/r/curlyhair

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For all natural curlies, coilies, and wavies! All hair is good hair.

Find help with your hair, recommendations on products, technique advice... anything to help embrace your texture!

Welcome!

Post your curly haired questions or awesome curly haired do's! This subreddit is dedicated to any and all with naturally wavy, curly, coily, or kinky locks.

Read the sidebar - lots of questions can be answered here!

Rules

  1. Provide your routine!

  1. Photo posts: you must include: current routine, products you use, and how you apply them, or your post will be removed.
  2. Help posts: help us help you by providing lots of info & by reading the wiki first.
  3. Other posts: (memes, products, etc.) set the flair appropriately so your post stays up. (instructions here)
  • Do not self-promote Do not link your own content, including your blog, youtube, survey, website, instagram, or store. Posting this content will result in a ban. Instagram handles are OK, but not links, and only in comments, not titles. (May only be shared once per thread, use a 1:10 content ratio.) Surveys should also be cleared with the moderators before being shared on the sub. If the youtube video you are posting is your own content or on your own channel, you may not post it here.

  • Keep posts and comments related to curly hair We are here to embrace, nourish, and love our wavy, curly, coily, kinky hair. Keep posts and comments related to curly hair. Off topic comments and posts related to straightening hair may be removed.

  • Practice good reddiquette. Keep it PG. Nearly all posts & photos in this subreddit are original content, meaning there is a real person behind each post who deserves to be treated with respect. Use the report button if you see anything inappropriate and feel free to message the mods. It's anonymous!

  • No sexual/creepy/harassing comments Keep it PG. Nearly all posts & photos in this subreddit are original content, meaning there is a real person behind each post who deserves to be treated with respect.

  • Include everybody. Anyone with any amount of texture in their hair is welcome here. Passing judgment on whether someone else’s hair is “curly enough” is neither useful nor productive for our common goal of bringing out the best in our hair. Please also remember that terms like “afro” and “big chop” have a long and complex history within the natural hair movement for black women (see wiki). To keep our community welcoming, it’s important that we respect these words and use them appropriately.

  • Do not privately message users of this subreddit. Reminder: this is a SFW subreddit. Do not privately message users, especially with "compliments" (those can be shared publicly) or sexual requests. If you wish to contact someone via PM, ask them in public chat first. They do not need to answer you.

  • Respect cultural terms The natural hair movement has a long history and the words created in it have meanings. It’s important to respect where these words, techniques, and more came from, and celebrate the importance of the work done by these early pioneers. Please be aware of terms such as “big chop”, “afro”, “natural hair journey”. Be thoughtful and respectful about using these powerful terms appropriately!

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    Curly Girl Method Overview

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    NEW: Porosity quiz by /u/sudosussudio

    Porosity and how to work with it

    Humectants, dew points, and humidity -- dealing with frizz

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    How can I find a curly-trained stylist?

    Dos and Don'ts for Curly hair

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    Copy/paste ingredient checker

    Basics of what to avoid and what to look for

    Ingredients: how to look for "bad" ingredients

    Silicones: Naturally Curly guide

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    1

    Is layers and curtain bangs on curly hair a good idea?

    I’ve gotten really bored with my hair and i want to try something new i know layers look great on straight hair but i don’t know if it would look good on curly hair too

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    2024/04/07
    17:33 UTC

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    What is this curl type, and is the hair thick or just average? Her routine is coconut and peppermint oil twice a week.

    1 Comment
    2024/04/07
    17:24 UTC

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    Product/ Styling Help

    Hi! So for the past few months, I just stopped putting any kind of product in my hair, just letting it do its own thing. I wasn’t very worried about it since my last hair cut, the person cut it way too short for my liking. Now that it’s at a decent length, I want to reintroduce products. I impulse bought Miss Jessie’s Multicultural curls cream, however I’m unsure if at the end of the day that’s really what I need for my hair.

    For reference, I have fine 2B/C hair. And even then I’m not entirely sure if I’m right about it, as my curl pattern super all over the place. And my hair curls whenever it wants.

    I’d appreciate any help or advice!

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    2024/04/07
    17:23 UTC

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    What comb would you recommend for defined curls ?

    Also is there a certain method to use with the comb? How do I gain energy to style my hair in sections lol

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    17:11 UTC

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    Camille Rose Leave In Products Work Well In My Hair, Can’t Find A Good Shampoo And Conditioner, Any Recommendations For Men’s Curly Hair?

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    17:11 UTC

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    Love them even when frizzy, time for a cut?

