Hiya! My name is MaKayla. Im 35 years old, half black and half white, transgender (pre-op mtf), nerdy, mostly submissive, a big gamer, and looking for LTR. Im currently located in Southern Missouri (looking to change that, ill get to that in a minute), but i was born and raised in Washington state, and im a PNW girl all the way.

A bit about me:

I'm a big girl, definitely a bbw, very pear shaped, with a big butt, smaller boobs, shoulder length black curly hair, and a tummy im constantly working against (arent we all). Ive been told i have a cute face, but the battle against still having some slight facial hair every once in a while is still a constant struggle for me to be quite honest. Im usually very bubbly and positive, with a very submissive, yet sometimes kinda bratty, personality, although once in a while i have random mood swings, during which i usually get really quiet for a bit, and then bounce right back. I'm a quick learner, and i have pretty fast reflexes and a good sense of intuition, and I follow directions well. I am also constantly aware of my surroundings and very considerate of other peoples spaces and how i affect them. That being said, once in a while i can be a tad clumsy 🤪

Im a big gamer, mostly on xbox but a little on the switch too, although that is just because those are what i own. Im am a lover of all, and dont participate in the "console war". I play a little bit of everything, and love having someone to play with. Im not very competitive, but i have a lot of fun with multiplayer games. My favorite game series of all time is Soul Calibur, but ive fallen in love with Zelda, Kingdom Hearts, Fortnite (don't judge lol) Assassin's Creed, Need for Speed, and basically any Bethesda game, just to name a few. Im also a video game streamer, and while im still small, I've progressed to monetization on both Twitch and TikTok separately.

Im a fantastic cook, i have been told by many that i make the best food they know, and i love learning new recipes, especially online or just by trying new stuff, im very good at that. Im also decent at cleaning, i like cleanliness and tidiness, especially in the kitchen, and i definitely pull my own weight. I used to read a lot, but it has definitely been a while since i have really read a book.

A bit about you:

Im pretty open about who i meet as i am very demisexual, but like with anyone else, there are a few preferences id like to put out there.

I need: Someone kind, someone smart. Someone loyal. Someone who sees life in a positive way. Someone without pets or kids. Someone that values open communication. Someone passionate and affectionate. Someone who is a top, or at least a top leaning switch. Someone that will be my best friend, as well as my partner. Someone that wants to spend all our time together because we cant get enough of each other. Someone that wants to build a happy life together.

I want: Someone who is older than me, or at least close. Someone nerdy. Someone clingy. Someone who is a gamer. Someone who is ganja friendly and experienced. Someone fluffy. Someone who is dominant, but not a bully. Someone who knows about aftercare. Someone who is super kinky (outside of scat play). Someone that values respect. Someone monogamous. Someone that loves music. Someone that wants to turn me into a housewife.

Onto the more personal topics:

I currently live in Southern Missouri, in a pretty stressful living situation, to say the least, which i am looking to change as soon as possible. I live with my ex and their family, and me and that ex share a living space. They are a product of a lot of untreated trauma throughout their entire life and have been not able to treat it, and as such are moderately emotionally and mentally abusive. I moved all the way out here to be with them, ingratiated my life into theirs, have done everything they have ever asked, and due to unfortunate circumstances it is time for me to worry about my safety first. I dont know where I'm going to end up yet, and i understand this is a large factor when meeting someone online with the intention of building a LTR, so i figured the best thing would be to be up front about this. I am in no way looking for handouts or someone to come "rescue me" that's not what this post is about. I am just trying to be as up front as possible.

I am very demi, and once the vibe is right i get attached very quickly, and develop a stronger physical attraction. Once i belong to someone(s), im theirs, totally and fully. Im usually monogamous, but open kitchen table poly as long as the chemistry is there. Sometimes i can be a "little" clingy, and i have some trust issues that im really working on, as ive been abused and abandoned a lot in the past. I am also kindof a little, without a set "little age", and its a part of who i am at all times. It usually goes unnoticed by most, but there are definitely signs, and i am for sure a Daddy/Mommy's girl. I am very kinky, and I have very few limits, most of which only relate to actually hurting my feelings and actual bodily harm. I have a reaallly high tolerance for bodily fluids, a love for the taboo, and a very strong service kink, so naturally scat is a VERY interesting fetish to me that i would love to explore, among MANY others. I dont have a ton of experience with scat, just playing with myself in the shower and stuff, but its what i am usually looking up if im watching adult content in...private exaggerated wink

Sooo um yeah, thats a bit about me! Umm, a few more things to go over real quick before we finish:

-I do not send nudes, to anyone, for any reason. So please don't ask. -I have been in several serious car accidents, all as the passenger, and as such, I dont have a license, and have pretty severe car anxiety. -I don't drink carbonation. Weird i know. -Im a homebody, and a nester, and don't really go out much. -Im not really a pet person, definitely not a dog person. They are soo cute, and no judgement to you beautiful pupper lovers, but sorry not my thing.

If I still have your attention after all of that, and you are still interested, i would love to hear back from you! And if you aren't interested, i appreciate you reading my post anyways, and hope you have a wonderful night. =^.^=

Hey! You miss all the shots you don’t take and I’m ready to take a shot at finding someone to share a life with!

Who I Am:

I’m a 26 year old straight male from New England. I’m 6’2” and around 200 lbs give or take with an average build. I’m white with brown hair and grayish eyes. I have a bachelors degree and I am currently working as a sailor on merchant ships, so my work schedule is pretty varied with being around or not. I am pretty average with a lot of friends and hobbies that I enjoy in my free time. I like to hike and read, and I’m starting to get into cooking. I’m also very handy and love home improvement and fixing things. I go to the gym and like to take care of my body and health, both physically and mentally. I am a switch, and although I definitely enjoy being dominant I’m definitely also looking to be submissive sometimes. As far as fetishes go I’m into all bodily fluids, especially scat, piss, and menstrual blood. I’m into other things too but they’re a little off topic, so feel free to ask. I’m hoping to start slowly and get to know you well before anything. I’m not looking to rush into anything and need to establish a healthy relationship before getting into anything else. Something that I really value is clear, direct, honest communication on both sides.

Who I’m Looking For:

I’m looking for a woman who shares my easy going and fun demeanor. I would like to find a woman who has her life together and has an idea of what she wants her future to look like in broad terms. Ideally I’m looking for someone between the ages of 23 and 32 who has friends and lives an independent life. For me the biggest thing is that we vibe well together. I don’t really have any type of body type or race I’m looking for. I am looking for a woman who takes care of herself both physically and mentally. I’m ideally looking for someone who wants kids someday, and someone who wants to stay in the New England area. I’m looking for someone who wants to take things slowly and establish a loving and healthy relationship together outside of sex before getting into anything else.

If any of this sounds like you or sounds like something you’re looking for I’d love to hear from you! Thanks for reading and hope to hear from you soon!

Hiya! My name is MaKayla. Im 35 years old, half black and half white, transgender (pre-op mtf), nerdy, mostly submissive, a big gamer, and looking for LTR. Im currently located in Southern Missouri (looking to change that, ill get to that in a minute), but i was born and raised in Washington state, and im a PNW girl all the way. Buckle up, cuz i typed a lot!

A bit about me:

I'm a big girl, definitely a bbw, very pear shaped, with a big butt, smaller boobs, shoulder length black curly hair, and a tummy im constantly working against (arent we all). Ive been told i have a cute face, but the battle against still having some slight facial hair every once in a while is still a constant struggle for me to be quite honest. Im usually very bubbly and positive, with a very submissive, yet sometimes kinda bratty, personality, although once in a while i have random mood swings, during which i usually get really quiet for a bit, and then bounce right back. I'm a quick learner, and i have pretty fast reflexes and a good sense of intuition, and I follow directions well. I am also constantly aware of my surroundings and very considerate of other peoples spaces and how i affect them. That being said, once in a while i can be a tad clumsy 🤪

Im a big gamer, mostly on xbox but a little on the switch too, although that is just because those are what i own. Im am a lover of all, and dont participate in the "console war". I play a little bit of everything, and love having someone to play with. Im not very competitive, but i have a lot of fun with multiplayer games. My favorite game series of all time is Soul Calibur, but ive fallen in love with Zelda, Kingdom Hearts, Fortnite (don't judge lol) Assassin's Creed, Need for Speed, and basically any Bethesda game, just to name a few. Im also a video game streamer, and while im still small, I've progressed to monetization on both Twitch and TikTok separately.

Im a fantastic cook, i have been told by many that i make the best food they know, and i love learning new recipes, especially online or just by trying new stuff, im very good at that. Im also decent at cleaning, i like cleanliness and tidiness, especially in the kitchen, and i definitely pull my own weight. I used to read a lot, but it has definitely been a while since i have really read a book.

