/r/DirtyPenPersonals
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What are the sexual experiences that have shaped who you are today? That’s what I’m inviting adult women of all ages to chat with me about.
Whether your experience is a treasured memory, a cautionary tale, a risqué adventure, or even a shameful episode; whether it was a one-off, a phase of your life, or it became a lifestyle for you, I’m here for it!
What’s in it for you here? To quote Seneca, “There is no delight in owning anything unshared.” Sharing with me is an opportunity to increase your delight in having had these experiences, to relive them, and to explore the feelings and kinks that remain with you as a result of your experiences.
Your kinks and limits will shape what you tell me, and my own will shape the questions I ask you.
I’m an experienced interviewer and an active listener, and I will ask you insightful questions to make your retelling experience hotter and more fun, perhaps even therapeutic.
So if you’d like an empathetic conversation that’s all about you, I look forward to your DM or chat request!
In case you know it by a different name, pantsing is when someone has their pants, skirt or dress is ripped down, often in public and by surprise. As you can probably guess, I'm interested in the public humiliation angle of it.
Whether it's in the locker room, the middle of a crowded college party, or just a small group of close friends, pantsing brings a unique blend of public humiliation and loss of power that I'd love to chat about. Of course if you've experienced or witnessed it first hand, I want to hear your story and all the details. If it was done to you, how did it make you feel? If you were a bystander, how much did you see? What was going through your mind as you watched it happen?
As somebody who's been on the receiving end, it's hard to describe the sudden rush of emotions that accompany it. A combination of sheer surprise, taboo feeling of exposure, and powerlessness all overwhelm you before you have time to process what happened. The vulnerability and embarrassment you feel when you've suddenly found yourself involuntarily on display, realizing that it's outside your control and that, like it or not, you're now the center of attention. You might try to cover yourself, but the damage has already been done.
If you don't have any experiences to share but are just curious, feel free to reach out anyway! Open to both chats and direct messages.
Kinks: ENF, humiliation, free use, voyeurism, exhibitionism, sph, CFNM
Hey all, I'm Daniel. Long time user of DPP who took an extended break but is back and starting fresh. I figured I might as well post here to give potential partners a good idea of who I am.
What I'm looking for a dorky gal who likes to talk about NSFW and SFW topics. Just like the post says: an FWB. Ideally someone who is funny, a good conversationalist, and can match my (admittedly vanilla) freak.
As for myself I'm your typically white dude. I'm currently single and, honestly, dating is fucking exhausting. It's part of why I'm here. It's so much easier and lower stakes. I've met so many cool and amazing people through these subs. It's nice just to have a good conversation, maybe cum together, and just unwind.
My hobbies are fairly predictable. I like to paint, play videogames, read, and hang out with friends when we can actually carve out some time to get together. I mostly read sci fi/fantasy, which apparently is pretty rare now? I've seen so many articles about how men don't read fiction. Well, I'm out here reading nothing but.
Politically I'm very left leaning, which I'm hoping won't be a problem for most of Reddit. Maybe we could distract each other from the increasingly bad vibes the world is putting out.
As for RPs I'm a big fan of normal, grounded roles. I pretty much just play myself physically. I like the more boring set ups, like FWBs, roommates, coworkers. You know, your staples. I play in the 1st person and prefer to do so over chat, but messages are fine as well.
As for kinks I like to say that I'm vanilla plus. I like rough sex, dirty talk, anal, spanking, outfit control, and risky sex. I'm open to other things though, so just run them by me. My limits are noncon, gore, vore, and toilet stuff. Also, please be over 25.
Anyway, if any of this appeals to you please feel free to shoot me a message!
Hello, I'm jack, a twenty year old man from the north West of England (think cheshire/wirral area). And whilst my location is of little importance. I'm deeply interested in breeding fetishes and its wider umbrella. Including impregnation, creampies, animalistic "mating", "hucows", lactation fetishes, and especially the pregnancy fetishs
I'd love to talk to woman (FtM and Afab NBs are welcome as well) to talk about your experiences in the area of those kinks. If you're deeply interested in them or only passively. If you've dabbled in it or devoted to it. I want to learn what the appeal is from the female perspective. I'm especially interested in discussing if you yourself have ever been pregnant. And how it affected your body and sex life/sexual interests.
Of course, the inverse is also amenable to me. If you have questions about mens perspectives into the fetish, the umbrellas around it. Any other kinks I may have that relate or weave into this fetish. Or even what it feels like to cum inside in a pussy from a mans point of view. please ask away. I'm an open book about my interests and experiences
Small penises will never be desirable. Sure, people might be impartial towards them but they’ll never be a trait that really draws someone in. Big cocks, however? Easily. Even if it’s ’too big’ it’s at the very least aesthetically pleasing. Western culture has linked penis size to masculinity, where a big dick indicates you’re confident and dominant while a small penis indicates you’re insecure and submissive.
How do I know? I’m outwardly a masculine guy. I’m tall, I have broad shoulders, a full beard, I’m muscular. But I have a tiny penis. I’ve been on dates where I’ve seen the excitement of the girl I’m with, clearly building some sort of expectation of me until my size is revealed. Then it’s gone in a flash. It’s ended in an “oh….”, outright rejections, even laughter. It stings really good.
