I’m a C6 incomplete quadriplegic that is married to an amazing woman. We’ve talked about pegging since I have sensation in my bum. Has anyone experienced this, and do you have any advice? I know we’re going to start with a small dildo, lots of lube, and take it slow.

Hi I have a spinal cord injury since I was 18 months old. I’ve never had any sexual contact with a girl and really need to be touched in a sexual way anyone here have any tips on finding a girl into guys like me

I have a smaller member due to a spinal cord injury. Does anyone have any advice on a good male masturbator that has batteries? I have limited hand functionality, so a fleshlight is harder to use.

Any advice is greatly appreciated.

Any ladies here with osteogenesis? Recently my female friend-with-benefits with this disease graduated college and moved out of town and I really miss her. Sex obviously had to be very gentle with people with this issue and guys have to learn very quickly to become sexually passive to their partner and resist those urges to pump, or go too deep too fast, or flex inside of someone’s body. I personally had to allow my friend to dictate all the bodily movements during sex so she wouldn’t get hurt, but the orgasms and sensuality of slow, deliberate intercourse are amazing when you allow yourself to surrender to someone else’s rhythm. Most of the time she would sit in my lap during sex, with her back to me, and lean back against my chest, and kiss me while she slowly rocked back and forth while I was inside of her. On the other hand, I just had to sit there, stay hard, maintain her balance on top of me, and kiss her back while she did 90% of the work. Anyone else have experiences similar to this? I just miss this. 😕

I am offering free figure drawings to anyone with a disability or chronic illness (again!)

hello, once again I’m offering a few free drawings for anyone who is disabled/chronically ill/neurodivergent

Body positivity, affirmation, and destigmatization are important to be as a chronically ill figure artist. So in the spirit of that, I want to offer my drawings to this community for free.

All drawings will be 100% confidential, private, and will be delivered via Reddit DM or telegram. I will not publicly post the artwork without your permission (no obligation to give permission, btw!) and I don’t have any other social media. I obviously don’t really have a way to prove this, but I have done lots and lots of private drawings for people who don’t want their nudes/face/etc just openly shared. I really understand and respect that this is a vulnerable thing, but I hope you feel inclined to trust me. I am the only one who will see your reference pics, and you are the only one who will see the drawing.

You can check out my post history to see some of my previous work (which was allowed to be shared).

Last time I did this, I did almost all digital artwork, but have since been working on traditional ink drawings. I’m happy to do either, just please let me know!

Simply comment here and/or send me a DM to request a drawing. Please tell me any specifics you want included or not included. Nude/NSFW drawings are the majority of what I do, but I can do clothed if need be.

Preference will be given to those who I didn’t draw yet, so if I’ve drawn you before, you may have to wait. I also have limited capacity, so I’m setting a (tentative) limit to three masculine, feminine, and androgynous/nb drawings each, for a total of 9 drawings. Each one will take about two hours or so, so please be patient.

Obviously you must be 18 or older and I reserve the right to deny your request.

EDIT: I’m at (and beyond lol) capacity with masculine folks. I still have a bit of room for fem and nb. Thank you all for the great response!

I F35 was in a car accident that has left me with a incomplete spinal cord injury. I lost all feeling/control/sensation. From my waist down. I was in the hospital for emergency surgery. With the time spent in the hospital my fiancé 39M made the hard decision to postpone the wedding while I rehab. Slowly I have regained feeling and strength in my legs but I still have no control over my bowel or bladder; as well I can’t feel my lady parts. I get so turned on but I feel like there’s like a wall around my whole groin that stops any sensation like I’m dead. He’s been so great and not pressured me ever for sex and has been nothing but supportive. But I have such a need that is never met. I haven’t had an orgasm in almost 9 months. The only sexual stimulation I get is when I give him a blow job because I get turned on pleasuring him but there is no big finale for me. I really don’t know who to talk to or what to do. It kills me wanting to be sexual and intimate with my partner; but now I have worry about if I’m going “have an accident” or even feel anything so I just pretend that I don’t need anything. I’ve talked a bit about it to him but I feel like he doesn’t understand what it feels like for ME. Anyway.. that’s my rant

Shout-out to all the disabled people out there that spend every single night alone. I hope you know that you are not alone.

Hi everyone, I'm 30M and struggling to orgasm when having sex with someone so we're trying toys. We have tried an Alex Neo (Skavom) thrusting masturbator but it wasn't easy to use and not an intense enough sensation. Do you have any recommendations?

I am a bisexual woman and have been feeling pretty inadequate about what I can offer people sexually lately. I like to think I'm pretty good at communicating and that's not been much of a problem with exes but no matter what the communication is like I have no idea how to get around this issue. A lot of what I can offer people is just penetration, moaning and dirty talk. I have very severe physical limitations. Very. Basically I really struggle moving anything. So that usually means the guy does a lot of the work. I feel bad because I feel I can't please him no matter how much I try. It's only exacerbated by women because I can't even give them piv!!! Unless they prefer being a stone.