    3 Comments
    2024/04/07
    17:02 UTC

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    &honey melty moist on 3b/c

    does it work? i just bought it and am now having doubts, if anyone jas tried it (especially if you have 3b/c hair) please let me know

    1 Comment
    2024/04/07
    16:55 UTC

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    I need help with definition and hold please!!

    https://preview.redd.it/q9ez8eaux2tc1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1703a75327f000d94dab07558e7456cd219b055d

    https://preview.redd.it/1zcn4eaux2tc1.jpg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=23a87a9aaee51878f32c59e2af309e66eb6e5775

    I need advice on getting my curls to last longer and be more defined! To get my curls to start at the root I've been plopping with a cotton t-shirt for an hour and I think that may be somehow causing less definition, but I've only ever read that it's supposed to help! I love that my curls/waves look soft, but theres very little definition. For reference, this is day 2 hair. I usually have more ringlets, but now that I've started plopping it seems like it's stopped. What products do you all recommend? I've been blow drying and straightening my hair for years, so I'm new to the curly game.

    Routine: Wash and Condition with OGX Coconut Oil Shampoo and Conditioner, brush through the knots, use Shea Moisture Curl Smoothie, Shea Moisture Frizz Free Mousse, and Aunt Jackie's Curl Custard. After that, I plop my hair for about an hour and sometimes diffuse, sometimes air dry. Once it's dry, I scrunch with OGX argan and morocco oil.

    Thank you all for your help! :)

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    15:57 UTC

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    How do I find a good starter curly hair shampoo for my husband?

    My husband and I have been “arguing” (playfully debating) constantly about how to properly manage his sort of curly and VERY thick and beautiful hair. It’s one of my favourite things about him, and it used to be able to manage itself (despite using a 3 in 1), however recently it’s been losing control by turning frizzy and tangling too easily. Ive sort of got him to agree to at least try using products better suited for his hair, but neither of us even know where to start finding those, and every product we look at on line seems like someone had to be paid off to promote it. Does anyone have any starter product selection? (For reference he didn’t want me posting his head online, however it looks like about a 3A when dried after only being rinsed)

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    15:49 UTC

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    Should I be brushing my hair with conditioner in it?

    I have 2c/3a hair and it makes it a difficult task for me to detangle my hair with out feeling like I need to rip my hair out. Is it possible to use a vent brush/one of those brushes that has a flexible head on them while my hair has conditioner in it to detangle it, or how should I be really brushing curly hair?

    1 Comment
    2024/04/07
    15:44 UTC

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    Please tell me my curls will come back

    I dyed my hair dark red in April of 2023. And re-dyed it September and again in November. It's now April 2024 and I dyed it a dark ash brown but it still looks red in certain lighting. I wish it wasn't red but I refuse to further damage it so l'll accept this for now. My curls are pretty limp and a lot less defined after spending a year dying it.

    My question is how to incorporate different bonding/ protein treatments? I have the Curlsmith Bond Curl Rehab Salve Hair Treatment and know to use it every 3-4 washes. I wanted to get the aphrogee Two Step Protein Treatment & Balanced Moisturizer treatments but how soon after dying my hair should I use it? Also can I have both products in my routine or should I exchange the curlsmith for something that I can use more frequently? I ultimately want something I can do weekly, every month and every few months to bring my curls back.

    7 Comments
    2024/04/07
    15:36 UTC

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    Finally getting the hang of my curly hair!

    I feel like I am finally getting the hang of this curly hair business and I had a great hair day yesterday. 😍 Routine: wash 2x a week with not your mothers shampoo and conditioner, cowash on in between days when needed or just rewet and squish some conditioner in, then I scrunch in some gel (LA looks extreme sport), brush with tangle tweezer, then pulse scrunch. Plop with cotton T-shirt, then “hammock diffuse”. Once it’s 100% dry I scrunch out the crunch. This day I also clipped my roots for a little bit and pixie diffused a little bit after hammock diffusing. :)

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    15:16 UTC

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    the top of my head looks really flat.what would fix this?(while i did oil my scalp a lil it does look like this even with 0 product) 3b to 3c hair if it helps i brush my hair wet with a normal paddle brush but i dont think changing the brush would do anything.

    1 Comment
    2024/04/07
    14:32 UTC

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    Help with my boyfriend’s hair

    English is not my first language, i’m sorry for any mistakes

    He washed his hair yesterday night and went to sleep with wet hair (he does this almost every time he washes it), the photo is from this morning

    his routine is: • wetting the hair • applying curly hair shampoo (sunsilk) • rinsing the hair • applying curly hair conditioner (sunsilk) • brushing the hair • sometimes he crunches it and then he goes to sleep

    What can he do to improve his routine?