Don’t get me wrong, this post isn’t a lamentation. I enjoy these things. Many of my close female friends are size queens or have stories about the time they were drawn in by a big dick. Whether or not it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy I’m not sure, but you can reference my post history to understand where having a small dick has led me sexually.
I’d love to talk about this with you all today. I want to hear your stories about how a big dick has drawn you in, what you enjoy about them, what you think of small dicks. If you’re a man, tell me about your experiences. I’ll be sharing my own as well. I’m into deeper, long term connections as well so let’s get to know each other outside of the sexual realm as well!
I moved across country last year and work in stock at a big box store and do strength and conditioning training on the side. Everybody thinks I am this big soft spoken giant. I am 6'4 325 lbs. I enjoy strongman and powerlifting.
I barley talk to anybody at work or most of my family. They think I am shy and odd because I never have long term relationships.
I like being alone because it allows me to have filthy fucking fun.
They have no clue I love to be the first; a woman's first big cock, first rough fuck, first BDSM experience, or first squirt. I love being who they compare to all other men in the future.
I love fucking randos from a dive bar, women from the gym, or even former co-workers. It is so much more fun to pick up a woman in the flesh than a stranger from online. But got a soft spot for the cuckold stuff just outta work to set them up.
I do not consider myself gay but if I really need to get off I will let fuck anyone really fem MTF trans folk, NB folks.
I feel the ship has sailed for me having a nice and normal life, with a wife and family.
Really horny and really bored.
I, like a lot of left-leaning women, am having a lot of anxiety about the state of global politics. You know what’s a great way of dealing with anxiety? Sublimating it sexually!
I’m looking to talk it out with conservative men primarily although uh, I guess right-leaning lesbians or nonbinary people are also free to reply if they exist? I’d love to talk about what you think will be the effect of a rising conservative order on sexuality. And I guess what I mean by that is I want to talk about how you think women like me should be treated, and how superior you are to me. I’d love to hear your thoughts on feminism, and sexual liberty. I like the friction of a political argument turned sexual, the line between hate and lust getting crossed and double-crossed. We don’t have to particularly like each other or even respect each others ideals to have fun!
I’m very open minded when it comes to kinks, so feel free to try and push my boundaries. I particularly like anal, degradation, spanking, sexism, hatesex, hand stuff, and body odors. My hard limits are blood and violent sexual assault, but otherwise everything else is open to discussion!
So yeah, my inbox is open. Feel free to say hi, or something ruder if the spirit moves you. I’m open to conversation pretty much any time, if this post is still up then I’m still available to talk!
After graduation I did the normal thing: go off to college, make new friends, find a spouse and start a new life. But when we moved back to my hometown, we had to make some new friends and find new groups for our hobbies: one of which was attending swingers parties. When you do it for a while in one area you start to run into the same people over and over. But when it’s your first night in a new city, there’s a world of possibilities. So we researched, found a party at a hotel, booked a room and decided to dress up and see who we could find.
I always tend to let my wife be the one to go out and make small talk, she’s the outgoing one after all, especially after a drink or two. But when she brought back a guy she had interest in and his wife, my heart almost stopped. It was my high school English teacher from years before. We quickly recognized each other, but our spouses were too deep down each others throats leaving us together. We laughed about the awkwardness, shared a drink and made it clear we didn’t have that student teacher relationship anymore. And ultimately we come to conclusion: it might be fun to “show your old teacher what you learned”
Kinks: Realism, Swapping (obviously), cum play, shower sex, oral, some light spanking/hair pulling. Limits: anything non-con or gross.
Send me a chat if you’d like to play for the luck of the draw. I prefer chat to Reddit messages, discord even better if you’re comfortable with that. I generally like to play scenarios that lean towards realism and am definitely willing to adjust parts of this prompt to make it seem more real and authentic to you.
Hi there!
I'm a Dom who has been active for a few years now. I've known I was interested in D/s as a Dom since I was a teen. I have a 24/7 submissive and view D/s as more of a lifestyle than a kink or hobby. I enjoy discussing it in it's various different forms as it keeps my brain active and creative when coming up with new ideas for my own submissive. So, I'm interested in discussing D/s dynamics and the various forms and functions it comes in. D/s in general, pet play, DDlg, and total power exchange (TPE) as a foundation.
I've been a Dom to several submissives, mainly long-distance. I've owned slaves, pets, and littles in casual and TPE type of dynamics. I also enjoy serving as a mentor to submissives that are inexperienced and or looking for insights. I've been described by many submissives as a gentle Dom, but I know when to be strict and can be sadistic if that's what we both enjoy. I view Dominance as not only a role, but as a duty. One to care for and protect a submissive, rather than one of control and selfish desires. I see many fake Doms who treat submissives very poorly, and not in a sexy way.
I'd love to chat on Discord if you have that, just makes messaging back and forth easier. However, I'll do reddit if that's your preference. I hope to hear from some folks for some stimulating conversation!