Onto the more personal topics:

I currently live in Southern Missouri, in a pretty stressful living situation, to say the least, which i am looking to change as soon as possible. I live with my ex and their family, and me and that ex share a living space. They are a product of a lot of untreated trauma throughout their entire life and have been not able to treat it, and as such are moderately emotionally and mentally abusive. I moved all the way out here to be with them, ingratiated my life into theirs, have done everything they have ever asked, and due to unfortunate circumstances it is time for me to worry about my safety first. I dont know where I'm going to end up yet, and i understand this is a large factor when meeting someone online with the intention of building a LTR, so i figured the best thing would be to be up front about this. I am in no way looking for handouts or someone to come "rescue me" i am just trying to be as up front as possible.

I am very demisexual, and once the vibe is right i get attached quickly, and develop strong attractions to people i get emotionally attached to. Once i belong to someone(s), im theirs. Im usually monogamous, but open kitchen table poly as long as the chemistry is there. Sometimes i can be a little clingy, and i have some trust issues that im really working on, as ive been abused and abandoned a lot in the past. I am also kindof a little, without a set "little age", and its a part of who i am at all times. It usually goes unnoticed by most, but there are definitely signs, and i am for sure a Daddy/Mommy's Girl. I am very kinky, and I have very few limits, most of which only relate to hurting my feelings and actual bodily harm. I have a reaallly high tolerance for bodily fluids, a love for the taboo, and a very strong service kink, so naturally scat is a very interesting fetish to me that i would love to explore, among MANY others. I dont have a ton of experience with scat, just playing with myself in the shower and stuff, but its what i am usually looking up if im watching adult content in...private *exaggerated wink"

Sooo um yeah, thats a bit about me! A few more things to go over real quick before we finish: -I do not send nudes, to anyone, for any reason. So please don't ask. -I have been in several serious car accidents (all as the passenger don't worry) and as such, I dont have a license, and have pretty severe car anxiety. -I don't drink carbonation. Weird i know. -Im a homebody, and a nester, and don't really go out much. -Im not really a pet person, definitely not a dog person. They are soo cute, and no judgement to you beautiful pupper lovers, but sorry not my thing.

If I still have your attention after all of that, and you are still interested, i would love to hear back from you! And if you aren't interested, i appreciate you reading my post anyways, and hope you have a wonderful night. =^.^=

Hey!

Oh, the odds of finding a female so close to home are always slight, but nothing ventured, nothing gained...

Who I Am:

A good looking male (so I'm told), who was introduced to this by my ex, and when we split two years ago we both said how hard it would be to find someone else who enjoyed it. Definitely the case!

I live in the Midlands, I can host but I figure it would be good to meet somewhere mutual first or chat on here a bit.

I guess rather than meet someone and get into a relationship and then see if we happen to share this kink, it would be more fun to start upfront with the kink, and see if our interests / outlook / general joy of life match up.

In general, I like travelling, live in a cool house, love a casual glass of wine here and there, no bad habits, clean and healthy and fit.

With coprophilia, I love the kinkiness and intimacy of it, and I love receiving it in my mouth... So hot to be struggling under there while you just enjoy your personal toilet.

Who I'm Looking For:

Kind and fun, loves chatting and music and talking about life, the universe and everything. I love strong, independent women who are fighting their way through life, and want someone to share the adventure with.

I'd love a relationship, I'm good in them, and I hope to meet someone who is looking for that too, although I know lottery wins starting from a very niche interest are rare.

If you're the kind of lady who loves the power or simply fun of it, give me a shout! London or Midlands or anywhere inbetween...

Must-Haves

None, just be yourself!

"Life is too short not to take reasonable chances." - My quote

INTRODUCTION - I'm a very talkative guy who has I lot to share! I know who I am, who would be most compatible for me, and the type of long-term relationship I want. I hope to attract a woman who desires a genuine connection, best friendship, loving romance, and passionate, kinky, taboo sex. I have poly/enm experience but am willing to be monogamous for my ideal partner. For the right woman, I'm also open to cohabitation, marriage, and sharing a lifetime together.

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"I've gotta be me" - Sammy Davis, Jr.

I live six lifestyles simultaneously: Solo, Pet-free (my feline-daughter passed in 2022, and I want to continue living without animals, but I'm pet-friendly), Child-free, Healthy, 420, and Scat. Anyone who wants to be with me has to be accepting of this.

I don't expect Solo or Pet-free to change unless the woman reading this post and I fall in love with each other and decide when the time is right that we want to share space or spend our lives together, and she has a pet. The other four will NEVER change.

A solo lifestyle means no cohabitation or marriage. I don't take these two topics lightly because I enjoy many things about living alone, and I can take care of myself. There are downsides to this lifestyle, as well.

I also value Freedom. Besides being drama-free, I'm divorced as of 11/1/23. After 6.7 years of marriage and 8 years in a relationship, stepparenting wasn't for me. My marriage was also open in October 2021 until the divorce (DM for details). While we're strictly platonic, my ex-wife will always have a special place in my heart as my first true romantic love. She's my BFF, and that's NOT going to change.

I'm GRATEFUL for my Child-free lifestyle! I can't have my own (I'll share my lab paperwork via phone and/or hardcopy), I don't want to adopt, and I don't want to help raise yours. I'm also pro-abortion.

My healthy lifestyle includes nutrition and fitness. I'm Very Energetic, and I don't look my age to most people. You'll find some faceless semi-nude photos on my profile and get face pics when we DM. I'm a non-drinker since I began my healthy lifestyle years ago, and I don't use tobacco products of any kind. After 21 years of use, on 2/12/24, I also quit smoking/vaping canabis for life, which hasn't been easy, but willpower is a strength!

STATS: American-Italian (not very hairy). 6 feet tall. Thin-build. 150 - 155 lbs (weight maintenance). Short hair (salt-and-pepper and receeding). Brown eyes and glasses. Clean-shaven (usually). No tattoos or piercings. Like you, I have physical flaws, as perfection is an illusion. Regardless, I love me, and I hope one day you'll love me, too!

I'm a responsible stoner. For my 420 lifestyle, I have a medical canabis card mainly for medical edibles, though I sometimes have recreational weed drinks. I'm eligible for the card because of my scoliosis; I'm in daily pain from this condition and tendonitis.

While I think about scat play often, I don't live a scat lifestyle 24/7. I want us to have a regular life together as friends and lovers. We'll play when the timing and mood are right for us to enjoy our mutual love for this, and we're prepared for the messiness.

PLEASE READ THESE 3 POSTS ON MY PROFILE: Scat Fetish, Feet Fetish, and Butt Fetish.

While I don't need these fetishes to get off, they definitely make it easier to cum and sex more fun!

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"To them, you're just a freak, like me!" -- Joker

We need to complement each other, so I'm looking for the Harley Quinn to my Joker, where our mutual craziness will blend well together.

Beyond this balance and the obvious physical attraction, there are nine categories I look for in a potential partner to gauge how compatible we'll be. These are mentioned below in order of importance, with a description of how I reflect each so you can see if we're a good match.

Genuine (You be You) >> I'm one of a kind, not like anyone you've ever met! Polysexual, with a strong value on Being Myself, I need a woman that I can be the Real Me with when we're together. That's crucial, and it's challenging to find. I'm also a great friend! As someone who has a small circle of friends, I don't use this word lightly when referring to others.

Personality and Sense of Humor >> I don't always act my age, as I'm young at heart! While I go by David, my male BFF nicknamed me Crazy Dave. I'm a lovable Geek (Star Wars, Marvel, DC) who's Weird and Quirky (DM for details). If you're also into astrology, I have my birth chart: Gemini sun, Cancer moon, Libra rising with my Mercury in Gemini. (I don't believe planets, moons, and stars influence people or events.) My sense of humor is dark, sarcastic, goofy, and perverted, and I have a fuckin' foul mouth.

Sexual >> I'm a Kink+ Taboo+ Deviant Hedonist. I have my Masters in Cunnilingus, as my Life Purpose and Passion is Giving Oral Pleasure with my Long Thick Talented Insatiable Tongue! I'm also NOT a sub, I'm an addict. I have a Very High Sex Drive (self-described Satyromaniac). Yet, quality is more important than quantity, so I'm selective as to whom I bed, and currently, I'm not having sex with anyone.

PLEASE READ THIS POST ON MY PROFILE: "Erotic Interests"

STI TESTING: 8/26/24 - I'm negative, and I'll share my results (via phone and/or hardcopy) before we're intimate or have sex. My next test will be six months from this date.

