/r/DecideThisForMe

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Here you can ask people to vote on your small decisions to cure your indecision.

Here you can ask people to vote on your small decisions to cure your indecision.

/r/DecideThisForMe

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what should i get for my friend on xmas?

pandora jewelry or things that she wants and talks about like a gift box that has a perfume, stufftoy, popmart

she’s a really sentimental person and we’ll be living across the globe soon so…

1 Comment
2024/12/01
08:01 UTC

2

Guns or cars?

I like both, which should I focus more on? Guns is kind of more Airsoft than real guns. Cars being more model car collecting that real car things.

2 Comments
2024/11/30
20:14 UTC

1

Which feet look better ?

Omg my friend has been saying his feet look like mine/look better than mine. Which feet look better & do they look alike ? Be honest and harsh . Sorry if this is the wrong forum. I’m new.

1 Comment
2024/11/29
04:54 UTC

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Type of toilet

My son hates the sound of automatically flushing toilets.

I need a new toilet. Do I buy a regular toilet and a nice bidet add on. Or do I buy a whole one piece bidet/toilet thing.

2 Comments
2024/11/29
04:15 UTC

1

Which desk calendar should I buy?

I’m looking at getting a page per day desk calendar for work and I am torn between three very different options that are all directly up my alley. Price is within a few dollars of each other so not a major factor.

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0 Comments
2024/11/28
11:42 UTC

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What game should I get?

There are two games on sale on Steam that I would like to buy, but I will only buy one. I can't choose tho:

Chants of Sennaar for €12,99 (original price=€19,99)

or

Outer Wilds for €13,79 (original price=€22,99)

2 Comments
2024/11/28
10:58 UTC

1

Can’t decide

about my whole life and I still can’t decide if I want to pursue football or basketball I want to just dedicate to one sport what should I do it seems like for a few weeks I am all into the other and than the other way

2 Comments
2024/11/25
21:40 UTC

1

Which door flyer is the funniest (they will be hung up on college dorms for marketing)

0 Comments
2024/11/24
21:52 UTC

2

What should I learn first?

Quick background: finally finding myself and want to learn an instrument. I (24F) played trumpet from the ages of 11-13 and want to learn a new one (not sure if past experience helps choose)

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0 Comments
2024/11/24
06:32 UTC

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What should I choose?

I was fortunate enough to get tickets for two Stray Kids concerts days, however, I'm only able to attend one. I want to know what will be the best one. I have a floor seat for the CA one and a seat in section 132 for Orlando. Do you have any advice?

1 Comment
2024/11/23
02:11 UTC

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Hacking or shooting?

Should start airsoft, get a Flipper zero or get an xbox?

Pros and cons:

Flipper zero pros:

Steal stuff from friends lockers at school (give them back obviously)

Little fun here and there sometimes

Flipper zero cons:

Price

Wouldn't use it really that much

Airsoft pros:

Weapons

Fun

Friends

My first hobby in 3 years

Looks sick

Airsoft cons:

Price

Toxic sh*theads

Paying to go play (not that big of a deal)

Not too much airsoft going on here in Finland :(

Only 1 of my friends has an airsoft gun (he doesn't even have gear)

Xbox pros:

Games

Xbox cons:

Would probably only use it for Halo

Price

3 Comments
2024/11/18
00:04 UTC

1

Should I sell or not

I have a Canon EOS 500D that I don't use, should I sell

2 Comments
2024/11/17
19:46 UTC

1

Which language should I learn next?

I am a native English speaker and have been learning Spanish and Scottish Gaelic. What should I learn next?

Mandarin / SWC:
Commonly spoken worldwide and looks great on a resume, but I’m interested in some of the other languages more.

Japanese:
Recommended as an introduction to Asian languages due to the factors that it shares with other languages from the area, but only weebs and people in Japan speak it.

Portuguese: Very similar to Spanish and commonly found around the world.

German:
My ancestors were German and the language is commonly spoken throughout Europe, but doesn't seem as practical as the other languages.

Welsh:
I also have ancestors from Wales, but the language is fairly dead.

ASL:
Incredibly practical for someone who works in Special Education to learn while also being fun, plus I already know some signs. It would be fairly difficult to learn online and take notes.

What y’all think?

