There was an extra part needed for fitting it which caused the month delay. Don't worry the new dishwasher is now installed and we were away on holiday for most of the month so managed in the end 🙏

I have recently realized in my quest to find genuine connections, that I have one things most people dont.... a sense of security within myself as well as my resources.

This made me start questioning the world in a different light. One that is not normal for me to do so as I naturally see everyone as equal potential (regardless of if they use it or not).

I seem to find that everyone I meet seems to be too shy, socially anxious, having fragile egos, overthinking things, or just so stressed about resources (which is weird as I live in America, and it's hard to be poor unless your dumb, lazy, or refusing to live within your means, I should know, I became homeless and rebuilt myself a few times and it's easy if you try)

So with this realization I started to wonder, and this girl I talk to online finds it hard to belive how difficult I am finding making friends, as she say I am not unlikable (she also admits to have fallen in love with me as I make her feel secure, which I will admit doesn't mean much to me as making people feel secure and having them fall in love with me seems easy, I want to be able to love or appreciate people back, especially since I often feel like I am the one doing most things in situations and putting in most of the work or effort.)

When she asked me this, I started to pay attention to why people seem to not want to become friends with me or put in the effort, as most people seem to like me (they find me smart, funny, wise, always having somthing good to say, and many said good looking but I think that's probably the least spoken one and least important). It seems most people seem to fixated and distracted by things like not having enough money (and refusing help, offers, or alternatives to cut their expenses). most people also seem to agree with me on how nobody tries to connect anymore and how lonely they feel (yet they refuse my offers to hang out, go for a walk, get to know each other, do somthing together, hell I even offered to buy them dinner so they didn't have the excuse if being lazy or having to pay)

Unfortunately it seems like these people the more I look into them seen to only want somone to "worship them" or "take care" of them. Which Unfortunately makes me think that mabey, while I don't belive in money meaning much or defining a person, mabey my issue might be relatable for those who are pretty well off.

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So I want to know and discuss with those who also feel the same and maybe either find somthing that could lead to a connection or an idea that could create it.

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Also some things about me, male 24, lives in USA, refuses to lie no matter what, likes to make and live adventures, can enjoy anything with the right people (as the experience is what I enjoy not the objects or activity itself), I tend to be hyper independent (I have been working on it), I tend to give my all or nothing in anything I do, I am secure with myself as my self worth is defined myself (as self is in the name and people come and go, but I am always here), not seeking a relationship ( just friends at this point as I am tired of women who just want sex and attention, has me a bit jadded), real world action oriented (I am unable to live in my head or place high value on things that aren't actively happening pr symbolic in nature, thus very present/future oriented), any thing else just ask as I am pretty open.

But let's see what comes of this.

When do you think a sponge has been thru enough grease, knives, cereal bowls and ketchup to decide it’s time to let it go and get a new one???

My cleaner was sick this week and the agency doesn’t have anyone else to do the clean as several people are on holiday. So now I either have to clean the house myself or live in a house that hasn’t been cleaned for a week.

This didn't feel important enough for "off my chest", but I wanted to complain, so....

I get so frustrated about all these posts about women always turning down boyfriends because they're too tired and dudes getting bent out of shape about it.

It touches a nerve because I've done this a few times, but it is ALWAYS laaaate at night, way past my bedtime, after I've been up for three hours waiting for him to finish gaming and come to bed. And it's ALWAYS on a night that I would've loved to have sex, but he stayed up so late I'm now exhausted, which doubles the frustration because I'm both horny and too exhausted to deal with it.

Women like sex. Your girlfriends are not turning you down because they don't like sex (unless you absolutely suck and don't prioritize her needs during it).

I swear, people would have better relationships and sex lives if the normalized time for sexy time was like 8 PM instead of "right before bed."

Society organized this terribly. It works when you don't have electricity and everyone is going to bed at nightfall, but it just doesn't work when people are staying up to all hours of the night doing all manner of random shit.

Also, I'm not in the mood when you've spent 3 hours absorbed in something else and haven't paid any attention to me all evening.

Everyone would be happier if sex was a thing of waking hours, or if we had rolling blackouts from 9PM to 7 AM. We need to save the planet anyway. The end.

There’s a viral ‘Bile Bus’ (Parents and kids bike to school every morning. 50-100kids. Due to my flight time I was trying to leave at the airport but the bike bus was passing through causing me to wait 5-10 minutes before leaving. When I got to TSA pre check my GF got through security faster than I did while she doesn’t have TSA pre. Didn’t have time for my 8 oz. dry cappuccino w/cinnamon.

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How long till my service provider gets mad at me for using them over my home ISP?

help

New steering sensor won't be in for weeks. Am I just supposed to wait until they shine on the dark parts? They always turned with the steering wheel and now they're just....there.

It makes me not want to wear it. It just makes it look worse. Is there any way to prevent it?

I’ve been wanting to take the bag out, but I got covid right after getting it.

I don’t even feel terrible, it’s been like a light cold for me, but I’d feel bad if I got anyone else sick.

fml

Even in my bed

I work from home, so my work laptop has its own two monitors and wireless keyboard/mouse.

And my main MacBook Air personal computer has two monitors and a wireless mouse/keyboard.

My 'travel and presentation' MacBook Air also has a wireless mouse.

Fortunately computer four, my "music and surveillance camera desktop" (Mac Mini) has a software KVM (Parallels) so it shares the mouse/keyboard with my main MacBook Air.

So I only have three mice for four computers to keep things simple. And altogether I do have eight displays including the three laptop screens.

Nonetheless, sometimes I do mix up the mouse of my work computer with my main MacBook Air mouse. I should color-code them.