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So me (18f) has had the same boyfriend for about 3 years now and this grown woman (53f) has been coming to my job with three other people trying to fight me saying I’ve been fucking her husband I don’t even know her or her husband and I don’t know how to get them to go away anybody got any other ideas?

So this situation happened about a week and a half ago and not sure how to approach it moving forward. So for some background I'm a guy in my mid 20's with a girlfriend who ive been with for a little over a year and I work as an RBT for a ABA clinic in the Midwest. In my clinic there are about thirty female employees and two men myself included the incident in question involves one of the bcbas/supervisor's at my clinic.

According to two of my close friends I work with this supervisor pulled them aside under the guise of having to ask "a personal question" which assuming it was about them they agreed to answer however it turns out the question she wanted to ask was if my girlfriend and I were still seeing each other because she had checked my Facebook page and it states that I'm single ( this was not intentional as I forgot to change it due to hardly using it) she also went on to say that she felt as if I had been showing her more attention/ flirting the last few weeks with her???.

This caught Me extremely off guard for several reasons for starters out of all the bcbas at My clinic she Is by far the one I interact with the least and I definitely would not flirt with a coworker especially a supervisor even if I was single. Also she is MARRIED and currently pregnant she also told my coworkers/friends she had mentioned it to her husband.

After learning about this I've been monitoring how she acts around me and it feels like she's always trying to pull me into conversations/ wanting to be in personal space and I just want to know how I should handle this without causing a big deal I just want to do my work and go home without any extra drama or attention. I'm also annoyed she approached my coworkers instead of asking me herself it feels unprofessional as hell to me

I started a new job today and thinking back to my interview leading up to now, there has been flirting and this undeniable attraction between us. He has made a few comments here and there like when he asked for my ID (while signing contracts), he said I look pretty in the picture, we were standing outside the store fixing the chalkboard, this guy walks up to us and starts hitting it off with my boss and before leaving he asks if i’m his wife. I laugh it off and say no we work together and my boss says she’s cute enough to be one. After that he pulls me aside and says he wants to have a talk with me and says that there’s this flirty energy between us and i’m your boss and I’m very drawn to it. Before this even led to anything I cut him off and say I have a very friendly personality and I might’ve just came off like that, but there’s nothing there. He walked me out after I clocked out and says I don’t want our prior conversation to create something bitter between us, at this point I didn’t know what to do and just said I totally get it we’re on the same page. Mind you this is all happening on the first day of us working together. I really need this job, I don’t know if it’s worth it investing my feelings into this. I’ve never been in a situation like this before and honestly don’t know what to do. I can’t lie he is very attractive and we have a good 6-7 year age gap (i’m 19, he’s 25-26) Somebody help a girl out because I have no idea what to do in this situation lmao.

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I see so much hate and vitriol against short men on reddit, I felt it would be helpful to point out one great advantage. Everyone knows short men are way easier to top & dom. Sometimes you just want to manhandle your partner and take him to pound town but if he’s taller than 5’10” it’s just awkward. Don’t be so down on yourselves! You can all make the right guy feel like a man one day.

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So I'm with my coworker in the work truck. My dad's one of the bosses.. they've worked together for years I'm new. He's showing me pictures of his pot plants at home and accidently scrolls onto a picture of MY MOM . Saved from my father's Facebook no doubt I know the picture. She's in a bikini and well.. my mom has big boobs. So I know why he saved it I'm not stupid I called him out and he said it's his wife then he backpeddled and said fb saved random things - no it doesn't. Anyways he's a lying fuck that's probably perking off to pictures of my mom and I have to work with him for the next few weeks. If I told my dad he'd probably assault the guy and lose his job over it unless they laid the other guy off over it or something. Anyways I'm not trying to damage anyone's career and my parents are inseparable so I could care less what this creeps doing. But anyone know how I go the next few weeks without absolutely rocking this guy's shit in??

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Im never going to try dating again, men are so stupid, shallow and angry all of the time, my biggest plan and thought rn might be that it's better to stay single and invest energy into myself until someone comes along to convince you that their presence is more valuable & beneficial than my solitude.

English is not my native language so I apologise in advance for any grammar mistakes. It is a long and perhaps complicated story but I really need to know if anyone shares my thoughts.

I (26f) have a best friend (23m). we've know each other for only a year now but it instantly clicked. I was also looking for a new best friend since my last one of 14 years became my life long partner 4 years ago🤭

But back to the story:

My best friend (Let's call him Anthony) has a younger sister Mavis (21f). Mavis has ADHD and was diagnosed to have a lower then average IQ. This is important to remember.

Anthony and I also have a mutual friend, James (25m). James met Anthony and his family a few months before he introduced us to them.