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    14:26 UTC

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    what type of hair do i have and is my hair lacking some products that would help?

    routine is curl cream and diffuser on wash day and otherwise i just spray water in the morning

    2 Comments
    2024/04/07
    13:10 UTC

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    I have a moisture overload

    I found out a few days ago I have a moisture overload and am not sure how to go about balancing it out. I would appreciate if anyone recommends a routine along side with products please thank you :).

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    13:09 UTC

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    How should I use leave in conditioner on my comb coils?

    Yea thas pretty much it, i got hair oil for my scalp and now all I need to know is how to use the conditioner like do I jus put it in my coils? Or like do I put it then comb twirl it?

    Please lmk 🙏

    I have 4c hair and i don't got a spray leave in

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    13:01 UTC

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    Why has my hair stopped curling? 🤔

    Hi so my hair journey has been a bit strange. So basically when I was younger I had very blonde/white hair which was very fine, no hint of a curl at all. Then when I was about 13 it started to change texture and eventually I worked out it had a curl pattern. It wasn’t super strong but it was there.

    Then when I was around 17 the curls were quite nice and I decided to dye my hair a dark red colour 😵‍💫. Eventually it faded into a lighter ginger colour but the curls were so good, like pretty curly and looked healthy. I was washing with cold water and using a curly conditioner scrunch method then dry with a T-shirt.

    My issue is this, the curls are rubbish now. Like truly my hair is almost flat now, I’ve tried going back to my old routine but the curls are nowhere near as defined as they were. I think maybe it has something to do with different water at uni? I’m thinking of getting highlights in my hair to see if this will make my hair curl more. Do we think maybe the curls are just gone? Any advice would be great.

    For context I’m a 19 year old blonde guy and only my grandma has curly hair.

    1 Comment
    2024/04/07
    12:02 UTC

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    Relax 3B/C Curly Hair

    have Thick curly 3B/C hair that takes me a lot of time and energy to manage. It does look beautiful but only for a maximum of 2 days after a 4 hour routine, which is getting me tiered.

    So i thought of going back to Keratin treatments, which i had stopped almost 7 years ago, so i know what damage it does.

    Do you have any suggestions, on how i could Relax my curls to something around 2C to make it a bit more manageable and lose the shrink?

    2 Comments
    2024/04/07
    11:19 UTC

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    Help!, what is my hair porosity ?

    For refrence iam a 16F 3C/4A curly hair. I got my hair dyed approx. a year ago and i silk press my hair 2-3 times a year. I tried the water porosity test where u place a strand of your hair in a cup of room temperature water for 5 minutes and basically my hair stayed up and didn't sink. My hair doesn't wet fast when I shower and doesn't dry fast too it takes a day and 1/2 to dry but my hair is damaged too so I'm confused which porosity I am.

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    2024/04/07
    09:39 UTC

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    ADVICE PLEASE ! for very moisturized hair

    hii! so i have very naturally moisturized and softer hair. my usual shower routine is shampoo 2x and then put conditioner in. then i use a light gel and scrunch my hair. however, my waves/curls are really limp whenever my hair is too moisturized and the curls barely hold/fall flat. does anyone have any advice in how i can make my hair grittier so it can hold? or any changes i should make to my routine? all help is welcome, thanks ☀️

    4 Comments
    2024/04/07
    08:29 UTC

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    How long did it take for you?

    I’ve always treated my hair as slightly rebellious but essentially straight. After a new choppy cut, I’m realising that I definitely have wavy and perhaps even curly hair (2a/2b at the moment) and I’m starting to look after it differently. It’s thin and fine, low porosity and in pretty good condition.

    My current (first) routine is wash/condition with Function of Beauty for wavy hair, scrunch with Aussie curl cream and Umberto Gianni scrunching jelly, air dry.

    I’m curious to know how long it took for people to start seeing results. How long should you keep up a routine before experimenting with other products? Tell me your hair stories.

    4 Comments
    2024/04/07
    07:51 UTC

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    Frizzy hair and bad dandruff

    My hair is wavy I cant really do the recommended routine due to my bad dandruff. Has anyone found a routine that helps with dandruff but maintains the curls looking healthy?

    1 Comment
    2024/04/07
    07:25 UTC

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    Low porosity, fine hair help!

    I have 2b/2c hair type, with some 3a curl strands throughout.

    I have low porosity, very fine hair (but lots of it). According to everything I have read I need lightweight products with no sulphates, no (or low) protein and that aren't heavy. I am STRUGGLING to find options that match all of these criteria. I am looking for a shampoo, conditioner and a leave in conditioner, potentially a conditioning spray as well.

    Thank you in advance.

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    07:20 UTC

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    Should I do an egg hair mask before or after a hair cut?

    Should I do an egg hair mask before or after a hair cut?

    0 Comments
    2024/04/07
    07:10 UTC

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