In the depths of my debauchery, I find that I am most turned on by being in control and in power over someone I can confidently call inferior to me. To dominate them, to rule over them, it brings me a sexual gratification that is hard to replicate. But, this isn't about me. This is about you, and how you'd like to hand control of yourself over to me, even if only for a short while. So, let's talk about you, and how I can degrade, dominate, and domesticate you into being my perfect little plaything.
Maybe we'd start with stripping away your humanity; slapping a collar and leash on you, enforcing your nudity with corporeal punishments, peeling your name away in favor of derogatory terms and names. Let's discuss punishments, ways to discipline you when you've been bad or just when I'd like to satiate my desires. Denying you your orgasms, or bending you over my lap so I can deliver some spankings, or making you do the chores around the house while your needy cunt is slick with want and desire.
Speaking of the house, it's expected of you that you'd take on a housewife role for me. After all, you'd be home all day, so best make yourself useful. Let's talk about how you'll do chores with a toy humming away between your legs, or how you'll be made to cook and bake meals for me, wearing nothing but an apron as you do so.
Or perhaps you'd like to focus on punishments. Discipline and enforcement will be an inevitability, after all. I'm personally fond of the simplicity of bending someone over my lap and delivering some firm smacks to their butt, but I've also loved the idea of introducing floggers, canes, and paddles, and perhaps spanking more than just their butt as well. You get caught masturbating without permission? Best we use a paddle to punish that needy cunt of yours. Though, your breasts also deserve a bit of attention; it's only fair that we use a cane to make them nice and red for me.
So, yes. This evening, I'd love to talk about the prospects of pet play and domesticating you. This will be a concert about a shared fantasy kind of thing, with ourselves as the main characters. Let's flesh out this fantasy, build upon it, go thoroughly in-depth about every last piece about it.
If this interests you, please, shoot me a Chat. Introduce yourself, I'd love to hear about you.
Good day, everyone!
24M here! 6’1”, lean and muscular. Articulate and low-pressure, with a heart of gold! (Or so I’ve been told!)
Even if you do not reach out, please read the BOLDED section below!
I know, I know. “Wow, another young guy with a MILF fetish. Yawn.”
Just hear me out for a second of your time and hopefully I can address those oh-so-common concerns! This isn’t another “show boob” type post- I really, truly want to get to know the woman behind the body. The woman who may feel at times that her age or her body type may be not be as appreciated as it once was. Whether through pregnancy, aging, or just straight-up normal weight gain- you now have a few additional pounds and a body that cannot help but show it.
I’m hoping to be a no-pressure, happy, exciting outlet for you to reignite some of that passion. To feel like no matter where you are, or how you’re feeling, you have someone you can just pop a message over to and say “hey, I could really use a good praising/gassing up right about now”.
THAT is where I would love to come in. To treat you like the sensual, intelligent, exciting woman that you are inside, despite what you may feel nowadays due to that heavy, curvybody of yours. I want to make you feel to your very core that you are not sexy despite your mature BBW body; you are sexy because of it.
Look down at your body right now. No really, seriously; look down from your screen. What do you see? Two stretch-marked, massive, sagging breasts capped with large, mature nipples? A round, soft, jiggly belly that makes itself known in any moderately-fitted dress? A pair of tree-trunk thighs, dotted with cellulite? A wide, heavy butt that can’t help but spill over every seat you sit on? THAT is beauty. Natural beauty. Real beauty. You own a body that, while maybe forgotten by mainstream tastes, deserves all the love in the world. You deserve to feel wanted, sexy, beautiful, and top-of-the-world confident. THAT is what I want to be for you!”
Specifically, what is your genuine opinion on potential relationships between women of your age and younger men like me? I’m not trying to prompt a typical, hyper-sexual, porn-y cougar/cub relationship; I genuinely want to know, would an actual, mutual relationship work between us? Would we wake up every morning totally enamoured with each other, treating each other like loving, equal partners while still realistically being aware of the age gap? Could the celebration of this difference become just another aspect of our relationship, without hampering anything?
If this little relationship sounds like something you would like to try, why not shoot me a little message and see if we click? I’d absolutely love to hear from you!
If not, have a wonderful day!
-S
Cheating is one of my favourite kinks, and that's what I want to talk about today. I always love flirting with the women I know who are taken, trying to chip away at their boundaries, finding loopholes with their partners.
When my married friend tell me she wants to suck my cock, she says it's just for fun, because it's just a text. Your boyfriend says he is totally okay with you hanging out with your male friends. But he didn't say anything about getting drunk and letting him touch your tits.
Is it cheating if you get naked in front of each other, but there is no touching? Is it cheating when you're just exchanging nudes, but you're never going to meet? It's surely not cheating if you let him fuck you with a condom, right? What about groping your tits? As long as you have your clothes on, it should be fine, right? Or letting him rub his hard cock against your pussy, as long as it's not penetrating?
