5'2 and now I'm 5'4 without shoes but idk if it was the way I got measured at two different doctors. I REALLY wanna grow. Also it would help if anyone shared their experiences height wise on t (13-16) and my parents are pretty tall but my grandmas are short so I hope the genes didn't skip to me. Tips to grow would also help

8 Comments
2025/02/03
04:35 UTC

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anyone here going to austin protest on the 5th?

i want to go but am scared to go alone. my family is maga and ive secluded myself in my 20s so i dont have friends. with everything going on, im starting to not be so scared anymore and would like to at least try and stand up for what i think is right. i will go alone if need be, but wanted to ask if there are any others who live in austin or sa that will be attending and would like to not be alone as well. sorry if this post is not within the rules.

1 Comment
2025/02/03
04:32 UTC

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