/r/DecideThisForMe
Here you can ask people to vote on your small decisions to cure your indecision.
Here you can ask people to vote on your small decisions to cure your indecision.
/r/DecideThisForMe
Bat, fox, demon thingy, or Dino thingy?
Copy Cat- cat ears, whisker makeup, all black clothing, name tag that says “copy”.
Baseball Bat- bat wings, all black clothing, baseball cap.
I'm (28f) divorced and needing to change my last name, and I don't want to go back to my maiden name due to trauma. I've narrowed down my options- help me choose? My first name is Olivia
Okay so today I am helping someone who uses to be our AGM but is now the GM of another store clean the store he just moved to. Now I've only know him for about almost a year work wise never hung out with him outside of work or nothing. He is a very flirtatious man I noticed that off the bat with one of my old friends even tho he had a girlfriend. After my old friend ended up quitting the job due to hours being cut I ended up becoming friends with his girlfriend and she is very nice and she just recently asked me to hang with her (she lives with AGM that became a GM) so mind you I've been recently told about some previous things I don't want to enclose or tell however let's just say I didn't go because I wasn't comfortable with just those two and I'm a virgin I don't have any sexual experience other than kissing. So today I'm going to help him with his store and I'm getting very nauseated just thinking about it because I don't know if he's going to try something or mention anything I'm going to be uncomfortable with because he's my ride and I'm only riding with him can someone please help me I don't know what to
I think I need to say this first so some can get the picture. So, I live in this big house that my grandma owns and we have 7 dogs (all shihtzu). 12 people here also live and with that, I own 2 dogs, 1 dog to my brother and sister, 1 dog to my aunt, and 2 dogs to my cousin. Then, there's this one puppy who was 4 months old (a puppy of my one dog, and now I had her spay because I don't want another accident). Supposedly, he will be adopted when he was 2 months but the person who should adopt says he's still too small so he will get him when he's a lil big, but now I'm hesitant. Because I'm the one taking care of the puppy, I started to love him which is my mistake. I know we have a lot of dogs in the house already and I take care of these dogs (only those other 5 since my sis and bro and aunt asked me while they do the financial responsibility for this. i can take care of them bc i work from home). So to make up for them being rowdy, I do clean the mess they made before I start and after I finish my work. Or sometimes I do it in between when I saw their pee pad already or potty place dirty (and stink). But here's the conflict, my mother doesn't mind me keeping it. My aunt too. My grandma too, saying she loves the puppy already and want the puppy to be by her side on bed so she has someone with her and to feel entertained. But my cousin does mind. Saying the house will get more rowdy. I get it where she's coming from honestly. It was also my plan from the start that's why I'm willing for the puppy to be adopted in the first place, but my mistake is that I started to care a lot. So now, I'm very undecided. I want to keep the puppy now. But my cousin is telling me I don't clean the house (when she, in fact, does it only when she feels like it) so after she did try to clean the house she started complaining to me about my decision. It's just it felt also selfish hearing it from my cousin that stuff when her own dogs are being neglected most of the time. I don't even complain when I had to clean her dogs's mess because I feel pity towards her dogs. I'm sorry if my post got out of track. But should I get the puppy adopted?
Home from Bay area to Washington, it'll probably sit for 2 months while I'm gone but I also have another car in Washington, what should I do?
My dumbass ugly ex-friend left me a dm that I never read and I legit don't know what it says. That backstabbing bitch had nothing good to say anyways. But I'm also still kinda curious what that cunt sent me. I'm not lying, our falling out was really bad and I expect the worse. But curiousity is a dick that hits deep inside my brain.
Help!
I'm an awful friend that forgot one of her girls birthdays, her 27th birthday. It was a couple months ago, but I'm a crafter so I had to make her something. She does know that I'm working on it. Problem is, I have another girlfriends birthday on the second week of November and it's her 30th.
If I finish my first project for the missed birthday, then the present for the future birthday girl will be late. Please help me decide!
Transferring Schools??