I don't know just looking for ideas. I can't give bjs (unless he does the moving, which kinda removes the fun I imagine. Also can't go very deep) or hjs and my partner deserves to be pleased. I'm sure someone will mention dating other disabled people and that's a good shout but I don't feel fixes my problem. That I physically struggle to lift any part of my body!

Update: I forgot to add this would be for cis and trans men, of course. (I've been told that some SNIFFIES orgies exclude trans men.)

I'm looking to host a M4M orgy at my home in Anaheim, CA. I live in an accessible 1-bedroom apartment with wide doorways and a roll-in shower.

I've hosted orgies through the SNIFFIES website, so I have some experience. This would be a sober (no drinking, smoking, or drugs) orgy. This would be also a vanilla-to-light kink event. And, it would be free.

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Would anyone be interested?

Kind of always wanted to be a porn star only problem is is I’m a nobody with spastic quad CP from Pennsylvania and no idea how to get into it partner and I have made videos tried posting them a few places, but it didn’t work. Anyone got any ideas?

What are some of the best ways that I (26F) can leverage my disabilities in sex work that aren't super obvious? I currently live with my parents so no camming or anything... but I can sure as hell send some sexy messages lol ;)

I currently don't have a chair, and most of my disabilities aren't obvious, so I don't know if I'd be able to do the whole devotee thing... huh.

Any thoughts/suggestions welcome. :)

How many of you are into more kinky things due to sensation issues with your disability? I wanna hear all the kinky things you guys are into don’t be shy. I’m into bondage, gags, anal play, and nipple play

My (40M) partner (45F) has significant nerve damage around their genitalia making it difficult to near impossible to orgasm (alone or partnered sex) which is hugely frustrating for them to the point that they frequently prematurely end sex. They get much more enjoyment from penetration and usually use a hitachi for external stim but penetration leaves them too sore and we then take a break for days to a week. I love them and really want to make them cum a lot more than I’m able to as well as find a way to enjoy being together without the pressure of an orgasm. (I am talking to them about this. As a couple we are at a loss)

1. Any suggestions for a super lube/vaginal suppository that would help with that uncomfortable raw feeling after? (Currently use a ph balanced organic lube)
2. Any suggestions regarding working around limited genital nerve function?

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Hi, I'm 24F and I have chronic pain, I live with my mom and I have no desire to move any time soon, we both work from home.

I was wondering how some of you that have a caregiver (or live with family) deal with privacy in regards to masturbation, for example. It's really difficult to find the time to pleasure myself, and I haven't bought sex toys I like because of this, too. I try to do it at night but I take pills so I fall asleep before orgasms sometimes.

I also know that I can't never bring home a sex partner either, it's very frustrating.

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I'm a disabled creator (primarily a writer/editor) who was rejected from an erotic serial platform (not naming names) because there was "not an established market for erotica with a disabled character."

Was this platform correct? I'd love to discuss this.

Her comes part two of my experience with the nice, lovely, amazing and wonderful man

At part one i discribe the first drop i got out of this lovely man. At part two I will tell you about the sex we had.

New day has come and he will come:

We wrote each other to meet again to test his blue pills and I was not shore what to expect, but i took it as an expert and what would be the worst part? That I have sex with him.

So I was going to his flat and I saw at the color of his skin, that he took one blue pill. I was not shore what to expect, where to start.

So... he comforted me to the bed and played himself there. He got his cock out and it was limp. I thought it would be hard because of the pill. After only six or seven strokes it das there. After a few more it was rock hard. He saw it in my eyes, that I wanted to rub it. And I took it. Man it was hard. Like it was made of rock.

I can work with this one:
(Get it in)

I don't know how long I was riding him. He was hard and I told him.

I enjoyed every stroke and how often do you have the chance to fuck longer than a few minutes.

I was at the top of my sport so I could handle a long nice session but I had to cum and played with my clit so i could cum. I galloped him really hard when I came.

He was still hard.

I ask him how he masturbated when he had the urge to come.

He sat in his chair again and masturbated I'm front of me. I ask what would help. He couldn't tell so I told him to show me his favorite porn. (It was some couple friendly from a big company with girls in stockings or something like that.) So we sat and he masturbated next to me. He was on short before giving up when I had the cramp idea. He took his legs of his chair and stretched them out and masturbated. He said he feel something, like he is close to it but his arm is getting crampy so I took it. A good hard cock. It was pulsing more and more and he said he is close and i should go on. He pressed one leg down and with my left i pressed the other down and i felt it cuming. I knew it and he knew it.

