My girlfriend is a diagnosed DID system, (and I'm suspecting being a system but that doesn't really matter) I'm more just looking for advice on how to bring up the thought of sex with them. I've never been with someone in a sexual way so I have no experience. I was hoping to get some advice from people who've had these conversations before.

Hello we’re a DID system and we was hoping we could make some system friends as we don’t really have many friends and only like 1 system friend.

About us: Likes: music, art, gaming, drama, collecting, animals, sleeping Dislikes: transphobic, rude people etc Favourite colours: red, black, purple, pink, green, blue Favourite foods: pizza, nuggets, burgers, pasta Favourite animals: cats, dogs, monkeys, snow leopards Preferably looking for friends between 14-17

Literally. At least our bodies are teens. there is three hundred of us on here. lets say each of us has seven alters. that 2100 different persons. Lets say half use social media. 1050. lets say half again are actually teens (alter age). 525. So around 525 teens sharing a connection, and a traumatic past. (For us this gives us a dry sense of humour) and this is how dead and empty this sub is. 525 teens on social media, and nothing. wow. --X

Ignore him -Cayden (co-host)

Check r/AE_LGBallT_

Hi, here's "Lullaby" and Arco-íris from IOAM system We're brazilian but we can understand English! 16 years old bodily +100 alters, polyfrag! We want talk and make new systems (singlets) friends!

If you want to talk:

• Write a comment or follow us in our Instagram, in our profile!!

Thx for attention

(Repost, sorry)

we're pretty fictive heavy; 15/25 of us are fictives (I get really intense interests on things, and I especially did when I was younger; I would just be "friends" with characters since I never really had any friends LMAO)

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any others here? :D

Hi! I’m LJ (F17) and I’m a system. I’ve known that I’ve been a system since I was 14, and I have years and years of therapy under my belt. I’m looking for some friends who are systems within the age range of 15-18. I’m a pretty helpful person, and I consider myself pretty friendly.

My discord tag: eljay#8974

I have a discord server with singlets who play VALORANT, but we can chat about anything. There is no blacklist or trigger list on that discord, so you’re able to talk freely. Most singlets in that server are not very educated on DID/OSDD.

If you’d like a system-only server, I can definitely cook something up for you guys.

The purpose of this is to have a group of friends who I can speak freely to, I have no system friends. I lost many during my recovery, but I’m better now and I’d love some new friends.

Thanks for reading, -LJ

We're kinda new here, we've been lurking here for a few months but haven't posted anything so yeah.

Hii we're a minor bodied questioning DID or OSDD-1b system. We're not in a place where we can get a specialist so we're undiagnosed and besides plurality we also have ADHD and tics. This is just a brief introduction but if anyone wants to be friends we'd be happy to find some more friends.

-Sally

I recently lost contact with most of my system friends so yeah.... hi there, we’re the root system (yes it’s a pun, it was my idea) um we probs have OSDD but we aren’t diagnosed or anything yet

so um hi, I need a new place to talk to other systems because our prosecutor got us banned from the other place

-🌱(and 💎???)

Oh god where to start.... So I think I might have DID/OSDD...I do have trauma that is kinda unresolved and I always feel a disconnect from myself/my body, like I'm just there and not really me.  It's hard to explain but it's kinda like I'm floating.  I've noticed notes and scribbles in notebooks that I know are mine but I have no recollection of doing and other times I struggle to tell if a memory I have is real or not.  Im so scared that I'm just faking everything including my diagnosed BPD.  I'm just scared.

Edit: heya so I saw my psychiatrist and him, my mother, and I talked about it. With information my mother actually provided about my past and of things I actually didn't know about he thinks it is a possibility. I'm being sent to another psychiatric center in a month for a screening.

Hey, I’m a system that is still figuring itself out. We don’t know too much about how to communicate and what not but that’s not the point. My friends know about most of the system members and if one is fronting we say. But any tips or tricks for dealing with switches in class and whatnot? Advice or experience?

hi, im eden, and i am so majorly confused. our main fronter named aspen (shell alter) recently got “unstuck” from front and basically booted me up front here to take their place… only problem is that all of our mutual friends left for college, and now im stuck with just ella (former host) and aspen’s friends who only know ella and aspen. it’s so awkward and i feel so freaking lonely, especially cause im kind of ass at making new friends. does anyone have some tips on how to survive senior year and make new friends along the way?

• Eden

(please use one/oneself or they/them pronouns for me, thanks)

TW: Mention of trauma and toxic people

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Getting help for your mental health isn't wrong, bad, a sin, or any other thing you have heard. Your mental health is important and needs to be maintained.