I want to transfer schools, but I'm scared I'm not making the right decision. I, A black-Caribbean girl just entered high school and I got into a predominantly white school that specializes in the arts, I got in specifically for drama(with an audition and everything, I love drama, its not my PASSIONNN but i do enjoy it a lot) I really wanted to go to this school in 7th grade, but I've changed a lot since then. I felt good about my new school at first, but now I'm struggling to make friends. My “friends” from my old school have lots of friends here already, but I don't fit in with them and they leave me out. I have a few friends but when i make new ones they stare or look at me weirdly or smile and then immediately lose it. It's high school obviously but this school has a reputation of being really nice and sweet and having a good student population which I can tell isn't that true. This school also makes me feel dumb honestly cause it feels competitive like you are trying to be the best of the best and everyone is simply better. I like most of my teachers, They are funny and have good humour and I love the school cafeteria so I feel bad criticizing it, but I can't fully enjoy it. (I also feel bad leaving cause I do have friends but I have 1-2 classes with them then we barely talk. Specifically, this one girl in my drama class cause we basically only have each other since we get treated like we're weird compared to people who say baka and LOL out loud and this one girl but I think she understands why I may leave but we are basically best friends for 3 out of our 5 periods) This school is also really expensive even though I believe they have a higher budget cause it's a school with a specialty. Just a reminder: school starts at 8:05 am and ends at 2:15 and is a 40-minute drive away, I don't wake up early and have issues with sleep. It's about 13-14 kilometres from me, and my mom and grandpa alternate between driving me but my grandpa always picks me up. This adds up to 30-40 kilometres per day including stuff we need to do that day (which isn't ideal cause its really expensive ) and during the winter I’ll have to catch the bus which makes getting to school abt 50x harder because there's 3 buses I need to catch in a row so if I miss one, I'm screwed and I walk about 20 minutes in total to school and the bus stops.
So I've been considering transferring to another school.
There's this school literally down the road from me. All of my best friends, friends and basically everyone I know goes there. The school honestly seems pretty nice to me and my friends say it is too and there's the obvious it's “okay” or “bad” cause it's school. I’ve been supposed to go my whole life and since I didn't expect to get into the art school, I planned on going. My issue with this school is I‘m slightly scared of getting left out but I don't really believe it anymore, I have issues with people at the school (some who have ruined my mental health or me as a person) and it's the start of the semester. Some pros are since I'm not there for specificlly drama, there's less pressure on me. Friends and people I can relate to, etc and it suits ME as a person more. ALSO, it's roughly a 10-minute drive and I can take the bus with my friends which goes directly into the school and take it back. 1-1.5 km, School starts at 8:38 but it ends at 3:03. I have a feeling I’d feel more comfortable there with how close and urban it is but less comfortable with the fact of there possibly being rising drama (but I have no desire to interact or speak to those people). I don't know much about the teachers but I heard the “mean” ones are nice. The school is known for being mostly Indians and having “hoodlums” but that's most schools and it’s still pretty chill. Wayy cheaper, Still does fun stuff, is less competitive, has more help I believe, works slower also (I believe), more modern and is BIG BUT is considered worse because it's a normal school. (Also has cute people)I just want someone else’s opinion on switching cause I’m still not sure about it.
Worth a mention: There's also a really nice catholic school nearby that is predominantly black and really nice, I’ve been hearing about it but then I’d have to switch school boards…. Still 1-2km away just a different direction and I have a ride always but they wear uniforms and I don’t see myself graduating wearing a uniform
Please give me some advice, I don’t wanna grow up or graduate but I need someone’s valid opinion
Considering buying a bracelet and a necklace on a cheap secondhand site. I’m thinking of things with either the infinity symbol logo (♾️) or a puzzle/jigsaw piece. I can’t decide which one I should choose.
I can't choose!!
I had an Apple Watch 7 which broke, so I'm using my old Apple Watch SE (1st gen), and I'm thinking to upgrade to either Apple Watch 9 or Apple Watch 10. Fixing it is not an option because the screen would cost way too much for an old watch.