I want to discuss what your thoughts and experiences are with pushing the boundaries of your relationship and whether or not you can call something as cheating. I would also like to hear about things that you let other men (or women) do with you, but your partner isn't allowed to. For example, fucking your partner with a condom on while going bare while cheating. Let them take your ass whereas you told your husband you never do that.
As it's obvious, we can also go into cuckolding scenarios. Maybe you are too daring and love breaking rules right in front of your husband. Is it to turn him on or because it gets you off to humiliate him? In what ways do you imagine humiliating that poor guy?
Come tell me all about it. It's all good as long as he doesn't find out. Remember, chatting is not cheating.
And my crime, I mean bad decisions and bad jokes.
Okay, let’s be real — I’m a guy who loves a good adventure. This year alone, I’ve hiked over 300 miles, and there’s nothing like the peace of being out in nature, taking in the views and pushing myself to new limits. That being said, I’m also about to start a new chapter next week — I’ll be diving into a finance job that’s going to test my brainpower in all kinds of ways.
But here’s the thing: While I’m serious about working hard, I also like to balance it out with a good laugh, a bit of wit, and some fun conversations that don’t take themselves too seriously. I’m kind, funny, and genuinely enjoy getting to know people.
Now, if you’re looking for someone to chat about everything from the latest hiking trail I conquered to the salacious stuff that keeps you up at night, I’m your guy. I’m all for engaging in conversations that are a little on the wild side — after all, life’s too short to take too seriously, right?
So if you’re a kind, funny girl who enjoys good banter and isn’t afraid to get a little spicy, let’s talk. Maybe we’ll share some stories, swap some laughs, or just see where the conversation goes. Just… don’t tell my wife about this 🤫
Hello! I am searching for someone who loves orgasm denial as much as I do, however, that always proves to be rather challenging! It's not that I don't enjoy the one off scenario of having a day or two of denial, but admittedly I would be much happier knowing I can't get off for a significant period of time. If you also are interested in denial, especially giving denial then I would love to hear from you whether it's to enact a denial scenario or even to discuss what it is that makes the experience so fulfilling. I am a switch with a significant amount of experience with BDSM, D/S and dynamics that involve power transfer. I am 6’3, in good shape with dark hair. I have been involved in the kink lifestyle for 15+ years and I know that while I have a good foundation there are always new experiences and people to share dynamics with. I would love to know what other interests you might have and always willing to discuss and explore those topics with you as well! For a starter, some of the other things that I am into are bondage, impact, edging, humiliation, sensory deprivation, choking / breath play, CBT, biting and of course tease / denial. Looking forward to chatting more!
What exactly is a long distance, low commitment mistress you ask? Well, I'm a married man who wants a little more spice in his life. I'm looking for a girl who likes to flirt and have meaningful conversations, but is also willing to get a little dirty when the mood is right. If you are a submissive girl who is looking for a married man to flirt with, then I'm the guy for you. (You don't have to be a submissive, that just gets you extra bonus points)
A little about me: I'm a 28 year old married man. I'm 6'4 and athletic. I run, play sports, and am a professional ski and snowboard instructor. I like to read, like my username suggests, and I like movies, TV shows, and video games! I also love animals and nature in general.
I'm pretty open to kinks and turn-ons, but I would say my main ones are cheating, bondage, oral sex, and really lots of other stuff. Limits are pretty much just piss and scat play!
Like I said, I am down for regular chatting as well as dirty chats, sexting, and role playing. If any of this sounds interesting to you, send me a chat and we can get started!
What is it about the gap in age that just does something for us? Knowing you're talking to someone a decade or more older or younger. It's more than just the physical attributes that matter when it comes to the gap. Knowing it might not be approved of by polite society but in our inboxes we can have all the fun we want.
Perhaps you had an experience with this you want to explore or talk about? Maybe you just like younger men? Maybe you want to explore what it'd be like beforehand. I won't tell!
I would love to explore this kink, fetish, whatever you want to call it. I myself prefer older women and I'd you happen to be one and into this, then I would love for you to say hi! I don't mind if you're younger but I'll be upfront with my preference towards Gen X and older. Grey hair and laugh lines are charming and cute!
A little about myself. I'm 36, I'm Hispanic. I enjoy various hobbies and I seem to find new ones all the time. I'm not looking for love, but I am looking for a nice conversation with you. If you've read this far and you're interested, please include your favorite color or favorite dessert in your message.
I'm looking to chat to a someone (preferably with a homewrecking / bullying fetish) about my wife and daughter.
As context, being a married guy in my late 40s in a challenging marriage, I have had a couple of affairs. One of them lasted over a decade and has been particularly formative.
My girlfriend wasn't ever bothered that I had a wife and children. Her view was that if my wife were a better wife then I wouldn't be cheating on her. From the beginning she had no sense of 'girl code' or empathy towards my wife. In fact, being in a LTR herself (with 2 kids of her own) but never having been proposed to she resented the institution of marriage generally and felt wives were typically lazy, entitled and complacent.
The truth is that her brazen attitude really got under my skin, and the more she undermined my marriage, and belittled my wife the more I was drawn to and intoxicated by her. Our treachery became erotic to me, and the more daringly trecherous our betrayal of our families was, the more brazen her homewrecking was, the more exciting and thrilling it seemed.