Scat >> I enjoy the Sight, Sound, Smell, and Feel of poop. I've mostly played solo, though I've had a few experiences with women who weren't into the scat lifestyle. Now, I'm ready for the next stage of my journey, and that's poop playing with a partner who enjoys this in intimate experiences. I have ideas I'd like us to try (DM for details), and I'm open to your suggestions and content creation!

ATTENTION EATERS: I usually have sweet-smelling farts and poop! I'm a chocoholic with a healthy diet (I meal prep weekly), who dines out occasionally (AYCE sushi, a 10 oz burger at my local bar, and Italian food are my favorites).

I do NOT swallow my poop, yet I have tasted it (DM for details). While I don't judge -- you do you -- I've never had an experience of someone ingesting my poop, and I love to kiss (I'm exceptional at this), so I'm unsure how I'd feel about having a partner who eats scat regularly until we try it, see how it goes, and it does NOT involve vomit.

Conversational and Intellectual >> I'm an INTJ-T. It's hard to believe, right? Haha! If you can't hold a conversation, I'll get bored easily and move on. I strongly value Consistent Communication! This is a MUST for Friendship, which is the foundation of any lasting relationship. Not only is sex best between friends, but TRUST is essential when involving scat. I also have a college degree, love to learn, and am naturally curious!

Emotional >> I have low emotional intelligence. I'm aware of this and do my best to adapt to whom I'm with. Yet, I'm also blunt and sometimes say things unintentionally that hurt feelings, etc. If you're overly sensitive, we won't match well.

PLEASE READ: I'm very good at providing emotional support, as my job as a healthy lifestyle coach (almost 8 years) has helped me increase my empathy. So, I'm trying!

Independent and Good Work Ethic >> I pride myself on my diligent work ethic and have been with my current company for a little over 9 years. I value Independence, own a house and car, and I can pay my bills. I'm a homebody who likes going out occasionally. I also love how I decorated, so I enjoy hosting!

Non-Religious >> I'm an atheist on a self-actualization journey (DM for details), and I prefer to be with a fellow atheist. Agnostic, Spiritual, Buddhist, Other is usually good for me, too.

PLEASE READ: I don't have a problem if you're spiritual or believe in a deity if you don't try to convert or convince me, and you're a good person overall. However, I'm not going to censor myself to comfort your ignorance, so if you get offended easily, I'm not the man for you.

Similar interests outside the bedroom >> PLEASE READ THIS POST ON MY PROFILE: "Non-Sexual Interests"

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WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR

"Buy the ticket, take the ride." -- Hunter S. Thompson

A monogamish relationship would be ideal (DM for details). While I've NEVER cheated in a relationship, monogamy has been challenging in the past because I enjoy vagina and penis equally.

PLEASE READ: I've never been with someone in the scat lifestyle, and I don't want to miss this opportunity, so if we're compatible in all other areas, I'm willing to be monogamous.

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WHO I AM LOOKING FOR

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." -- Margaret Wolfe Hungerford

I'm open to any ethnicity, but please be fluent in English, as it's my only language.

PLEASE READ: Given the challenge of meeting someone in this niche lifestyle, if you have many but not all of the "Must-Haves" and any of the "Nice-To-Haves", let's chat to see if compromises can be made.

MUST-HAVES (typically non-negotiable)

1. You're a Las Vegas, NV local. I'm near IKEA, so please be a reasonable distance. (I'm also open to chatting if you're willing to visit and then relocate if our bond is strong.)
2. You're younger than me, 21 - 49; I have age-gap experience. If you're 18 - 20, I could make exceptions depending on how well we match. If you're between 30 - 39, this age range works well for me.
3. You're shorter than me. It's better for anal sex. My ex-wife is 5 feet tall, so you're probably not too short for me.
4. You're Child-free for life! (Exception: if you have children, they're all adults.)
5. Your feet are well-kept (perfection is an illusion), and you want them pleasured often!!
6. Your butt is nice (perfection is an illusion), and you want it pleasured often!!
7. You enjoy receiving oral!
8. Your sexual appetite on a scale of 1 to 10 is an 8 or higher!
9. You will provide your most recent STI test results (phone or hardcopy) before intimacy or sex.
10. You're self-sufficient and financially responsible.

NICE-TO-HAVES (a wish list)

1. You have a healthy lifestyle.
2. You're a non-drinker. (It's okay if you drink alcohol.)
3. You're 420-friendly, but you don't smoke/vape. (I'm tolerant of others who smoke/vape pot.)
4. You have all, or most, of the same interests in the scat lifestyle as I do, OR you're open to easing yourself into this lifestyle with my mentoring.
5. You enjoy watching pro football.

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WHO I'M NOT LOOKING FOR (100% non-negotiable)

"And I, get sick when I'm around/I, can't stand to be around/I, hate everything about you" -- Ugly Kid Joe

1. You're a compulsive gambler, an alcoholic, or a tobacco or hardcore drug user (mushrooms are okay).
2. You're pro-Trump, conservative, religious, anti-LGBTQ+, anti-abortion, anti-science, a conspiracy theorist, a gun nut, or you mistreat animals.
3. You're into beastiality, vomit play, blood play, or extreme pain.
4. You're a drama-magnet.
5. You're possessive.
6. You're cheating on your significant other.
7. You refuse to share a recent face and body picture when we message, AND you refuse to talk on the phone or video chat before we meet in person. >> THESE ARE MAJOR RED FLAGS!
8. You're a scammer, hooker, sugar baby, only selling content, or you request I subscribe to your OnlyFans page to continue chatting with you. >> I'M NOT SUPPORTING ANYONE FINANCIALLY!

Hey everyone! I think this is my first time looking for a partner that shares this similar interest and mindset in both an sfw way and an nsfw way.

To start, I am a Black polyamorous 28 year old male, on the big side, and I’m located in the Metro Detroit/Southeastern Michigan Area. I work in the nonprofit sector and I love my job and what I do. I am college educated and tend to be on the witty and punny side.

I would say I’m a nerdy person. I really enjoy comics, Marvel and DC, as well as Star Wars and Star Trek. I love board games, DnD, and am always looking to get into something new. I game and enjoy everything from FPS, to adventures, to Mario Party, and horror. Speaking of, I am a huge horror fan and have recently been really getting into analog and digital horror. Along with that, I can’t say no to a good movie. I have been [slowly] making my way through all the 007 movies and really like them. I am a big fan of comedy and action movies but I’m down to watch something new and exciting. On the TV side, I watch just about everything from anime and animation to comedy and dramas. I also enjoy HGTV.

Outside of digital entertainment, I’m also a sports fan with the three biggest being American football, soccer, and baseball. I also enjoy basketball but to a slightly lesser degree. I like to read although I haven’t sat down with a good book in a while. I am a musician, and play guitar, bass, and piano mostly, however, I can still play the cello and a few other instruments. I sang a cappella during my undergrad career and still sing to this day. I also have an affinity for drawing but I don’t think I would classify myself as an artist anymore. I also have interest in architecture and spent some time in the field.

Moving out of entertainment in general, I like to cook and have been told I make amazing food. I like to spend time inside and outside the home, although I would like to get out more. I like to fish and camp, as well as explore. I used to get lost in a city and just find my way around and I’m planning on getting back into that in the next year. I’m always down to try a new restaurant or to go a museum, or just get lost in a new city. I am left on the political spectrum and will gladly discuss but not argue viewpoints. I love to learn love teaching myself new skills or watching a lecture or two on new subjects.

I am polyamorous and in a serious relationship. My partner is well aware of my kinks and while she is incredibly understanding and very supportive of what I like, it is not something she wishes to participate in. I wish to find someone to connect with someone I can share this and other similar kinks with. I don’t want that to be the only thing we share but it a necessity. We both practice kitchen table polyamory so please be understanding when reaching out that if things work, everyone will have to meet. I believe that’s all the important stuff but then again there’s always more to say right?

On the question of who I’m looking for, I would say someone who is unashamed of who they are. I value emotional intelligence, honesty, and communication. I am incredibly attracted to intelligence and drive as well as the nerdy persona. Someone who likes to go out and have adventures and see new places but also likes to spend a night in. That could be going to museums, or going to the park, going shopping, getting coffee, finding some time to get away for a day in some place new or making dinner together or even just jamming out to music or game together.Someone who likes to chat and enjoys getting to know the environment they’re in.

I tend to be more preferable to those who identify in the feminine persuasion, but I am open to those who identify in the masculine persuasion. I have no hiccups with special interest groups and communities (ie: furries, age players, etc… to name a few) and gladly welcome those who align themselves with any of these groups. As I am bi I’d also prefer someone in the community but am not opposed to talking to those not in it. I am a more dominant person and would prefer someone on the more submissive side in those moments but I’m open to talking about that dynamic when the time comes.