I found an Apple Watch 9 for €349 ($380) while the Apple Watch 10 would be full price at €459 ($500). Total price difference: €110 ($120) which is +31%.
Technical improvements between AW9 and AW10 that I care about: brighter display at wider angle, speaker, thinner, display refresh every second
Reasons to buy AW9: it is substantially cheaper, and it has basically the same functions of the AW10
Reasons not to buy AW9: it's too similar to my previous AW7 so it would seem no gain, it lacks the technical improvements I care about
Reasons to buy AW10: I care about those technical differences, 110€ is not too much, I can easily compensate that by buying less snacks and less useless purchases, I would buy something that I feel as newer
Reasons not to buy AW10: expensive
Please help this stressed boi, I need to decide within two weeks!! Every input will be so much appreciated :3
Option 1: zoodles (zucchini noodles) + marinara sauce + Italian turkey meatballs
Option 2: cauliflower gnocchi + spinach + feta sun dried tomato turkey meatballs
Option 3: cauliflower gnocchi + spinach + vodka sauce + Parmesan turkey meatballs
I just need help choosing my mom is keto and her birthday is on Thursday so i’ll be making her a cake but im undeceive between chocolate (classic of course still good and she loves it) or tiramisu (she’s a teacher and I’ve made her tiramisu before and she loves it) i’ll just be making it into a cheesecake version!!
So I've been living with my mom my the while 20 years of my life. I've grown up being disciplined how I don't feel was fit but generational curses are thought to break luckily we're still in the process of trying to. Anyways ever since I turned 18 and my sister moved out I feel like there have been times where our arguments are over nothing but her reaction and the way she talks to me just makes me angry because it turns ugly real quick for no reason. I've had my breaking points before but I guess I still just have this pity because of how she grew up I want to help her as much as I can but the same person who I continuisly spend my money on or just think about when I get myself anything is the same person who says I don't do anything for her.
I've learned to just deal with it but I also have been thinking of an opportunity to move out. Now before two days ago I would've been like maybe I'm rushing I need a car first because then how am I going to get back and forth to see the apartment tour or even go back and forth to work don't get me wrong Uber is okay but it's just too much money continuously going out the door. So I decided I'll wait and wait I've been doing until a friend of mine. I've known her for like half a year and just started working with her but honestly the way she treats me and talks to me I trust her but then again I am very naive and I trust a lot of people.
Anyways she got put in a situation where she needs to move out and I totally want to help her but she also offered and asked me did I want to become roommates with her. She knows how to drive and she said she's going to get a car we can pay for together, we work at the same place and I feel ill have more space and not someone breathing down my neck or making me feel like im being used for my money.
But my thing is my mom is already struggling as is with bills so while she's out of a job right now because of the condition of her back I'm almost the ones taking over that responsibility until then. I don't want her to suffer or have to struggle to find a way to pay this or just living in a tough space because she's already did that as a kid before which is why no matter how bad she treats me I still want to help.
I don't want to put my trust in someone so quick and then get messed over and I don't want to leave my mother until I know she's living her best life while I'm gone she malesnit seem as if she could do it just like how she did before I got a job and was a baby but that's completely different and she's much older now please help I'm literally so lost right now and just tired of contemplating my next big move.
My 16th birthday is in may, I have the choice to go on a trip somewhere or help to buy half of a used car as a gift from my grandma. What do I do? I’ve always wanted to go to Hawaii and that’s what I’m leaning torwads, since I’ve wanted this for years,but if I have to buy a car by myself I wouldn’t make enough money till the end of summer and I want to drive in the summer. I need to know soon and this is such a hard decision. I know for a fact I’ll still get a car at 16 at some point but I don’t know the next time I’d get a chance to go to Hawaii.
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I'm DMing a game tonight and the party is meeting a powerful fairy but I haven't decided on a name. I want it to be silly to juxtapose their presence in the scene. Would you prefer: