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🗣️The issue is not that women are supposed to choose family over career, the issue is that men aren’t.

Louder for the people in the back

0 Comments
2024/09/12
20:53 UTC

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Enrich trade unions with feminism?

A piece from this book about the Swedish syndicalist union SAC

https://umea.sac.se/grundbok-om-syndikalism/

"Why is SAC a feminist trade union?

Syndicalism has emerged from the working class. A class perspective is therefore fundamental. Over time, SAC and other currents of the labour movement have been enriched with feminist perspectives.

SAC was the first union in Sweden to call itself a feminist union. This happened at the SAC congress of 1994. The feminist perspective was expressed there as an insight and a goal by the way of additions to SAC’s Declaration of principles. The insight concerns the fact that women as a group are subordinated and discriminated against in society. People with non-binary identities are also punished for deviations from a gender norm. The goal of SAC is to achieve equality between the sexes with a focus on the labour market and our union.

As the term equality has traditionally ignored women, the concept of gender equality is used to shed light on the power relationship between the sexes. The Swedish word for equality is jämlikhet. A new term, jämställdhet, has been coined for gender equality.

The Union program of SAC, adopted in 2006, emphasizes that the class struggle must be permeated by an understanding of structural injustices affecting women as well as ethnic and sexual minorities. In SAC’s Declaration of principles, adopted in 2009, it is emphasized that discriminated and severely exploited categories of workers must be given a significant influence in the class struggle. These governing documents express a development of the aspirations for equality in the class struggle. The intention is to broaden the struggle, include more categories of workers and support self-organization especially among those who suffer the worst positions and conditions.

As early as the 1920s, the syndicalist Elise Ottesen-Jensen emphasized that the labour movement cannot realize the liberation of humanity until unions change their internal male domination. We are unfortunately not there yet. Expressing a feminist goal at a union congress is one thing. To strive for gender equality in practice, both inside the union and on the workplace, is another matter.

SAC’s Gender power inquiry (in Swedish Könsmaktsutredningen) which was presented in 2010 emphasizes that an internal homosociality must be counteracted. The term refers to men associating with men primarily and promoting each other and excluding and ignoring women (consciously or unconsciously). A necessary counterweight to homosociality is that union democracy follows clear formal structures. The feminist perspective also needs to be included in union education programmes to break the traditional macho culture of trade unions in general.

Feminism becomes a part of the class struggle when the perspective is integrated into workplace organizing. When the perspective is present on a section level, the union becomes stronger and better at advancing the positions of all employees. The formation of more sections is in itself an element that facilitates women’s participation in the union. In syndicalist sections, union activity is conducted mainly at work during working hours. That is advantageous for everyone who is attributed and bears heavy responsibility for family and household, the unpaid reproductive work.However, more workplace organizing does not automatically produce gender equality. The feminist perspective needs to be presented already at introductory meetings for new members.

Workers’ solidarity under the banner of SAC, presupposes concrete knowledge of how women are discriminated against and subordinated, as well as solid tools for breaking these patterns – both within the union and at the workplace..."

(Read further in the book about the importance of a feminist perspective for a trade union community, for the leadership in sections and for the recruitment of members. Read about SAC’s vision of a classless and equal society.)

1 Comment
2024/08/27
20:10 UTC

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All women are scared of all men

I think it's safe to say this. I believe that even women who's been in a relationship for years are still scared of something happens he might get angry. Men don't live with this.

18 Comments
2024/08/20
00:07 UTC

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What is it with radfems becoming right wing/Trump supporters?

Why does it seem like all the radfems of the 2010s are now redpilled tradwifes voting for Trump and opposing female reproductive rights? Wtf happened?

11 Comments
2024/08/15
18:58 UTC

11

Not all men - about mensplaining

So my Bf complained about me using the term "mensplaining" when talking about someone we know. He said he doesn't like the term because it implies that all men do this. How would I feel if there was a term including all women and stuff like that were his arguments. What do I respond to this? It's certainly not as bad as saying "not all men are sex offenders". But to me it goes in the same direction of not seeing the issue and getting overly defensive over something that was not meant to be directed against him. What do you think & what would you say? Am I overreacting?

3 Comments
2024/08/08
17:05 UTC

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Social experiment worth trying

I recently came across a a post saying "Ask men to describe their dream girl and watch them describe a slave" Personally Ive asked an old man (not a rando off the street, someone i actually know but I dont feel comfortable sharing) and my best friend, there being a 40 smth year gap between them. The old guy said he would prefer a woman with, long, brunette hair, slender body, modest, who is willing to do everything around the house and who loves having kids. My friend said hed like a woman either average height or way Way WAY taller than him (hes 1.80 m), smart, maybe even smarter than him cuz he hates not having anything to talk about, well mannered as in to not swear cuz he himself doesnt swear, and thats it. The guy is in his sixty's and both me and my friend are 15. Not trying to make a point about the generations ofc as there are huge mysoginists in our class but thought it would be interesting.

4 Comments
2024/07/25
11:40 UTC

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I didnt think this was possible

Yesterday i was telling my mom about the gratuation that took tiktok by storm, becouse after training for the same ammount of years, a guy was allowed to give a speach to a room full of both male and female students, and to say that the women in the room wasted their time there, as having a kid was supposed to be their ultimate goal. Clearly whats wrong here is that he pretty much turned a celebratory moment condescending to half the people involved. I told my mom this and I shared my oppinion. She asked me "How do you know he isnt right? What experience do You have to prove him wrong?"... Im 15 and I was baffaled. I dont think I should have second thoughts about going to my mom for help incase something happends to me but now I do. "What experience do you have?" ENOUGH. And she allso asked me "Why are you so mad at him? He just shared his opinion." and I responded "Becouse not only is his opinion ass but allso becouse it made half the audience filled with people just as qualified as him, feel like shit." and she had the nerve to say "So you just dissagree with him."...please share your thoughts/ experiences becouse I feel like im going nuts rn.

4 Comments
2024/07/25
11:05 UTC

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I don’t know if this is respectful

I’m a school age trans man, I’ve always studied the suffrage movement and the individual suffragists before and after my social transition ( I haven’t medically transitioned at all) and I’ve wanted to make a Inez Milholland costume for Halloween, I’ve always loved Halloween and this my second one out and the first one I feel comfortable dressing fem but I need advice if this is respectful for a trans guy to do.

8 Comments
2024/07/17
02:44 UTC

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🗣️ men being drafted is not a female privilege but the result of decades of labelling women as the weaker sex

Now louder for the people in the back

9 Comments
2024/07/16
19:26 UTC

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