44M...Looking for friends to chitty chat with,. My absolute favorite conversations are of this variety:

You: Hey Me: Hey how's it going thanks for stopping by! You: No problem Me: What are you up to on this fine Friday? You: Not much Me: cool...cool cool cool. Anything fun going on this weekend? You: Nah Me: What kinds of things do you like to do for fun? Gamer? Books? Movies? Spying on the neighbors? (Kinda weird, but I won't judge) You: IDK just chill and stuff haha

If that sounds like you, hit me up ASAP you're going to the front of the line 😏

I uprooted my whole life twice in one year. met someone, decided to move countries to be together. It didn't go well. No abuse or anything. We just didn't click like we had all the times he visited me. Its like the person I knew didn't exist in his real life. Work didn't hire me fulltime after probation as promised. I couldn't find other work. I never had enough money to explore the new place I lived. Depression was real. So I left, went home.

I had to beg barrow and get loans I cant afford. but I got myself and daughter home. Yay! but also.... eh. I never thought Id have to come back here. shrugs.

I have friends, don't get me wrong. but I don't feel like I am the same person I was before this year. I need to branch out, meet more people. But not people here in this small Canadian town.

Feel free to dm me, see if we click as people. I love to travel so maybe one day you can show me around your city!

Hey guys, I wanted to post here in case anyone out there feels we might click. I’m looking for platonic connections, ideally in the UK, and if you live locally (Northwest), that would be even better, as I would love to be able to meet up irl eventually. Im an introvert and outdoorsy, enjoy hiking, music and coffee, love animals and hold down a professional career. I’ve struggled with social anxiety in the past but feel I’m well on my way to beating it. If you’re dealing with anxiety too, maybe we can be a source of support for each other, and if you’re looking for someone to go for walks or hikes with, then I’d especially love to hear from you!!

Please let me know if any of this resonates ☺️

I'm 45 years old. I bumped into someone who I hadn't seen in years and they said to me "You still look like a child". What would you take from that?

I just want some chat friends throughout the day. I have two elementary aged kids, work in healthcare, and have a dark, sarcastic sense of humor. My marriage is kinda weird/rocky at the moment so just trying to not be as lonely.

I'm 40F. Are you that someone I can call a bestie? Who just hit 40 but still feel like you're in the 30s decade? Who loves crime shows, rnb, hip n hop old school tracks. Still love listening to the 80s hits dare I say Michael Bolton, Whitney, Mariah oh I could go on!

Wanting someone who will make the effort to msg, txt etc to check in on life and day to day things, sharing memes, jokes or even a funny story that happened on the day.

Not interested in anything else.

Growing up I always wondered why other adults had to do this, and how it must suck for them...

Be nice to have people around or close to my age to connect and develop friendships.

45m Australia happy to chat to anyone I'm calling asleep now but I will respond to all messages within 24h if your looking for casual ongoing chats

Professional guy from the UK who’s 43 years young. Sporty and enjoys being outside, active and keeping fit. Into my trail running, often with one of my dogs. More recently taken up a martial art. Enjoys travelling, meditation and self-growth and a bit of a geek at heart. If you are looking for genuine friendship and enjoy a natter, please do come and say hi!

First off, I want to say “Thank you” to those who encouraged me.

Two years ago, I was going through it and asked for help on this sub. Many of you encourage me to keep pushing and to go to college despite me being already in my 40s.

I’m happy to say in February I will be a college graduate. I went to school online and I had fun with it. I learned a lot about self-paced learning, and how schools are now adapting to a new approach for busy working adults. I have changed my circle and now hang with people who are more focused on education and making better money; not the party concert crowd I was with for many years.

Work wise opportunities have been opening up and I am at about a seven dollar difference than I was the same time two years ago. My confidence has skyrocketed and now I am looking at universities with a 2 to 3 year plan of completion. I am looking to get into the human service field.

Now I ask for advice again. What are some good schools to acquire my bachelors degree?

Would like to chat and deal with this roller coaster ☹️

Not quite 40 (39 F) but it looms! I WFH and am actively trying to get out, go to coffee shops, etc. for much needed friendly interactions. Would love to find that online.

I've met friends from Reddit and have been able to maintain in person and strictly online friendships. Would love a new chapter with some new folks.

Addtl info: fan of horror, sci-fi movies and shows ) rewatching X-Files currently); dog lover; recovering workaholic; board game fan and competitive in general haha; sports watcher when I have company; and love self help and productivity books.

Feel free to message if you think we might get along!