I know people will tell you that it's selfish, that other people have it worse, that your faking your mental health problems, and so on. But I know for a fact that only you get to decide that:

1. Your faking your mental illness and no one but your doctor/therapist can tell you otherwise.
2. It's not selfish or being narcissistic to get the help that you need and to cut out certain people in your life if you need too.
3. No one has it 'worse' or 'better' when it comes to a) mental health problems and b) trauma. When it comes to mental health problems and issues, you cannot measure the mental pain someone is going through to another person. Pain is pain, no matter what anyone else says.
4. It's not a sin to look after yourself. Everyone needs to keep care of themselves if they want to get better and have a healthy life. Yes, it's good to care for others, but at the end of the day you have to take care of the most important person, you, and there is nothing wrong.
5. Cutting off toxic people hurts, but it does help you in the long run, no matter what that toxic person says, what roll they have in your life, or what other people say. Toxic people are pretty much equal to another relapse in your life, trust me.

There is nothing wrong with trying to take care of yourself. You are loved and worthy. If you need help with anything, we are a good system to come to and I bet there are a lot of other people in this community that would love to help you!

Lots of love,

-Kai from the Sour Patch System

Aye, so this morning, we all were really pissed that Tobi woke up and wouldn't go back to sleep. His reason was that 'we needed to be up.'

Okay man. I guess you don't care that I was up the second half of the night with Ashe arguing over a fuzzy blanket.

Some days he just don't get it.

-Fynn

Hey, I have OSDD-1b. I really need to find a safe space for me to go to.

We are looking to meet some fellow systems. We are a minor bodied, poly fragmented, undiagnosed OSDD-1B System. We are in the process of bringing DID/OSDD up with our psychiatrist. Hope we can make some friends -Junnie/Static/Juliet

I tried bringing up my concerns of DID to my dad and he told me it was all because of my phone. I really wish I was joking but his words were “maybe it’s just because you need a change of scenery, and to get off that phone”. Like yeah, I’m doing a lot of research on dissociative disorders, only because I want to try to understand what’s happening more. I have also joined a few support groups on discord and he told me to leave them as well. I really don’t know what to do anymore.

I’m undiagnosed but have brought this up with my therapist and she has agreed to an evaluation. I’m 15 and dissociating in school has become a serious problem. I failed my math class because I don’t remember going to it like, at all. And another thing is the person who I thought was my main support blew up at me and said I was faking because my trauma wasn’t enough. I’m really really scared and confused. Please help

I swear the thing I hate the most is when we start dissociating for NO REASON during school, and no one switches to front, and no one leaves the front. It's really freaking annoying. It's like if you're in a car, and you're driving and the person in the passanger seat or something is wanting to drive, so you're trying a good place for the person and you to swtich seats. BUT, everytime you think you've found the right place, something pops up or something happens and that switch doesn't happen, so you keep driving and talking about switching seats. It's even more aggravating when you're just watching the two people argue over when to switch, because you're honestly like JUST SWITCH ALREADY, WE'RE WASTING TIME, AND WE NEED TO BE FOCUSED! And normally we have gum around us to help this not happen, but we don't have anything to help whoever is fronting ground themselves right now. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk. - Erin

Hello, we are an undiagnosed DID system of about 30 if we round up. Our body and hosts age is 15, but we range age wise from about 4 to about 68 years old, some ages are not known, or some don't have age either. We're really just trying to work together for multiplicity, which we expect will be difficult if we continue how we're working right now. Don't tell our host that though, we've kind of been putting up a front so they don't worry. - Virgil/James co con. Oh also, we're a very fictive heavy system.

um i'm sam, the host...anyone wanna talk or something...?new

Hey guys I'm part of an OSDD-1b system but there's not a lot out there for OSDD systems. All of our alters are either teenagers, take the physical form of teenagers, or age slide in and out of the teenager range... so I thought this would be a fitting place for us to make friends lol.

-Host

My tag is @breadcatillustrations

My tag is @breadcatillustrations

Do any of you guys have a funny story about did, or something in the past that happened that proves you’re a system before you knew about being a system? Share any story you would like!

Hi, I am a part of an osdd/did system but we are not diagnosed. I am 13 years old this year so kind of a teen but most of my alters are from 13 to 18 ish years old. So I thought that they could do some stuff here like make friends and ask questions and stuff.

:p I don’t really know what to say tho

It’s kinda small, I’d really like some teenage DID friends! (I’m also on r/DIDlittles cause I age-slide lol)

Most of the time I’m 17! My name’s Morgan, and I’m a girl :) I like animals a lot, and also cooking, but I don’t get to very often

How is everybody?

Hey I'm an alter for a DID system of around 13. I've been hidden for a while but now that I'm working myself into the the system thing I thought it might be cool to meet some people like me. I'm 15 years old and honestly open to talk to anyone so message me if you're looking to talk -Seth