We were the ones having an affair yet peversly, in my girlfriends eyes, my wife was the baddie and her lack of respect for my wife was wickedly erotic to me. The less sympathitic and more dismissive she was about my wife, the more it turned me on.
Over time she'd casually trash talk my wife, and the more she sensed me getting turned on by it, the more she did it. She saw my wife as a bitch, a ungrateful whore, a stupid slut, a dirty tramp.... if I ever disagreed she vowed to prove it to me.
We'd fantasise about ways of introducing her to my wife and into our lives... as a colleague or somehow befriending her... and using that relationship to further our affair and to further undermine my marriage....
So cheating, homewrecking and betrayal became major kinks for me. Overtime that expanded and I found that I even liked her being mildly dismissive of my 22yo daughter. My daughter and I have always been close, and at some point my girlfriend became irritated at how wrapped around my daughters finger I seemed to be. Her frustration at my goody-two-shoes daughter also resonated, as did her exaggerated talking up of her own daughter (who was 2 years younger and less academic than my own).
So it became part of our shared fantasising to imagine a future together with an expanded family....where I'd acquiscend as her daughter would be prioritised and celebtrated, whilst mine (as the daughter of my wife) would be a kind of cinderella character.... ridiculed, taunted and mildly bullied. I grew to like the idea of being gaslit into seeing her daughter outshine mine, just as her mother displaced my wife.
Over time, the idea of my girlfriend exerting a controlling influence over my daughter, and influencing her in ways my wife would disapprove of became a thing. That led to the fantasy of my girlfriend demeaning, humiliating, corrupting and misleading my daughter as a weapon against my wife. If you imagine everything the average mother would want for her daughter.... my girlfriend wanted the exact opposite for my daughter. And that malicious intent turned me on further.
So I'd like to speak to anyone who'd get off on bullying and demeaning my wife and daughter, or who has a general interest in this area, or who'd like to know more.
Life is stressful and frustrating, and as a result we come up with different ways of coping with it. Some of us prefer to give up power, whereas others like to be in power, even if both are only for a short while.
I happen to be someone in the latter group; a lonely stranger who simply enjoys being given power over someone. And I'm looking for any femboys who are the latter, and in need of someone to lend their control to for short bursts of time. I love being in power, and I love enforcing it, so if you're someone who enjoys giving their power away, why not shoot a request my way? Let's go in-depth with it; ways I could punish you, the outfits I'd make you wear, the toys I'd have you masturbate with. Maybe you need someone to tell you if you're allowed to orgasm tonight or not, maybe you want someone to dictate how long you're allowed to masturbate for, or maybe you'd like for me to set the scene for you, lay out whatever kind of fantasy I happen to have at the time.
Now, I'm not looking for a one time goon session; I want a proper, long-term sexting buddy, an online FWB that I can come back to every now and again to chat and sext with. We don't have to sext all the time, either. I'm more than happy to indulge in more casual conversation; in fact, I more than encourage it. I love talking with people, especially when they're into the same stuff I'm into.
A little about me; I'm 22 years old, a little bit overweight(not exceedingly fat, just a bit of a gut), and I'm mixed race. I hail from a rather Christian/Conservative background; the American kind, for anyone curious. Now, I obviously don't share all of the values my family have tried to instill in me over the years, but I do share just enough that my attraction to femboys is a bit taboo for me.
Other kinks and fetishes I have; if my username wasn't a big indicator, I'm slightly into the idea of BDSM. I love the idea of spanking someone, as well as tying them down and leaving them vulnerable for me. Another big thing I love is the idea of pet play. Verbal degradation, wax play, orgasm control, gags, cock worship, domestication, and I'm also surprisingly fond of “plain” vanilla sex.
A few dislikes of mine; first and foremost, I'm not looking for any cheating or polyamorous setups. Sexting with someone who's in a relationship makes me a bit uncomfortable. Rape fantasies are a huge no for me, and I'm not looking to indulge anyone who enjoys straight up physical abuse. I'm also not looking to chat with someone who'd like to be a femboy.
In terms of casual conversation, I'm a huge gaming nerd; I mean, huge. If you enjoy someone talking to you about gaming politics, design choices, and ranting about what they dislike about the gaming industry, I'm the guy. I have a particular fondness for competitive multiplayer games, especially in the FPS genre. I also write casually. It's not a career choice at the moment, but I do generally enjoy writing for fun. I'd be more than happy to share some concepts and ideas I've had with you, though be warned, they tend to get a bit fucked up.
If any of this interests you, I implore you to send me a Chat. Messages is…Bugged, so Chat is the only thing I can do at the moment. If Chat doesn't work for you, I also happen to have a Discord and would be more than happy to move there, if you'd like.
Hey there! RP can be fun, but tonight I was hoping just to have some casual chats about a specific topic. I have a big kink for hearing women talk about big cocks. Experiences, fantasies, general thoughts, anything really. If this sounds like something you'd be interested in chatting about, hit me up!
Maybe you like how intimidating they can be, or how masculine they are. Are they something you always wanted to try, or something you never really thought about until you saw one in front of you? Porn ends up altering our perception of just what "big" is. How have your partners measured up to what you thought?
For me, porn definitely played a factor. It's silly, but seeing women shocked by the size is so hot to me. I love when they're very verbal about it. I've had a few women comment on my size, and that really cemented it as one of my biggest (pun intended) kinks.
So if any of this sounds at all interesting to you, let me know! Again, I'm happy to hear about experiences, fantasies, you name it! I'd like to keep this casual. If we click I'm happy to make this a more long term thing.
I’m looking to chat with a real snowbunny or bunnies that absolutely love BBC and love it so much they got knocked up! Let me hear your story or stories, maybe see pics if you are ok with it and hear about how you got black seed growing inside you!
Especially as another girl, the whole idea is such a turn on and I’m just begging for it to happen to me hehe!
I get a lot of questions of why I’m interested or what attracts me to it, etc… well let me answer those upfront!
I’ve always had an interest in pregnant women and have always been attracted to them, but more recently I’ve just been really into how hot white women look with black men, then add to that how hot it is to see them caring a black kid in their arms without a care in the world, whether they are with the father or a single mother! And especially seeing them with their pregnant belly that was cause by it, like ugh so hot!
Hopefully that helps haha, but I’m really looking to chat and have fun and hear stories or about your life and all that good stuff! I’d love to keep it long term, becoming an online friend for you to chat with, listen to your problems, or hear about your latest hookup!
Hello! I come to you today DPP looking to talk about all things monstrous! Now I know most people have a basic interest in some supernatural shenanigans.
Now I want to talk about what you like about monsters, anything from the idea of a big cuddly fluffball to something that scares you to the point you are dripping. I want to know what got you started down this path of monster men (or ladies if that's your thing.)
I love playing a big strong minotaur man when I play a monster both in a loving intelligent just big and strong and furry kind of way (not to mention the massive cock.) My tastes ranges more for things I'm willing to fuck if I am a human, from basic Vampires to deamons, from Minotaurs to skull faced horros that patrol the woods. I just want to have a fun if not naughty time talking about all things Monsters.
I prefer chat over pms but both will work! I am excited to have some fun, and I hope you are too! Please let me know what your favorite monster is in your first message!
I am looking for chats, not roleplays.
I am looking for people to help me schedule my life to include minimum life and maximum porn watching/masturbation. I want every part of my life to become sexualized and be secondary to porn, gooning, & edging.
I just have this fantasy of letting everything but the essentials fall to the wayside for my new addiction… to have my mind corrupted to the point of permanent addiction is my goal.
This could be new rules/regulations, cutting out annoyances/trivialities, changing my devices to be more sexualized/pornographic, everything! You can use something like any desk to view and demand I change stuff on my devices to something more sexualized/pornographic.
Those are just my broad ideas for now. My non-addicted brain can’t come up with more. I would appreciate some help with that! No sexting, just re-orienting my life to a greater priority~. If I struggle to think of anything else but porn/the next time I stroke then it’s a success.
Please DM me making it clear you either want to help or guide my schedule.
Hi everyone,
I absolutely love a woman with curves, and love chatting with girls who love the way their sexy, curvy, feminine body makes them feel. I also love talking to the girls who look at these women with admiration... or envy. Is this you? Do you like the attention that your big boobs get you? Is it uncomfortable? Or, do have you always wished that yours were bigger and looked with envy at the girls around you? Happy to talk about that as well!
If you're smaller - maybe it drives you wild to know that you are never a guys first choice when they come to talk to your friends. Maybe it drives you insane to see girls 15 years younger than you stripping on Instagram or TikTok and making more than you ever did… all because they have big massive tits and are willing to show them off.
Or were you blessed with size? Lets talk about how good it must feel to win the genetic lottery and be rewarded with a big beautiful pair of tits. The kind that guys have lusted over and girls have been jealous of since you were 18. I bet you thrive on the big breasted energy and knowing that all eyes will be on you no matter what you wear. Does it turn you on more to know that all the flat chested girls are calling you a slut behind your back, or to think that they secretly just wish they were you, or maybe they wish they could be with you?
Maybe you have a friend whose breasts you've always envied? Or maybe you like making your friend jealous and seeing where that could go? Maybe everyone's at the beach together, and you just can't help but show off a new bikini that you chose specifically to get attention. Maybe you're a larger breasted girl, and you want to show a smaller girl just how nice big boobs can be.
Other stuff I like to chat about includes general sex lives/history, MFF threesomes, girl/girl experiences (especially if it was a first time), and nudity/exhibitionism. If any of this interests you, send me a chat, or a PM! Chats are preferred, but open to either.
As for me, I'm 6'0, muscled, fit build as I work out a lot, but still kind of a nerd at heart. Medium-length brown hair, and blue eyes. If you've read this far, please include your favorite color in your message!
Like title says I’m 47 years old man who only realized I was packing maybe 6-7 years ago. I know how ridiculous that sounds, but it’s true. I was a bit of a late bloomer and extremely oblivious to the many obvious signs so I thought I was average at best my whole life. There are other mitigating factors that played into it as well which I’m open to discuss.
Either way I eventually found out that I am on the larger side. Not a monster, but big. Now I’m sitting here reevaluating my past experiences. Were all the comments genuine? Was that one girl a size queen? Was I actually “too big” for the other girl? Did my size affect their pleasure more than I understood?
Also I’m wondering if I missed out on all the supposed perks of being bigger than average. I definitely missed out on the extra confidence, not that I necessarily struggled with that but every little bit helps haha. What about the stories you hear though? Girls reaching out to you because you are big. The gossip that gets around and leads to fun situations. Hooking up with women who are “out of your league”. Is any of that true? I wonder if that’s just internet bs or there’s some reality to it.
Honestly it’s all been a mind fuck. Finding out something about yourself so late is weird to begin with. Then dealing with the “what ifs” about a subject you can’t really talk about without looking like a douche has me kind of just spinning in my head.
That’s why I’m here. I’d love to chat with any women about their experiences with larger guys and their preferences whatever they happen to be. I’d also like to chat with any larger guys to see if the stories are true. Please understand I am being honest here and I hope you will too. I’m not trying to hear fantasies about what you think being big is like, or the 12 inch dicks you’ve fucked. We both know that you aren’t that big or you haven’t slept with anyone that size.
So please reach out if any of that is of interest to you or you have any questions. I’d prefer you be over 25 and have a bit of experience. Please introduce yourself a bit in your first message and include your favorite flavor of ice cream so I know you read this. Prefer chat over message, but happy to do either. Thanks for reading all that and look forward to hearing from you!
[25 M4A] Platonic Discussions on Awkward Roommate Nudity Across Genders
Hey!
I’m a 24-year-old guy diving into the awkward yet common reality of roommate nudity, particularly in mixed-gender living situations. From the shared bathroom dance to those surprising moments of unintentional exposure, life throws us into these blush-worthy situations, and I’m keen to chat about them.
I’m looking for open-minded individuals of all genders who are up for sharing their own stories, insights, or even awkward encounters around this topic. Whether it’s navigating shared spaces, the embarrassment, the unexpected humor, or how we maintain respect and boundaries in these moments, I believe there’s a lot we can explore and learn from each other.
While my interests do include themes like ENF, CFNF, group nudity, CMNM, shyness, and the dynamics of clothing vs. nudity, I want to emphasize that my aim is to keep our discussion respectful, grounded in reality, and platonic. It’s about sharing experiences and views on a topic that’s often seen as taboo or uncomfortable, not about crossing lines.
This chat is intended to be casual and fun, a way for us to swap stories, maybe share a laugh, and understand the myriad ways people approach and experience roommate nudity in a mixed-gender context. It’s about breaking the ice on a topic that’s very much a part of many people’s lives but rarely talked about openly.
So, whether you’ve lived through these awkward moments yourself or have thoughts on the subject, I’m eager to hear from you. Let’s embark on a respectful and engaging conversation that shines a light on the nuances of human cohabitation and nudity.
Reach out if you’re interested in joining this chat. I’m looking forward to hearing from a diverse range of perspectives and creating a space where we can all share and learn from each other’s experiences.
See you in the DMs!
So I'm looking for a legitimate Dirty Penpal. A very original idea, I know. but Nonetheless The idea has always been very appealing to me and I figured I should throw my hat in the ring and see what comes of it. In terms of what I'm looking for, it's someone I can have NSFW and SFW chats with. this can be about our day to day lives, our jobs, books, tv shows we're binging, music or video games, or it can get a bit more spicy with talking about past experiences, kinks, fantasies or something even spicier. I'm looking for a genuine connection here preferably long term. Someone to hop online with at the end of a brutal day and blow off some steam with or just chat about the new show they're watching. A bit about me. I'm in my late 20's M, I work in the television industry, I like being active, hiking, biking, kayaking, To relax, I love listening to music, Metal is my current fixation, watch tv, take photos, write, and SLEEP. I hope this caught your attention and I hope to hear from you soon.
Mind-numbingly horny. So constantly leaky I need to carry a change of underwear. So out of control of myself that I find my hand sliding down between my legs while I’m at work. Completely unable to think about or do anything without my mind drifting to impure, filthy thoughts. Thoughts that you put there. Thoughts I can't do anything about, because I'm not allowed to cum until the new year.
I have my two boyfriends coming over to my apartment for a new years eve "party", and I'm super excited BUT I'M NOT ALLOWED TO CUM. I guess they want me all desperate and eager to be used or something. Anyways, because I'm a masochistic little slut I want someone to take advantage of the fact i can't cum yet, and torture me. Edge me, deny me, make me horny beyond belief, make me so horny my already dumb little brain completely shuts down to everything except the overwhelming need for sex.
I know that the more desperate and pathetic I am the harder I'll be fucked tomorrow, so I want to be a whiny, needy little puddle of depraved perversion by the time everything starts.
Will you please help me?