I look up actors when I'm watching movies and I'm shocked how many of these 'old' people are my age! Same thing in public when I hear someone being born close to my year and thinking that they look like my parents age. I thought this age was so far away and now here I am. Anyone else?

Looking to chat. We can talk about most anything. Please let me know your interests!

Ig most of the people who is nearby 30 to 40 age frame is getting alone and facing difficult phase of life.i am a parent, looking for lite conversation, thanks

Would really like to meet people in my area but I am struggling to find people who are adventurous but careful if that makes sense? I am 43 and just learning how to ski this year, I just bought my first home last year. I have two grown children who live on their own(they do not define my identity) and I am in a LTR that is happy and healthy. Looking for friends who are interested in skiing or hiking or camping, really anything outdoors. Would love to meet people in my area southern-ish EST. DM me!

I’m a male in my 40s. Looking to make friends. I live in the US.

Hey all. Abotut that time again. Looking to get into some chats and build long term friendships with people who are like minded. I don't share photos and don't do spicy chat. I'm married, if that's a no-go, then so be it. If you insist on these kinds of topics/things, please don't be surprised when I block.

I don't have children, partly outof choice and partly out of circumstance. I left it up to the winds wether it happened or not, and it never did, and am glad of it. I have a hard time connecting with parents who's only identity is their children, but I understand as raising them takes a LOT of your time and mindspace. I do a lot of creative writing in the high fantasy genre, enjoy ambient ASMR, a good glass of wine, and chats about how our bodies are falling apart, as well as hobbies. I grow a lot of orchids and aroids, I have dogs and geckos, love lava lamps, and am neurodivergent(ACTUALLY diagnosed, not self-diagnosed, so be warned). Just looking for some friendly people to talk to tonight and longer if possible. I don't talk politics with others unless I've gotten to know you well.

I am fairly isolated, disabled, and just looking to branch out a bit and find some like-minded people who want to connect over plants or animal care or creative writing. I may have had a few glasses of wine for liquid courage tonight, but that's about it. Looking forward to hearing from others.

Feel free to DM if you'd like.

So I'm 90 days from 40, I hope this is the right place to post. I have been trying to find friends and had no luck so here we go,

A bit on me, I am a 39F married and childfree, have one pup. I am outgoing and very creative. Tattooed, goth, gamer, a bit edgy with a kind heart. I love connecting with people and making them laugh. I am a Witch so harm none. I never cause problems or drama. I work as a mental health provider and also I am a client. There's plenty of things I enjoy doing with friends, Arts and crafts, watching movies, cooking, hanging out, and playing games there more then that it all depends on the person. I really enjoy talking with people and learning from them. I love to learn about the world, and cultures. being open minded is key to connecting with others. I have played DnD for 9 years. love fantasy and find joy in creating my own artworks. I have struggled with mental illness have seen some $h!T and just embrace who I am. Hell my mid life crises was a face tattoo, also have a very cute doggo so not too insane. I am very respectful of others and their boundaries.

I am hoping to meet friends online or IRL, I would love to find some people who love art and creating. LBGQI friendly, I am disabled and work periderm so I am free most days. Text, Chat, Video or just hanging out all work for me. Would love to do some COOP gaming. I

I just need some suggestions on where to look, I am on discord. I hope to connect soon

<— This guy 😆😩. Thought I would have lots of friends by now. That Randy Newman is full of s—t, man…

Hi there,

I’m a 40-year-old Latino, married, and a dad to a teenager. We live in the PNW with our two Jack Russell terriers, and I work from home in tech. Outside of work, I’m into gardening, bicycling, art, soccer, DIY, nature, volunteering, and just finding ways to keep life interesting.

I have ADHD and a bit neurodivergent, so I’m always juggling different interests. I’m down to talk about pretty much anything. Whether it’s plants, biking, art, parenting, or whatever’s on your mind.

Open to friendships anywhere, but if you’re in the PNW, it’d be great to meet up at some point.

Let’s chat!

As the title suggests, I just graduated my 3rd decade on this ride. Right off the bat I'll say I'm not a chat all day, every day type of person, I get drained super quick doing that. Some things about me, I'm ND, Welsh, an avid reader and autodidact, music fan, doodler of art, true crime consumer, movie enjoyer, dog person, esoteric thought haver and all around weird (hopefully in a good way) adult human.

Looking for interesting conversation, hopefully leading to a two way street of reciprocity and maybe even a lasting friendship :)

How’s everyone’s week been then? Am just waiting to finish work then relax to do it all again on Monday

Hello all. I wish you, not so much a prosperous Year, but a productive year. May we all take more steps towards being ourselves than we did last year!