What I am looking for is an eventual long term relationship and partnership with someone I share this with. I understand that takes time and I am more than comfortable with becoming good friends before making that transition. I haven’t experienced too much in this kink and am fine if I am the inexperienced one but am also fine if I am the experienced one as this is something I believe both of us can get to enjoy and learn from each other with.

Must-Have: genuine personality, charisma, understanding, hobbies

May-Have: partners, special interests

If you made it this far thank you for taking the time and if you think we’d be a good fit, reach out. My DMs are always open and even if you think we’d be good friends, still reach out!

Who I am: I'm a submissive guy, most interested in the human toilet role. I'm a 6'6 300 guy with long dark shoulder length hair with a trimmed beard. I'm a pretty easy going person who just tries to enjoy life as much as possible. I enjoy hiking a lot, and recently took a trip to Alaska, you should ask me about it, I'll show you some pictures! I really enjoy watching movies, all kinds of movies, but I'm a sucker for slashers and a good action movie. I also play video games, on PC and PS5 if you're looking to connect there. I also really enjoy going to stand up comedy shows. I'm a former tuba player and looking to play more music in the future. I'm a big music person in general and I love all sorts of different music...but my favorite genre is hands down rock and my favorite band is without a doubt the Foo Fighters. I've never been to a concert before, but hoping to break that pattern this year!

Quick kink list: As stated before, I'm submissive and I used to be a tuba player, so I have a tongue that never gets tired, good lung capacity, and love having my mouth used for a lot of things. I'm most into/experienced with:

• Foot worship- not required but I admittedly really love this
• Ass worship
• Normal oral
• FreeUse mouth service, willing to be used for hours straight
• Being a toilet slave
• Breathplay and Hairpulling
• Open to wearing chastity devices
• Open to wearing collar/leash

Who I'm looking for: I'm looking for my next long term relationship with a dominant leaning partner, but I know that the lifestyle I want to live is not easy to just bring up on Hinge or something. I'm not expecting to meet someone with all of my same interests/hobbies- I only ask that you are okay with all of it. Bonus points if you enjoy the same hobbies/interests tho!!! Age/height/weight doesn't matter to me as much as general compatibility. Ideally, my next relationship is with someone who really enjoys having a submissive partner and wants to take advantage of that on a very consistent basis. I want to be with someone who understands that this type of lifestyle is one that will put me in a vulnerable place and I need someone who can respect that and see the beauty of the situation. Ideally, someone who wants to use me as their human toilet on a very regular basis.

Who I Am:

I’m a 36-year-old trans woman. Poly and married (dating separately) and doing the ENM thing for almost two years now without a problem. Also a parent, but at this point my child is a teenager so they require less of my time which is part of why my wife and I started poly. I’m a giant nerd with interests like board games, MTG (casual commander) and video games. I also like all the regular things like television (Tuca and Bertie lately), music (Lydmor lately) and films (horror lately). I’m a huge writer and did research/writing for over a decade as my career. These days I’m finally getting back into fiction writing. Reading is also very good with both some fiction and some history. Mostly like learning about the history of labor struggles or American imperialism. I go out and do stuff every once and a while, but more often just a homebody.

What I’m Looking For:

I prefer femmes. That could mean cis woman, non-binary or trans. I’m looking for someone with some similar interests as me, both vanilla and kinky. This may be a hot take but I don’t actually care if you can have deep conversations or not. In my opinion, long-term relationships are held together by your ability to have the everyday conversations with wit, empathy and support for your partner, and how good you are at saying smart stuff is not that important to the above actually.

Kink Stuff:

I’m a submissive and am looking for someone who likes toilet play. Roleplaying being forced is hot every once and a while, but honestly I am just turned on by scat and there’s an honesty in not hiding that during play. Being dommed while doing it is great, or just doing it without the D/s is also great. My other favorite kinks are ageplay and hypnosis (I admittedly have some weird ones). I also enjoy all the classics as well, such as most D/s stuff, bondage, humiliation etc.

Hi everyone!

It's difficult dating with this fetish, so I figured I'd start with the hard part and work backward, lol.

The hard part: So I'm into a bunch of different fetishes, but the biggest one is panty-pooping/diapers. My experience with all this is actually very limited so I'd like to talk about it first and hear about your experiences and expectations.

Who I am: I'm a law student in his final year, with a job lined up. But in my personal life, I have a bunch of interests and hobbies including writing, drawing, cooking, exercise/nutrition, video games, and D&D. I like trying new restaurants, going to museums, and staying up late with you bingeing on pizza and horror movies. I have other interests too. What are yours?

I'm in touch with my emotions and I'm a good guy to talk to because I make your problems my own. I'm emphatic, affectionate, attentive, and apparently I come across as confident but I promise that's not on purpose, lol. I love making jokes, especially dadjokes, but I know when to get serious (usually).

I'm 6'1, lean and muscular, with a shaved head, brown beard, and glasses. I'll happily send you pictures.

No kids but want them (eventually). No pets but love them.

Who I'm looking for: I like girls with big personalities who aren't afraid to be themselves and express their opinions (especially if we disagree!). I'm hoping for someone who's emotionally intelligent and somewhat ambitious. I want someone who's politically left-of-center, and I don't think I could get along with anyone who takes religion too seriously. And finally, I don't care if you're chubby but I'm hoping for someone who's at least a little health conscious. Generally, I'm pretty easy and will meet you where you are. :)

If you made it this far, thank you, lol. I have a lot to say and hopefully you do too! So message me. Even if this post is old, don't be afraid to shoot me a message anyway. I promise I'll respond, even if it's just to tell you that I'm no longer looking. Let's hope we're all that lucky!

Speak to you soon!

Hello all,

Since most of you likely sort by "new" and sticky posts don't show up there (grr, Reddit), I'm letting you know the updates that I've had to make to the posting guidelines.

This community now receives about 5-10 hookup posts per day, and only a couple of somewhat legitimate posts per week. The latter are often improperly formatted or lean too heavily into fantasy content. This is why you only see about one or two posts per month here.

As of September 18, 2024, your ad must now have a minimum of 1,500 characters (approximately 250 words). Use this site to check your character count. If your ad doesn't meet the minimum, your post does not go into the approval queue; instead, it will be automatically removed.

Your ad must now be properly formatted. Previous ads were approved based on if the person met the bare minimum of effort, but our community can do better than that. This includes making your ad cohesive and coherent, which will increase your chances of getting a legitimate response. If your post is confusing or has too many distracting elements, people will not read it.

Only posts that consist of less than 30% sexual, fetish, and/or kink content will be approved. We all know why we're on this subreddit, and fantasies are not personals.

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Hi there. I am looking for a long term, serious relationship based on love, respect and of course kinkiness.

About me: I am half-white and half Afro-American. I love to travel, cook, photography, painting, art museums and board games to name a few. I have an average build, weigh about 98kg, and 186cm tall. I don’t smoke, nor have tattoos or piercings. I have a professional day job. I do enjoy drinking socially sometimes. And by drinking I mean a nice glass of wine over dinner. I do not have any real world experience in this kink but I have been into it for a loooong time.

About you: You are looking for a monogamous long term relationship as well. You are someone who is hygienic and cares about her health and appearance. You have little to no ink. I don’t mind a small tattoo but if you have sleeves or giant tatts on your legs, it probably won’t work out. You don’t smoke. You are curious about life and the world around you and want to explore it and maybe build something lasting with a partner. You are also curious about this kink and have limited experience and want to explore it with someone together. Someone who lives in Germany or at least Europe. I am not looking for a long distance relationship but would be willing to deal with one temporarily for the right person as long as they were in Europe and we had plans for moving together.

If any of this resonates with you then hit me up and let’s see where it goes.

Given I'm looking here obviously I'm at least mildly into this fetish among a few others. Other than the obvious I also enjoy gaming, skateboarding (not very good but I try), metal music, and anime. Will probably scare you at least a once a day with how quiet I am, I grew up being really into stealth characters in video games to the point of learning the quietest ways to do most things. It takes time for me to get comfortable with people as I also have ADHD and am heavily introverted but if I like you then I like you and its gonna be hard to get rid of me. I also don't drive, I tried it once and decided it just wasn't for me.

As far as what I'm looking for goes obviously enjoying the same bedroom activities is preferred but we can talk about that when the time comes. I won't expect you to partake but being 420 friendly is a must as I smoke daily. I'm also into bigger women and have no real preference in height, at 5'6"ish as a guy you gotta accept that over half the population is taller than you up here. Other than that just be yourself, so long as we get along well there shouldn't be any problems.

Pansexual, switch, and kinky 38 yr old BBW single mom looking for some love.