James has had a very rough childhood, his dad was a pathological liar and manipulator and destroyed their whole family by being very abusive. So James cherishes his friends and other family like they're treasures. There is nothing he wouldn't do for someone he cares about. He is a good man and every girl would be lucky to have him.

James has a few flaws tho, he has a pretty rude sense of humor and tends to say what's on his mind without thinking to much beforehand. Due to his dyslexia this causes problems online.

Side notes: Mavis and her boyfriend Duncan (46m) had broken up for 2 months. Everything james is being acused of happend in between those 2 months

Also, james and mavis haven't always gotten along since they met. James was truly loved by the family and considered a part of it. Something mavis didn't like at all.

Fast forward to a year later:

I got a call from mavis her mother telling me that Anthony had groped her daughter repeatedly without her consent. She also said she was so done with him that she just started calling all of james his friends to tell this story to them.

I knew james for like 4 years now. He and I have gone to the movies or out to eat and he never made a move or even looked at me inappropriately. He Never talked about the wrong stuff and it was just 2 friends hanging out. He even proceeded to always ask my partner if he was okay with us going if he couldn't come along. Since they're best friends, my partner didnt mind. He has never shown this type of wrong behaviour So I had a hard time believing this.

Instead of blindly believing this accusation, I started to ask questions on what the evidence is and if I can see it.

There were some boundary crossing texts on WhatsApp but according to mavis most of the talk was on Snapchat. This app deletes every convo after 24h and there is no way of recovering it.

Mavis said that he asked rude/inappropriate questions and would get mad if she refused to answer them or play along. He also wanted inappropriate pictures and whenever they walked the dogs together or were cooking he would have groped her ass and other body parts.

I asked if she had any evidence of this being true but she she said that she was to scared to make screenshots since Snapchat shows the other party when someone screenshots your chat or profile. She also said that James intimidated her and threatened to beat her up if she ever told others about their conversations.

After the mother hang up the phone I got a call from james, he was panicking and had no idea what was happening. He said he got a call from mavis her mom that he was no longer welcome and that they were disgusted by him and were gonna make his life a living hell. He asked if he could come over beacuse he felt like he had nowhere else to go, i agreed and told my partner everything I've just heard. But while i explained what i was told, some new questions arose.

Mavis had said that James did this from his second Snapchat account named kelvin but that he had deleted this acount and she had blocked and deleted him first.

I searched the username and to my surprise the acount was still there. By now james had arrived and we decided to call this man that mavis claimed to be james. While james sat next to us the man picked up the phone and it became clear that this was not James but some man with an turkisch accent. The call was recorded and shown to mavis and her mom who arrived an hour later, but she claimed someone else must have the exact same username, which is not possible for Snapchat.

She proceeded to claim that after James deleted it someone else must have just made an acount with coincidentally the same user name but that is only possible if the first account was deleted over 30 days ago and this story happens now....

While reading their WhatsApp conversation I also noticed that mavis always laughed about his flirting and even played along. She never confronted him or set any boundaries and even seemed to enjoy their chats.

The lack of evidence and things she said are just very vague and when we ask her phone to search it trough she wouldn't co-operate at all while James handed his phone out of free will. To no surprise we found nothing except the same WhatsApp convo mavis has. There was also no trace of any second Snapchat acount or inappropriate pictures.

If anyone questioned mavis about "kelvin", she started to acuse James again and proceeded to defend herself. The questions we asked were to find out who kelvin could be since it clearly wasn't James. So her defending herself was really strange. She also fell silent very often for long periods of time, like she was trying to come up with a believable lie....

Meanwhile I was snapping with this kelvin in their presence with james his phone on the table. But somehow they still believed it to be james. "He must have a second phone to do this". was their next excuse. James was sat in another room since the mom didn't want to be in his presence. But I could still see him trough the door and he was just sitting and crying.

Her behaviour was not that of someone who was sexually intimidated by anyone. I can know because I'm a victim of this myself.

Although I know everyone has a diffrent reaction, her behaviour was so strange that even anthony started to believe that this is a whole conspiracy made up by her. In his words: its far fetched, but I wouldn't be surprised if mavis would do something like this.

Anthony was also present while this conversation happend. He had a hard time believing it all due to the lack of evidence and weird excuses. But his mom got furious with him and told him to leave the family if he truly believes that mavis is lying. Anthony yelled that she would regret saying this and then everyone left.

I talked to James about his WhatsApp messages being not funny or flirty at all and I would indeed get the wrong vibes if I was a stranger reading this. But to him it was innocent and he didn't mean any harm. I told him he had to be more careful in the future cause to him it can be harmless but the way he worded everything due to his dyslexia made it wrong for anyone who didn't know him well enough.