It was like a volcano and i felt the penis erupting. I made him cum. It was because of me. And nobody else did it before me. The pure feeling and seeing him cum was so fucking hot. His cum was shooting out and he was looking so happy.

[Only for explaining other paraplegic:]

He told me that I helped a lot and the fact, that i watched porn with him. He also enjoyed now masturbating by himself and he doesn't cum all the time, but sometimes.

How is he doing it now:

Craps and he said that it helps to get the blood circulation up. He told me the best possibility is after he was in a sauna or the day after.

Here is my confession that I did not tell before I post it here on Reddit.

I have received permission to share with you.

Short version: I gave a lovely, amazing and wonderful wheelchair user his first orgasm since he was in a wheelchair!

Description from us at this time:

(he looked great and i was at my top)

So that you can get an idea of me at that time, I will describe myself at what I looked like at that time: I was around 40 at the time and flirted a lot with my eyes. he told me he loved the sparkle in my eyes. My figure at the time was athletic by my standards with a small but firm little cup (I miss it) and a butt that men stared at. I'm (still) 170cm and weighed around 54kg at the time. So I was a hottie.

He lived in the block next door and I spoke to him often, but I thought he was just looking for a nice chat and at the time (and as I can see from his photos as I'm still friends with him on Facebook) looking good. I describe him as sporty. At that time he played wheelchair basketball in a team and was/is a cutie. He still cannot move his legs and is paralyzed in the middle of his thoracic vertebrae.

The initiation:

One day I started talking to him and I couldn't remember how or why, but he told me that he had been prescribed these little blue pills but didn't have anyone with whom he could try them out. His problem with previous women was that he got to know them and thought he had found the one, but the girls never wanted him to take anything because he told them that he could maintain an erection (while masturbating).

Unfortunately, every time after about 3 minutes his penis became flaccid and the girls always took it upon themselves. I said him. that he should not surch a wife for this, but rather a woman who should simply try out sex with him. He cheekily asked if I wanted to be the woman with whom he could try this out. I visibly blushed and didn't know what I wanted to say and a horny spark inside me made me say yes.

He told me he couldn't come, but often felt like he was close to it. But he could only do this when he masturbated. I said that he won't have any pressure with me because I just want to help him now and secretly I wanted to see what his body and penis looked like.

I said that I have time right now and since i was hot for him at this moment, I'd like to come with him. I trusted him and knew nothing bad would happen to me.

His penis was limp, which irritated me because the flirting turned me on. but he took it out and started masturbating in front of me and within a minute he was vivid.

The penis:

(the little gorgeous guy in the pants)

(Guys, skip this one 😉)

I want to describe him for all the women among you. what the handsome lance looked like. He was about 18cm when fully erect and straight as an arrow. The veins weren't too ribbed, but they were clearly visible on the underside. I thought to myself that I could do something with the penis, this beauty, and thought about the girls he had before. Maybe they were too gentle with the magnificent piece.

[now I have to masturbate for a moment because I'm already too hot from writing]

The Act:

(let it go)

He said that i can do something with the penis and I want that right now. Then it occurred to me again that he might be hammed because he can become limp again during fucking and I didn't want to wait 30 minutes for the blue pill, so I ask him not to take one.

I simply asked: did other girls blow him, or did they get straight into it? I would like to have the snake in my mouth.

He was taken aback and said it is his first blowjob. He suggested lying on the floor and he just continued masturbating in front of me and I could already see the pulsating veins of the penis and so he sat down on the floor.

I put it in my mouth and man, the thing was nice and big and round. So I looked him straight in the eyes and started sucking. I felt that he was becoming a little softer and I didn't want him to feel like he wasn't enough with me either. I didn't say it but turned my bottom towards him and pulled up my skirt. He wanted to lick me first, but since I didn't want an STD, I told him to caress me and touch my pussy gently.

When he just looked at me, I rubbed his lance hard and that's when he got harder again. I was horney because he penetrated me with his finger and immediately tested the G-spot. Really horny, I handled her penis harder than I had ever done with another man. The penis also became harder the harder I worked on it. I felt both of his legs start to tremble. This surprised me since he said he couldn't move it. He said these are cramps. I held his legs and pushed them down firmly. I had his penis in my mouth and sucked as hard as I wanted. He was shaking, but it didn't hurt him, so I wanted to suck the sperm straight out of him. The sucking was so strong that he began to tremble more and more.

There was the first drop!

his stomach was vibrating like crazy and I was horny and wanted more, so I sucked like a mosquito that found blood. it continued to shake and more drops came till the penis became flaccid and so I stopped.

the aftermath:

(Show sperm and figure everything out for act number two)

I showed him the of sperm that I had on my tongue and he was like a squirrel on speed. He spoke so quickly and I felt pure gratitude. He had come for the first time and I felt like the hottest woman on earth because I was the one who did it. No woman before me had ever let a drop come out of that penis. Just me. I felt like a goddess!