I’m a Minnesota transplant, but am trying to root myself here with friends and chosen family (as my given family is ages away). I’m just looking for a genuine connection. I’m optimistic, creative, a homebody, and a lover girl. I love music, reading, cooking, writing, and flowers.

The person I’m looking for is over 25, single, understands that I have children, is open minded, thoughtful, patient, and can hold an interesting conversation. Since we’re in the copro dating subreddit, I’d obviously hope you’re kink friendly and are interested in exploring many things sexually, but this is secondary to all of the above. 🤎🤎

I am a 25yr computer engineer working in Southeastern Minnesota. I graduated college in 2020 and moved to the area shortly after for work. The time I don't spend working, I usually can be found online playing games with friends from back home or out and about with the new friends I've made since I moved. I enjoy anime and video games, but being out with friends is where I like to spend most of my time. My friends will tell you I have some self doubts about myself, but can light up a room and could easily get lost in a conversation. I generally consider myself outgoing and can talk to almost anyone about anything.

About me (physical and fetish): I am kind of short 5'5" and a bit on the heavier side, but am working to get within BMI range in the near term. I have a physical deformity, but it doesnt interfere with my day to day life. Aside from experimenting with a friend about a decade ago, I don't have much experience in bed, but I have experimented with my scat fetishes personally for over a decade. I have known about them since before I knew what a fetish was. My favorite fetish by far is peeing and pooping my pants, I have recently started experimenting with eating recently, but it is new to me. I have also done smearing and masturbating with my poop.

What I am looking for: I am looking for someone to form a long term relationship with, who most of all accepts me for who I am. I would love to have someone to expand my desires with, and show me some new desires that I may not have experienced yet. Also it would be really cool if I could just poop my pants around someone just because I didn't feel like going to the toilet too in some non-sexual ways too.

What I can offer: I have reliable transportation, a stable career and would be willing to travel up to the Twin Cities, Northeastern Iowa or Soutwestern Wisconsin. I spent too many years of my life facing judgement, so that's one thing I can offer more than anything else is absolutely no judgement.

If I sound like someone you would be interested in, feel free to DM me. I'd love to hear your stories or share some of mine too!

So I'm a 39 yo NB Trans femme, Polyamorous and Pansexual, living in Portland Oregon. Aside from the obvious kink, and a great multitude more, I do have many vanilla interests. I am a gamer, (Current obsession is Minecraft), dabble in 3D design and 3D printing, sewing and crafting, electronics builds, trying to get into cosplay. Am beyond a diehard Trekkie (may or may not cuss people out in Klingonese). I am also a lifelong learner and autodidact who had hundreds of university textbooks in my digital collection I am slowly churning through, as well as watching and taking copious notes from university lecture courses on a wide range of topics I enjoy studying. (And there are many.) I am a hardcore leftist. Nudist. Polyamorous of the Relationship Anarchist variety. Into a wide variety of kinks and fetishes. (Don't judge anyone for their kinks or predelictions.) I am currently aspiring to get away from being stuck on disability and back to some form of more stable and bountiful income. And looking to get out and socialize more as I get further along in my transition.

When it comes to who I'm looking for? I primarily look for other queer/trans people, (never straight people, sorry. Had too many bad experiences there). Generally prefer people of the feminine persuasion, cis or trans or NB. With men I usually prefer trans or NB masc, but if you are cis and queer, and you approach me with respect and don't treat my existence itself as a fetish? Then I may be interested in you. (Most cis men's behavior has made me wary of interacting with most cis men, even though I may want to be romantically involved with them).

Looking to be in a long term poly relationship with one or more lovely humans into this lifestyle whom I can explore this and other kink with. (And as for this particular pleasure, interested in most aspects of it, though haven't had as much opportunity to explore it as I would like to, and I enjoy primarily as a bottom/submissive. Though if we vibe well and I'm able may switch.) As long as this is up, I'm still looking most likely.

Possibly willing to move if within PDX area and we vibe well enough to cohabitate long term, as an IRL live together situation would be ideal to me.

I am a 35 year old male who lives in North Carolina. I work in the service industry in two bars as a bartender, so sometimes I work late nights. I am very creative and my main passion in life has always been making music; I love synthesizers and recording my own electronic music. I even write my own lyrics. I have various other artistic interests as well I like painting, hand-sewing and embroidery. I love cooking and curry is one of my favorite dishes to prepare. I also enjoy movie nights with a partner. "The Birdcage" is one of my favorite movies and lately I have been really into silly comedy stuff like "Monty Python's The Holy Grail". I have been Binge watching "Portlandia" lately for some laughs. I live alone with 3 sweet and friendly cats. I am very communicative with my partners and things like "Good morning" and "Good night" texts and phone calls Are a few of the ways that like to feel cared for.

I am looking for a 35 to 50 year old man (preferably older) for a long term relationship. I like handsome, fit guys who have a great sense of humor and make me laugh a lot. It would be amazing if you enjoy spending some nights out in town, and some nights in as well. Someone who has a few trusted friends is great. I'd like to meet your friends and would love for you to eventually meet mine. Social issues are very important to me, so I would like you to be liberal, and open minded. Trans Rights and Gay rights are very important to me and I'd like to meet someone who is comfortable within the gay community. If you are also a musician into synthesizers, That's a big plus too! Great communicators and honest guys with a good sense of boundaries get my vote.

I like to poop in my pants often and want to find a guy who doesn't mind that a bit. I'd also love it if you'd be willing to keep me in diapers at bedtime. Quality time is far more important to me than sex, but I am strictly a bottom, and do not wish to top. My limits are no blood, no pain, no hard drugs, and no consuming scat/urine. (I am not a feeder or eater.)

I would like to connect with someone in North Carolina, and I am willing to drive within a 100 mile radius to meet, as long as we both can take turns driving to see each other.

If this sounds like something you are interested in, feel free to send me a message. Say hello, be respectful and let's see where it goes! Thanks for reading!

I'm like a kaleidoscope of quirks, blending fun, cuteness, adventure, intelligence, humor and a decent dose of eccentricity and a sprinkle of normalcy and boringness. :-) A bit of a walking enigma. It's all about that elusive spark – connection and chemistry are really what make my heart skip a beat. I'm 5'11", slender to average build, blue eyes, white/olive-y skin. I'm a musician, love cooking, hiking, skiing, comedy, live music. I'm adventurous and love traveling and exploring cities.

I'm drawn to women who are kind and warm, and have a penchant for positivity. I like a partner with good hygiene, both personally and in life, like around the home, and a nose for good scents. Things don't have to be perfect spotless, but I can get stressed out by too much dirt and disarray. (Weird right? :-)) I appreciate a woman who takes good care of herself, with a reasonable diet and level of activity.

Who I'm not looking for:

- No heavy alcohol or drug abusers.

- No political extremists on either side.

- No habitual liars.

Now the taboo whispers of fetishism. With a huge Pandora's box of kinks and fetishes, this is one that's been my shadow companion for quite some time. I'm experienced as a full top. However, I'm compatible with a whole array of levels of experience and interest. What matters most is finding that special someone who dances to the same tune, whether it's a light flirtation or a plunge into the depths of intensity. Just know, if you're craving intensity, I'll be leading as primarily a top. However, I very much enjoy switchy things "surrounding" this fetish, like intense ass worship, smelling, licking, etc., as well as the more golden arts. And I'm open to exploring my current boundaries.

Would love to hear from you! x

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This is my first foray into looking for a serious partner who also shares in my interest in scat. Would love to talk and get to know you (and vice versa!) and then meet up in person.

Who I am

I'm tall (>6') and slim/athletic. Staying healthy is a big part of my life and includes both exercising (at home and at Barry's classes) and eating right. Originally I got an undergrad degree in Florida but moved out west for grad school and got a PhD in the sciences. Made some amazing friends out there but the expense and pandemic brought me back to FL. I work remotely and love my job, in addition to the occasional travel that it requires. Luckily I was able to buy a home to begin building my own little sanctuary.

In the past few years, I've been looking to discover and re-discover hobbies to build a life outside of work. I love working with my hands and thoroughly enjoy building things when I have the time. One guarantee is that my pup will always be my main hobby. She's amazing; my ride or die.

My friends and family would describe me as warm, kind, and loving. I'm even-keel and easy-going. A diplomat at heart who wants those around me to feel happy and loved. I'm a big believer in therapy and talking things out and empathizing with people, especially my partner. Very much a giver in the bedroom. Seeing you happy and turned on makes me happy and turned on, especially with matching kinks.