Kinks: Denial, orgasm/pleasure control, degradation, edging, pain, sex toys, anal training, JOI, CEI, femdom, body writing, and a whole bunch more.
Limits: Scat, farts, feet, sending pictures
Hello! Looking for more of a conversation today. There's nothing hotter for me than the sight of a woman in the throws of a nice, intense orgasm. And no one knows their own body like themselves. Toys seem to have perfected that art for you while ramping it up to the next level. The combination for me is so incredibly erotic whether it's you solo or if I'm lucky enough to be with a partner who let's me use them on her as well.
But back to what I would like to discuss! What all do you like to use to help when you're alone or with someone? Or what would you like to have? Do you only have 1 or 2 trusty sidekicks? A full toy chest? Are you into vibrators, dildos, plugs, clamps, or something else? Maybe your toys satisfy a size kink your usual partner(s) cant? All of the above? I think you get the picture but if it has to do with using toys to make yourself orgasm, I'm open to talking about it and what you like so much about it!
As far as myself, I have the obvious interest in solo play. But also oral, anal, exhibition, and some light bdsm. Limits are scat, gore, along those lines.
Look forward to hearing from you! Chat or messages work for me.
While I love a good, vulgar, filthy chat, I also like really getting to know someone and becoming friends who talk about our day to day lives as well.
Full disclosure, I am married but it’s an ethical non monogamy situation, but I’m not particularly into being grilled about that. The story isn’t all that interesting. It’s just a situation that my wife and I prefer.
I’m mostly looking for a good long term penpal, but I’m not opposed to an in person meeting if there’s chemistry and we’re geographically close.
I am a bit weird and kinky when it comes to sex (nothing serial killer-ish, just odd and crude). Since most of these dirty chat subs have strict length requirements, I guess I’ll some of my predilections here.
My less weird stuff includes all things group sex, unprotected sex and creampies, cum play, interracial sex (I have real weakness for brown girls) consensual groping, and the odd cuckolding fantasy.
Now for the weird shit.
Pussy sniffing. There’s no delicate way to put it, the scent of a wet, preferably hairy, unwashed cunt is an instant cock hardener for me. I’ve had a lot fantasies lately of burying my face between a woman’s legs and edging my cock to her scent and taste while I lick her to orgasm.
Mild pee stuff. I’m more pee curious really as I’ve never indulged this particular fantasy. It’s mostly a voyeuristic kink in that I’m turned on watching a woman pee, but I’ve also fantasized about a woman peeing on my cock. There’s just something feral about the scenario.
Having my balls roughed up a little. Not to the degree of ballbusting porn (though some ballbusting porn is a bit of a guilty boner of mine. I do like a little playfully rough treatment of the boys from time to time, though. More along the lines of a woman squeezing them just a little too hard while we’re sharing a vigorous kiss.
Good day, everyone!
24M here! 6’1”, lean and muscular. Articulate and low-pressure, with a heart of gold! (Or so I’ve been told!)
Even if you do not reach out, please read the BOLDED section below!
I know, I know. “Wow, another young guy with a MILF fetish. Yawn.”
Just hear me out for a second of your time and hopefully I can address those oh-so-common concerns! This isn’t another “show boob” type post- I really, truly want to get to know the woman behind the body. The woman who may feel at times that her age or her body type may be not be as appreciated as it once was. Whether through pregnancy, aging, or just straight-up normal weight gain- you now have a few additional pounds and a body that cannot help but show it.
I’m hoping to be a no-pressure, happy, exciting outlet for you to reignite some of that passion. To feel like no matter where you are, or how you’re feeling, you have someone you can just pop a message over to and say “hey, I could really use a good praising/gassing up right about now”.
THAT is where I would love to come in. To treat you like the sensual, intelligent, exciting woman that you are inside, despite what you may feel nowadays due to that heavy, curvybody of yours. I want to make you feel to your very core that you are not sexy despite your mature BBW body; you are sexy because of it.
Look down at your body right now. No really, seriously; look down from your screen. What do you see? Two stretch-marked, massive, sagging breasts capped with large, mature nipples? A round, soft, jiggly belly that makes itself known in any moderately-fitted dress? A pair of tree-trunk thighs, dotted with cellulite? A wide, heavy butt that can’t help but spill over every seat you sit on? THAT is beauty. Natural beauty. Real beauty. You own a body that, while maybe forgotten by mainstream tastes, deserves all the love in the world. You deserve to feel wanted, sexy, beautiful, and top-of-the-world confident. THAT is what I want to be for you!”
Specifically, what is your genuine opinion on potential relationships between women of your age and younger men like me? I’m not trying to prompt a typical, hyper-sexual, porn-y cougar/cub relationship; I genuinely want to know, would an actual, mutual relationship work between us? Would we wake up every morning totally enamoured with each other, treating each other like loving, equal partners while still realistically being aware of the age gap? Could the celebration of this difference become just another aspect of our relationship, without hampering anything?
If this little relationship sounds like something you would like to try, why not shoot me a little message and see if we click? I’d absolutely love to hear from you!
If not, have a wonderful day!
-S