I said goodbye, even though he refused to lick me. I stood up and said that I want to feel that penis inside me next time. I didn't want to come through his tongue but through his cock.

Preview:

(I will write a second story and maybe third part)

Let's put it this way: the second time he was shooting a lot and I'm going to tell you how to make a paraplegic cum hard.

In the meantime, masturbate diligently for me, I will too.

[Please tell me on which group I could post it too. I am not here for likes. I want everyone to know that paraplegic guys can come too and tell you how. And if you see a girl/guy who is paraplegic ans hot: tell them. It will make there day just a little brighter.]

[Still working on part 2]

Hi all Hope everyone is well? I’m a 47 year old male with cerebral palsy. I hadn’t had sex for 5 years before this happened. I’m from Australia and I to relocate to my hometown.

I have 24 hour care and I created a webpage on a social media site to connect people with disabilities with support workers. Anyway to cut a long story short I connect with a therapist from years ago as she was having issues with my page.

We chatted a bit and we discussed sex as I studied sexuality in the past. I stated that I hadn’t had sex since I had moved back and asked if knew anyone that could help me out she no and she told me she thought about it but didn’t feel comfortable doing it. Which was cool as I’m used not much happening. You might be wondering why I didn’t get a sex worker my hometown is a small city and the sex workers are limited.

A few weeks later Claire messaged me and said I’m ready to fuck you, but it’s a one time deal. I was like this never happens to me. I asked if she was sure and she yes. I had to tell my support worker to leave for a while

After about 20 minutes Claire arrived I have had sex a number of times but I was still nervous. She came in and we chatted and listened to music together. Then she removed her top her breast were ample with nipples plump and excited. She said do you like what you see, I nodded and we kissed. I don’t know about everybody else but kissing really turns me on.

As we kissed my penis began to grow and throb. She is now removing herpanties revealing her shaved pussy it was wet and pink with her clit slightly showing. She pulls my shorts off and played with throbbing dick

Unfortunately I need hoisting so it dampens the mood a little. She laid me down and sad do you want to sit on your face and I said yes. She lowered herself on to my face I was loving it but she stopped because she said she didn’t want to suffocate, honestly I didn’t care. Then she was like let’s fuck so she got on top of me I was in ecstasy grinding on my dick. I feel like this my happy place if that doesn’t sound weird. She eventually decides to do reverse cowboy all I see is her bum going up and down and grinding after a while she gets off and she says cum in my mouth so she starts sucking me like a vacuum I squirted hot cum in her mouth.

Sorry this long, feel free to ask any questions. I wish for more experiences but I doubt it

Hi everyone!

I'm just wondering if there's is a big enough devotee market out there to merit starting the above pages as a LAK/RBK and what people like to see?!

TIA

I have an autoimmune disease (severely limits my walking/using my hands, various other daily activities as well) and a couple other things mixed in with it. As a consequence of that I stay bald because I don’t have the physical capability to maintain longer hair. I can’t really hold razors without immense pain so I stopped shaving my legs all together. Smaller areas like my underarms and bikini are manageable to an extent but typically not perfectly smooth either. As a woman I find it really difficult to find men who are attracted to me or comfortable with body hair on top of my limited mobility plus having asymptomatic hsv. It sucks not being desired and not being able to satisfy my sexual needs alone. How do you guys cope? I read a lot and that helps sometimes. Or I end up watching porn which gets old. I just miss the feeling of a real person inside yknow? I could attempt to find someone online which I have in the past but it’s so dangerous and even when they say they’re okay with things they tend to change their mind when they see it. I don’t always think about this that much but every now and then when I’m feeling depraved it sucks.

I'm 22 now and a complete para. My pelvis was injured, so I am a mess of scars and I'm incontinent.

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I tried relationships in college after I was hurt, but it never worked out. Now I'm in the real world. Sex and couples are everywhere and I am so isolated, Everyone is good to me and I have male friends and I am very pretty and dress well, but no one seems to think of me as sexual at all.

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I've had only one relationship remotely physical that made it to some cuddling. I was laying down and he massaged my legs. I realized that he thought I could feel this, but of course I couldn't. He made it up to my skirt and found my urine bag and said, I kid you not, "oh, shit." It was completely spontaneous and he immediately apologized. That was that. I tried to explain that I still wanted to go on, and explained that I couldn't feel anything. I even put his hand on a breast. But he was turned off.

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I see happy paras in couples on the internet. Yet, I am alone in a sea of couples.

I would really like to be on top of my partner but have trouble doing things like planking due to back pain and lack of arm muscles. Any suggestions?