Who you are

Having moved back to Florida, I'm looking for someone local, or at least within a reasonable driving distance (hour or so?) of Tampa. I'm very much looking for someone to explore the world with, both in and out of the bedroom. I'm curious about so much in the world and looking for a partner to match that. That curiosity and worldliness does mean I'm looking for someone intelligence, both with book-smarts and emotional/social-smarts. With all of our adventures, conversation is really the name of the game to share our thoughts and feelings and to probe deeper. Finally, similar to myself, my perfect person would also be warm, kind and loving. I'm clean and disease-free. Looking for same.

Kinks and relationships

I've been in long-term relationships before, but never with anyone who is interested in scat. I'm into giving/receiving, wearing yours and mine, but not eating. Love anal and everything to do with it. Very interested in exploring with you!

Not into ENM/Poly coupling. Looking for a single partner who I can deeply connect with, both with and without scat. Looking for a long-term relationship that is built on close, intimate friendship. Obviously it would include incredible, kinky sex.

Contact requirements

DMs are open. Feel free to reach out via chat. If it seems like there could be a match I'd like to trade photos or do a video chat before meeting up.

Must haves

• Monogamous
• Fit and healthy
• Intelligent
• Empathetic
• Relatively local to the Tampa Bay area

Nice-to-haves

• Open to kids
• Close with family

Who I'm not looking for/Dealbreakers

• I've been in a few short relationships with partners who physically hit, either playfully or as a reprimand. That's a hard no from me as it's not how I communicate at all. Physical contact should be loving.
• Gifts are not my love language, either giving or receiving. My partner would ideally be the same.

About Me

I'm a moderately tall white male living in the southern part of Germany. I've been socially withdrawn most of my life due to mental issues and being overweight which i'm finally dealing with. The shame for having this fetish was very bad until i got into subs like this and read about peoples experience with it and was pleasantly surprised and relieved that the risks are not half as bad as i thought. That being said i still have reservations about sharing this fact with friends and family.

I've been in academics most of my life with limited success. Going forward i'm seeing to finish my degree in IT and if not securing a relatively well paying job, realizing one of my hobby projects as something that will generate income. I spend most of my time programming or playing games online.

Some changes i've made in my life are enabling me to seek more of a social life and i'd be happy to be more outgoing and fun. I'm willing to travel when my situation allows for it. You can expect me to be a respectful and empathetic partner you can be open to and i expect the same in return.

Who i'm looking for

You're a woman around my age (+- 5 years) with relatively normal statue (chubby or overweight is ok, i'm not looking for models). You're able to be kind and down to earth but aren't afraid to let out a bit of crazy every now and again. You're open to new experiences but also don't mind teaching someone like me a thing or two. You may or may not be A grade smart but you have a general interest in the world, the universe and everything.

Who i'm not looking for

Someone that acts degratory outside the bedroom or is highly judgemental.

Kinks

I've been on the more extreme side of this kink since puberty. I love the intensity and intimacy of it. I wouldn't say that i'm into it for the humiliation but i'd definitely prefer a more dominant partner.

I don't think there's more of a turn on than the idea of a woman just sitting on my mouth and forcing "it" down my throat. I imagine it also makes for great lubricant. I'd have to try it first to judge for myself. :)

Limits

It's ok if you're into other things than that as long as it doesn't involve puke, torture or furries and obviously illegal things.

DM's are open.

Who am I?

Serious, relaxed, and passionate about life, work and everything kinky.
I'm divorced, i have 2 children with 2 different women, none of them i have any contact with for varied reasons. Which meens that i am free as a bird.
When i was young i smoked a little weed and had a major alcohol consumption. Today i am 15 years sober. and very rarely touch alcohol, perhaps once or twice pr year and i never touch any drugs.
I currently live alone, i was reasently let go at my job after 10 years there, and i am currently looking for something else, and why not try something somewhere near you? ;) I am not highly educated. My jobs have all, more or less, been in the construction business. The latest 10 years have been in the fiberoptic internet trade.
I am the monogamous type, my heart and love is directed towards one person, but i am open to play with others aswell, tho i am not bisexual.
I am not religious, but i grew up in a christian country.

Appearance:
I'm a 6' (185cm) caucasian, normal body shape for a guy my age that have never seen the inside of a gym (95-100kg), dark blond short hair, blue eyes, no beard, no piercings or tattoos.
On a daily basis i wear jeans, t-shirts/hoodies, but i really enjoy looking sharp in a suit, if i am going to a BDSM club.

Kinks:
I enjoy the vanila sex, just as much as the kinky stuff. Its just awesome to spice up the vanila from time to time. Scat/piss/vomit, WAM/Foodplay, Roleplay, Fetishes, BDSM (i'm switch, mostly sub. 60% bottom, 40% top. On the bottom side i am 75% sub and 25% masochist, on the top side i am 15% dom and 85% sadist)
There are probably a thousand other things to list on these categories.
I'm open-minded for most things and always down to try something as long as its consensual and involving adults!

Who I'm looking for:

You are down to earth and able to talk about everything, just like me.
It does not matter what you do for a living, as long as you are happy with what you do.
Your kinks does not have to be a perfect match, but close to is ofcourse the best ;)

I prefer a woman with a healthy and normal look. Not too big and not too unhealthy skinny.

Who I'm not looking for:

I am not looking for anyone with an unhealthy use of alcohol and/or drugs.
I am not looking for anyone with mental disorders (other than being very very kinky) such as borderline and bi-polar. Been there, done that and got the t-shirt to prove it. :P

I am looking forward to getting to know you better. My dm is open.

The R4R sub was not quite getting me what I needed so I think I might give this place a shot.

I'm looking to make meaningful connections with people around age 27-35 who also happen to be into scat. That wording is important; while I know it's going to be a big part of what brings us together, I don't want shit to be the only thing we talk about or have in common. I'm a very caring person whether I'm just friends with someone, casually seeing each other, or in a serious relationship. I love connecting with other people and learning more about them. I'm a romantic in a roundabout way, even though I seem to find romance in places people might find strange.

Other than connecting with others, I am somewhat active and figure skate regularly, I love to cook (and genuinely prefer it to takeout when I can manage), and draw. I play video games when I can, and am a lover of art in general.

Ideally, you'd be similar. I like when people have hobbies they're passionate about and can give me a mini lecture on it. Whether or not I understand, seeing the enthusiasm some people have for their pastimes warms my heart greatly. I love someone who can tell a good story, with a sense of humour, and an open mind. That sounds very generic, but I would hate to be overly picky when I already am an acquired taste to begin with.

I am polyamorous and in a serious relationship, my partner is aware of my kink and is very supportive, but does not participate. I want to connect with someone and have another serious relationship where we share this kink. If you are unfamiliar with non monogamy/polyamory, this might not be the experience for you. If you are patient and adventurous, go for it. Do not see it as a challenge; you can't convince me to leave my partner to be exclusive with you. If we do date, you will have to meet.

I know it can be intimidating to make a connection with someone who is already "taken", but I am a great communicator and value honesty and openness between friends.

I'm also a nonbinary transmasculine person. >!A simplified explanation of this means I was born female, but my gender is neither male nor female. I take testosterone to help be more comfortable with my body. If you are looking for women you will be disappointed.!<

Forgive me for posting on an account with little activity, this is not my main Reddit account as I want to keep this part of my life/fetish secretive.

I am a 35 year old man who work's a full time, 9 to 5 (technically 7 to 3) job. I have my own car but not my own place. I should also state that I do have high functioning Autism and ADHD-I, basically I can be a bit awkward socially but live and lead a very normal and happy life. You will notice in text I over-explain, in person I stumble over my thoughts at times and struggle to maintain eye contact. I want to bring this all up first out of respect for any potential readers, I am a firm believer that honesty and being straight forward is important in matters like this. I should also mention, I have never had the pleasure of being in a relationship so I am entirely inexperienced but am trying my best.

I am a gamer nerd at heart as I was not the most social of people as a child, I was kinda the outcast, nerdy, weird guy so Video Games kinda filled the void for me. When I was younger I wanted to be a game designer for a big company like Blizzard Entertainment but that dream never happened. I now work in a tech sector job with a pretty big corporation in a position I am generally happy with. I still love game design, daydreaming ideas, making concepts, watching people discuss it, etc. I want to someday make a game, if not multiple, that bring people joy.

Outside of that I am a nerdy guy in general but more so on the Nintendo side of things as opposed to the Call of Duty, League of Legends, Fortnite, etc side. I use to watch a lot of anime ranging from serious shows like "Baccano" to really weeby stuff like Lucky Star when I was younger. If I had to pick a few favorites I love the typical Shonen stuff like "Dragon Ball/Z/Super" and "Bleach" but also love the humorous stuff like "Cromartie High School" and "GTO". I am also all up for cutesy, heartwarming, stuff.