He agreed to this after some more explaining but he kept pleading with me that he really didn't do anything he was accused of. I asked him about all the groping and he said it only happend 1 time while cooking. Mavis didn't want to move out of the way for him to grab the herbs he needed so he squeezed trough the small amount of space between them accidently touching her ass with his tights.

They talked about this on WhatsApp where he indeed made some stupid inappropriate comments on how she didn't seem to mind it at all. Mavis herself just laughed about it but didn't really replied otherwise. To me that did indicate that she wasn't comfortable with it but if you have dyslexia you would have a hard time noticing this.

Knowing Anthony, he would never do anything to a girl without consent or getting signals that the feelings are mutual. I do believe he might have playfully touched her ass while flirting and walking the dogs but I do not believe that he touched her boobs or worse.... mavis also said that maybe she gave him wrong signals accidently but has no answer to why she never addressed james on his behaviour.

This whole story just seems so made and messed up that I truly believe mavis might have made it all up or atleast she is exaggerating it by A LOT.

Mavis is not the brightest and that is being shown by her lack of getting evidence and the way that she let Anthony walk all over her without setting boundaries. If her story is true....

But I am wondering what all your thoughts are on this story? Do you also think mavis might be making this all up?

I'll do my best to answer any questions. It's a long story and perhaps I forgot to add some info er etc.

I was unmodded three weeks ago and didn’t notice til now. I’m outraged.

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So I f20 have found some ......new things out about my ex m20 Since our breakup in December of 2023 he has refused to give back any of my belongings which is art supplies and panties mostly which's off why he won't give anything back won't even mail it to me and the entire relationship/breakup was a dumpster fire and he deserves the petty bs I do Anyway, since he won't return my things and says he will only do it if I see him in person and he doesn't have a car and I am unable to drive whenever he does sumthin to piss me off I log into his snap, I don't touch anything I just log in so it logs him out just so I can annoy him Well as of April 16th 2024 he posted something about me on instagram but had my page blocked so I used my oldphone to go check some things out and was on my old insta account that followed him and saw what he posts I then log into his snap just to piss him off when my stomach told me to snoop a little, so I did just that and I found out not only does he still not have a job after 2 years since his last one he is an alcoholic, the only person I know addicted to weed, and takes the wolf of Wall Street and lil peep as inspo for his life .......you can see where I'm going with this with the type of person he is well I saw that he started doing copious amounts of coke He lives with his step dad and 2 younger siblings, now I could care less about him I mean ofc I care but I care more about the kids possibly finding it/getting it and they get hurt or his stepfather loosing his job because something with the coke goes down because his family is good people Idk what to do if I should say something to one of the parents either his stepfather or his bio mom to tell them like hey I still care about ur wellbeing even if I'm not around cause his mom really liked me yk and I liked his family Or Should I sit back and leave it be because it's not my buissness and possibly someone gets hurt or killed in the process ?

Anyone know cha in ha family names I don’t want to be nosy cause I just want to find out something

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My bestfriend passed away last year. She left tragically after two short years with her daughter. We were so close that she made me a Godmother. She told me “if anything were to happen to her I would have to be the one to step in” I love this girl like my own she is so special to me not only because she is the last piece of my bestie but because she is my mini bestfriend too & I’ll literally do anything when it comes to her. My Goddaughter’s grandmother is keeping me from seeing her over something that I told her about her “friend”. Long story short, her “friend” was spreading rumors about my bestfriend’s (her daughter’s) court case in an office that a mutual friend of mine works in with her. I told the grandmother about it & she doesn’t believe me and is sticking up for her friend by cutting me completely off. She’s known this person less than 3 years and has known me almost my whole life. She even gave this woman the title “Godmom” to the baby right in front of me at the one year anniversary dinner she threw for my friend’s death. The lady was spreading rumors that were not true and I thought I was looking out by just telling her to be careful when it comes to this friend of hers. I accepted her decision and left her alone. I sent a birthday gift to the baby and she is so mad. She texted me and told me I’m making things worse by sending the 4 year old a gift. I don’t understand what was wrong with the gift. I’m not harassing or stalking. I understand that she doesn’t wanna speak to me that’s fine but it’s literally just a birthday gift she didn’t have to text me at all. I still have this feeling like I’m suppose to still look after the baby, the baby is fine, but out of respect for my friend I want to leave her mom alone and I refuse to argue with her no matter how much she tried to argue with me. But I still wanna do what I was asked to do and don’t want it to come off as harassment. I’m torn and hurt and wish I never said anything to the woman in the first place. The entire family who knows me and my intentions all feel bad for me and check on me and let me know that they don’t think I’m doing anything wrong. They believe that this is all out of grief. Some of her family members have even cried over this situation because they know how close my friend and I were. And honestly, it all seems so ridiculous and just petty.

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