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0 Comments
2024/11/17
00:34 UTC

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do i sell my computer to buy a laptop

im going to be college next year, just for context here. ive had my computer for like a few months (two months give or take). bought all parts myself and researched extensively for every single thing and even had a professional expert to build it for me (was kinda proud when the dude said i bought premium, good parts).

here's the dilemma, i havent had any use for it for the past two months i had it. havent used it aside from gaming and while it is a good computer, i fear that a laptop would be a better fit for me when i go to college, especially because i can bring it everywhere and is easier to handle and i dont got no money for a laptop either. should i sell the computer to buy the laptop?

2 Comments
2024/11/12
17:28 UTC

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Who would you choose as maid of honor, best friend or cousin?

I love them both so much. I truly don't know who to choose.

Me and my cousin are the same age and we went to highschool together so we've always been really close and always got along really well.

I've also known my best friend since middle school and we've been through thick and thin together, I love her to death.

I'm so close with the both of them and they will obviously both be a bridesmaid but I don't know who to make maid of honor. They're really not making a big deal about it and both have been really helpfull and are making sure this is the wedding of MY dreams and that I get to choose (together with my fiance ofcourse). So like I genuinely don't know who to choose. Which one would you pick?

1 Comment
2024/11/12
00:17 UTC

2

Help me choose the names of my main characters in a book I'm writing

Hello! So, basically I'm writing a book and it's like your typical sunshine x emo trope, except the female main character is the emo and the male main character is the sunshine. It's set in college to post-graduate life in America. I'm 28k words in but I've had the main characters as "FMC" and "MMC" every time they've been mentioned. The names are super important to me but I just have too many options and I can't choose.

For some character background, basically the female main character is of Southeast Asian descent and has a typically Muslim or Hindu inspired name. She's snarky, sarcastic, passive aggressive and wise. There's also a huge plot point regarding her name, it requires her name to be hard to pronounce and she shortens it so Americans would have an easier time saying it. The options for her name and how they're pronounced and shortened are as follows; Anajera (a-nah-hea-rah - Anna), Vilijana (wee-lee-ya-nah - Leah), Khalwa (Kh as in Ch like in Bach, +aal-waa - Elle), Anjani (ahn-jah-nee - Jennie), and Jumanah (zhoo-ma-nah - Mandy). All the names either mean strength, resilience, power or royalty (or person of high distinction).

Now, the male main character is Caucasian, perhaps of either Greek or simply European descent. He's smirky, quick-witted, flirty and is a total softie inside and out, with just a hint of tease. His last name has been decided to be Makris (pronounced Mah-Krees). The options for his name are; Dorian, Lucian, Finnian, Sebastian, Ronan, and Zephyr. I felt like names ending in -ian or -an were more fitting for the last name Makris, and I wanted to give him a strong name too alongside hers. All those names either mean wisdom, strength, softness, kindness or wholesomeness. I think Ronan is power, though, if I'm not mistaken.

If you've read all this, wow! Thank you! Please let me know what you think, and I'll go for the name with the most votes.

1 Comment
2024/11/11
17:08 UTC

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make a decision for me

what’s better, chick-fil-a or raising canes or popeyes?just a european sk8r grl asking for help in my uber eats decision making. <3

1 Comment
2024/11/10
02:12 UTC

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My boyfriend voted third party

How do I navigate the feelings that come with knowing my boyfriend voted for RFK Jr.?

22 Comments
2024/11/06
23:24 UTC

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making a character

I've been making a character that can shapeshift the problem I have is I'm not sure if they should

A. turn into a raven

B. turn into a siren (fish person)

C. alternate between the two depending on situation (the reason I didn't just originally pick this one is I wasn't sure whether people like a concise design with one key theme)

essentially for context they have psychic abilities invisibility and minor shapeshifting (the image shown is concept art for just the raven idea as its the only one I've drawn recently) but I was unsure of the shapeshifted creature. they're also autistic (meaning I chose two of the animals I am obsessed with)

4 Comments
2024/11/03
01:42 UTC

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Can't decide what to get for my birthday. Please help 😭

0 Comments
2024/11/02
15:25 UTC

2

What should I sew first?

Bat, fox, demon thingy, or Dino thingy?

2 Comments
2024/11/02
05:58 UTC

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