Physically, I am a larger guy so I don't want that to be a surprise. I actually look a lot like Dr. Eggman from the Sonic franchise with how I am groomed so I hope you like big, ginger, mustaches. Aside from that I do worry about my health and don't take my weight lightly, I am trying to improve myself and be better but it certainly can be hard. I actually injured my back, pinched my nerve, at the gym a few months back but hope to get back in soon as I have been doing much better. Physical health is important and I certainly neglected mine but do want to be better.

I am a bit of a closeted pervert in that I LOVE sexual stuff, I LOVE sexual release, I love kinky and naughty shit! Usually artwork/drawings/written work are my go to over full on porno. This probably sounds cringe but I am legitimately the kind of guy who loves a good Hentai Manga with actual plot, character development, etc. I feel like when I can relate with the characters it gets me off more and especially if it's a longer running story with hundreds of pages and situations. But yeah, I have a kinky side but I am not the kind of person to really... discuss it openly? Like, I am not that guy to just bring it up randomly and I don't really get to talk much about it. It would be cool to have someone who also likes that stuff who I can actually openly discuss that stuff with ya know?

This is kinda what brings me here... Ever since I was young I was obsessed with asses, hell before I even fully understood sex I just knew I wanted my face in a woman's ass. Something in my mind was obsessed with the idea of smelling an attractive woman's ass and I don't know why. Scat naturally came to me as attractive and taboo in a very wonderful way among other fetishes. I never really had a strong desire just to eat shit or something but like... watching an asshole stretch and push out a huge shit, the grunts and moans, the dirty talk, the thought of that moist, heavy, shit landing on my chest. Getting creative and fun, the idea of using my tongue as toilet paper or sharing a small piece in a kiss and smearing it against each other's tongues. Thinking about stuff and reading/looking at stuff like that has always got me off but has not been something I have had much privilege to explore. I have experimented with my own feces in the past but personally id rather use a partners feces.

Anyway, I am trying to follow the post requirements so I am going to segue to what I can bring to the table.

As mentioned, I am a geek/nerd so my interests align with the more geeky/nerdy stuff and hobbies so I am someone who is interested in sharing those hobbies and interests with. I am a fatter guy, trying to lose the weight but I am very cuddly and VERY warm. I love the cold so cold feet and hands are always welcome. I provide an outlet to be weird and nerdy with once opened up! I love to bounce around weird what if, even roleplay-esk, discussions at random. I am an active listener who always gives 100% honest responses even when it sucks but not in a rude kind of way.

I am fully employed and have my own car so I am independent in that regard but I am not rich by any standard so keep that in mind. I am also not a pay pig >.>' So don't even try, but with that said I am also the kind of guy who loves to surprise people with small gestures of appreciation like snacks/meals/small things like a freaking Raven haha. I often get my family food, snacks or dinner, or get my sister shirts and yoshi dolls. So I do bring spontaneous, random, gifts of affection for the people close to me from time to time.

I am an actively listener and try to always think things out logically and honestly but also be realistically supportive. I am an emotional guy in that id rather bare my heart and feelings openly. Often times when doing stuff for others, talking up friends, etc. I feel myself wanting to tear up because I will often speak through my heart. I am the kind of guy to break down into tears over yell or rage. I am a bit of sensitive guy who would rather avoid conflict and likes to put other's first which, admittedly, makes it hard for me to ask for the things I want.

As for what I am looking for, I want someone who feels comfortable talking passionately about their interests, hell even fictional characters and situations! I want to be able to also share my interests and info dump and feel like I am being heard and supported as I also hear and support them. Someone who is passionate about what they do and enjoy who I can get interested in what they do. Ideally, I would love to meet someone nerdy, geeky, silly, playful, and confident.

Honestly, I would really love to get close to someone who is into cosplay, or perhaps someone who loves to draw or make music or even write. Id love to be with another creative type who enjoys nerdy interests and is passionate about such things. Or even someone who just enjoys gaming and consuming nerdy content who wants to share those interests.

I want to find basically a best friend who want's to share time together. Sexually, admittedly, at 35 and outside of Oral basically still being a virgin with a hefty libido so id love to explore intimate fun thoroughly with someone who has similar interests and desires. I want to shower someone with verbal and physical affection, support your hobbies, and be close as well as hear the same. A night cuddling and watching anime, listening to a podcast, whatever while being a bit casually handsy while talking about what we are listening to/watching sounds like a fun night in.

I can't really think of any "Must Haves" outside of being employed and having good oral hygiene. As for the "Nice to haves" it would be nice to explore some other fetishes. I have always wanted to explore smoking fetish as there is something taboo/bad girl about it. Love a good assertive, confident, bad girl who smokes. Smoking blowjobs turn me on so much whenever I see them but its not something I would ever ask anyone to do if they don't feel comfortable given the risks. Otherwise for the "Nice to Haves" Ideally it would be nice to meet someone who is a horndog like I am and wants to have fun often and maybe even push me out of my comfort zones in some ways. Someone who feels comfortable talking dirty and being playfully sexual out of nowhere and who would also find it desirable.

As for who I am not looking for... sorry, I am going to 100% be a hypocrite right here and know it... I am not interested in larger women. As a fat guy, I know that is hypocritical of me. I also want to re-stress I am not interested in men or transgendered folks, sorry. Also not interested in anything Poly/ENM.

Anyway, if you got to the end of this post I appreciate you taking the time to read this far and thank you for your time.

Who am I?

Silly, relaxed, and passionate about life. I've gone through many of the major life experiences - getting married (& getting divorced), owning a home, having a career, having kids. I currently live my life in the present moment, and each try to become a better person than I was the day before. I never want to stop learning, because then I'll stop growing. I'm actively involved in recovery (I don't partake in using drugs/alcohol), which has taught me a great deal about how to show up each day and be of service to others. Although I'm quite interested in finding a partner who is into scat play, scat play doesn't define my life or happiness for me; its more of a way for me to enhance and practice playfulness in what is already my full and enriching life.

Appearance - I'm a 5'10" skinny jewish man, curly hair, beard, glasses, tattoos.

Kinks - Scat/piss (omo, desperation, smearing); BDSM (i'm top/dom leaning); RP; group sex. I'm open-minded for most things and always down to try something as long as its consensual and involving adults!

Who I'm looking for

You are first and foremost able to communicate openly and honestly (which I actively practice myself). I've come to understand that communication is the foundation on which all trust is built. You have found purpose in your life, or are seeking to find purpose. You are willing to practice open-mindedness and humility. You're also willing to do some scat play (hence why we're here!). I'm not looking for someone wealthy or with a fancy career - what is important to me is that you are able to be playful, independent, and willing to live life.

Who I'm not looking for

Aside from reading between the lines above (ie, no codependency, hubris, etc), a major boundary for me is excessive drug/alcohol use. More specifically, I cannot be with someone who is consistently needing to use.

I look forward to getting to know you! Please reach out :)

Anyone else totally over the whole one-night stand deal? For real, it's getting old fast. Here's me: 6'1", kinda your average athletic dude, just bounced back from a breakup. Figured I'd give dating apps a shot, so I hopped on Tinder and Bumble. But, man, it's been nothing but a letdown. Been on a stack of dates and it's the same story every time – everyone's just looking for a quick fling or something super casual. I'm so done with it.

Is finding something real that hard these days? I'm outta here next year (graduating!) from UC Riverside, California and I just want to find someone who's down for the simple, cool stuff. You know, strolling around campus, hand in hand, sneaky kisses behind the SSC, laying on the grass by the Bell tower under the stars. Someone to geek out with over anime, binge-watch the latest series, and get our horror fix. Just looking for something that's got a chance to last. Is asking for a bit of romance and a Netflix buddy too much? Seriously, where's the real love hiding?

I'm a 43 year old masculine male that is very much a health nut..all organic and i live on my own organic berry farm on a remote mountain top where i love the serenity of nature and privacy away from any neighbors other than a vast amount of wildlife. I love birds so i raise chickens for eggs and i have a huge vegetable garden that is laborious but worth the effort in terms of good healthy food. I'm bisexual so equally interested in males or women though most of my serious relationships have been with women. Finding a perfectly suitable mate is difficult sexually mostly due to being a genuine coprophile which seems to be a very rare thing. I'm less concerned about the physical attractiveness of a partner even though i am very fit but i'm moreso interested in their shared fetish and their interest in living a clean and healthy lifestyle with good food and a more naturopathic approach to staying healthy and being interested in self sufficiency . I live off-grid and would love a partner that would enjoy the woodsy connection to nature and a back to the land lifestyle. I'm quite willing to travel a roadtrip distance to meet up with a potential partner but at the end of the day i'm pretty settled in the farm that i've put so much work into here in the central NY area. Maybe there's a fellow coprophile out there that would be interested in being with me here if we were to meet and our energies were in alignment.

Hello! Thanks for stopping in! For years I’ve had fantasies about this but my desire for it has intensified in the last year or so, ultimately leading me to look for a long term relationship with a woman who shares the same fetish. I’ve never done it before but I know I more want to receive than give but would gladly give in return if you wanted that as well.

So a little about me. I’m white, goatee and head shaved bald, 5 foot 7, about 225 pounds. While I do work out I’m still chubby and probably always will be, so need someone ok with that. Non kinks, I’m sort of a nerd, like video games, trivia stuff, but also I like the outdoors, going to concerts, watching sports. I’m always game to try new things. I’m kind of an ambivert, and this next part may be a sticking point for some. I want monogamy. I do not want to share my partner in any way nor do I want to be shared.

As for what I’m looking for, honestly I’m pretty open. Age, I would ideally like early 20’s-50’s, I like all body types and races. I want a woman for sure into giving scat. As I said I’ve never done it before beyond incidentally eating a fleck of it that was on my cock after anal. But I know I want to smear it on me and get off with it, I love rimming and want to explore eating it. If you love the idea of smearing it on your body and having me lick it off I’d be totally into that. I don’t want this to be a domme/sub thing. I want this to be purely us doing it because the wrongness turns us on and because we see this as an insanely intimate act, since 99.999% of couples never share this with each other. I crave it being an intensely loving thing for us. I’m into other kinks, anal, oral, piss, period sex, cum play, etc, and I have a fetish for womens backs. I’m open to other stuff too of course.

I would ideally love for marriage to be the outcome here but at a minimum long term bf and gf. Some common non bedroom interests would be awesome but not a must. Just be sweet, loving, affectionate, trustworthy and we will get along great. I’d prefer someone around central Illinois or a few hours from it but I’m well aware this isn’t a common kink so I’m willing to consider long distance (with the intent of eventually living together). If this sounds like something you’d like feel free to reply or DM me and we can chat!

About me: 35 year old pansexual with a lot of life experience. I've been independent since 18 when I first moved to the Ottawa area for college and later university. I work full time but I always strive to use every bit of free time I have. I love the arts, music, photography, film. I love the outdoors and do a lot of hiking, camping, kayaking, outdoor sports. I enjoy eating out and trying out new places on the weekends. I don't travel much, but that's just because I have never really gotten around to it lol

About you: I'm looking for anyone 20-50 who will be up for a nice slow building relationship where we can spend time doing things we enjoy and going out to see and experience nice things. Would be open to travel later on. If you're into the outdoors too and don't mind a partner who stops every so often to take pictures that would be great. I don't mind if you're experienced or new to the copro kink. I am experienced but very flexible and patient.

About us:
Mutually respecting of eachother, of our experiences, and of our boundaries. We can laugh together and have a lot of spontaneous fun.

Boundaries: I am a versatile/switch. I am not looking to be dominate over anyone or be dominated on a full time basis. I do not like blood, vomit, or extreme pain or humiliation. I am open to a lot of things and have a lot of experience in some areas, as well as inexperience in others... but I am always very eager to try new things!

I hope to talk with you soon.

I am a 25yr computer engineer working in Southeastern Minnesota. I graduated college in 2020 and moved to the area shortly after for work. The time I don't spend working, I usually can be found online playing games with friends from back home or out and about with the new friends I've made since I moved. I enjoy anime and video games, but being out with friends is where I like to spend most of my time. My friends will tell you I have some self doubts about myself, but can light up a room and could easily get lost in a conversation. I generally consider myself outgoing and can talk to almost anyone about anything.

About me (physical and fetish): I am kind of short 5'5" and a bit on the heavier side, but am working to get within BMI range in the near term. I have a physical deformity, but it doesnt interfere with my day to day life. Aside from experimenting with a friend about a decade ago, I don't have much experience in bed, but I have experimented with my scat fetishes personally for over a decade. I have known about them since before I knew what a fetish was. My favorite fetish by far is peeing and pooping my pants, I have recently started experimenting with eating recently, but it is new to me. I have also done smearing and masturbating with my poop.

What I am looking for: I am looking for someone to form a long term relationship with, who most of all accepts me for who I am. I would love to have someone to expand my desires with, and show me some new desires that I may not have experienced yet. Also it would be really cool if I could just poop my pants around someone just because I didn't feel like going to the toilet too in some non-sexual ways too.

What I can offer: I have reliable transportation, a stable career and would be willing to travel up to the Twin Cities, Northeastern Iowa or Soutwestern Wisconsin. I spent too many years of my life facing judgement, so that's one thing I can offer more than anything else is absolutely no judgement.

If I sound like someone you would be interested in, feel free to DM me. I'd love to hear your stories or share some of mine too!

I’m a 27 year old bisexual male living in the Portland, Oregon area seeking a serious relationship. I’m 5’6”, 130lbs, Caucasian-Armenian.

A little bit about me: I’m a mechanical engineer and programmer. It is both my job and my passion. I absolutely love to tinker and make things! I moved up to the Portland area from California (job-related) almost a year ago, and I’m absolutely loving the ability to see actual nature.

I’m a bit of a car guy and I’m into Motorsports. I have a couple classics that I enjoy modifying and taking out for drives along the countryside. I also love riding/racing motocross.

I’m also a music nerd. I love everything from jazz and funk to metal. I also play the least appreciated instrument in any band: bass

What I’m looking for: I find intelligence and respect to be quite important. I’m also looking for someone that is fairly mellow and laid back like me, but also someone that will push me to try new things. I also find people that are extremely passionate about their interests, hobbies, etc. to be extremely attractive. Having a love for learning is also a huge bonus.

Although I am bisexual, I do lean more towards women due to some bad experiences with men in the past. Similar age preferred but not a hard requirement. Also, I’m fairly open to most kinks. My main limit is blood, however I also don’t feel super comfortable degrading/dominating a partner. I am respectful of any kinks you may have as well as any limits you have.

So let’s get to know each other and see where life takes us!

Who am I? A young professional with a stable career, ambition, and lots of love to give.

I have many passions in life. Photography, music, mechanical repair, and admittedly I can bog myself down with too many projects sometimes but I'm working on it! I can't stop myself from fixing things that are broken. Great with cars and handiwork, keeping the household running. I'm a killer home chef if I can toot my own horn. Not every meal comes out perfect but I've learned how to fix mistakes and make great meals with a variety of ingredients. I eat almost anything! I don't subscribe to a particular diet but I'm open to adjusting to a vegetarian lifestyle.

I believe in mutualism. I want to be equal partners in life. In the bedroom can be different, but for running our day-to-day I want to see you as my equal and tackle our problems as a team with respect for one another. I subscribe to modern family values of sharing chores and debts and picking up the extra for the other if they are going through a tough time willingly. I am strongly in favour of bodily autonomy and women's rights. I won't be the type of person to demand you to shave your hair or wear makeup. If you want to or not and it makes you happy, then I'll be happy!

I am an empath by nature, which means I can be a great support in times of need, and I try to be thoughtful and mindful often. Being overly empathetic can cause me to be a little bit too passive at times when people do wrong, but when I see true bad intent behind a person's words or actions I will jump into action without hesitation. I am good with kids and animals, and yes, I'm hoping to have kids in the future. If you are similar to me in this regard I think we will vibe well! If my physical characteristics matter to you I can let you know in chat! Overall, most I'm willing to publicly say is that I'm average in most regards for a typical guy my age.

I don't expect to start moving from digital to irl very fast, just fyi. This is new territory for me and due to the nature of this dating page I will take a while to get comfortable with. At this time in my life I don't mind some distance so if you're a little outside the zone, please feel free to reach out anyways! Strongly interested in people who like living a balanced life; like getting active on the weekend, playing video games or watching movies on weeknights (not a schedule, just like an idea of what I mean by balanced!). I am strongly attracted by good wit and banter, and an easygoing nature. I'm okay with disagreeing on political issues as long as we can have a (spirited) discussion and be able to move on and end the night still snuggling in bed. I'd love to hear from you if you're a compassionate, loving person who enjoys asking questions and engaging in life with a curious eye. I'd love to go out on adventure trips with you to see and experience beautiful nature together! Tell me what you want to see first!

If you decide to look at my post history, please don't be scared off too much by what I've fantasized over. I love trying new things and vibing with what my partner likes and really a bare minimum of copro stuff will suffice to make me feel fulfilled. I do not need to partake in the fetish all the time either. Oh, also, I know this post was pretty serious but I definitely have a distinct sense of humour and it comes out a lot. I love to live and laugh and I hope you do too! :)

Thank you for reading if you've made it this far and I look forward to hearing from you in my DMs!