/r/CLTR4R

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This is the Charlotte, North Carolina version of /r4r.

This is the Charlotte, North Carolina version of /r4r

r4r - Redditor for Redditor Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

READ THE RULES!

POSTING GUIDELINES

When creating a post, your title must include specific details:

Age: Clearly state your age.

Tag: Use a tag to specify who you're looking for (e.g., [f4m], [m4f]).

Location/Online: Mention a location (e.g., [Uptown], [NoDa]) for meetups or include '[online]' for virtual connections.  
Example Title: "30 [M4F] Uptown - Looking for a hiking partner"

Acceptable tags: M4F, F4M, M4M, F4F, R4R, T4T, T4M, T4F, T4R, M4R, F4R

/r/CLTR4R

15,305 Subscribers

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40 [M4F] Has anyone actually had a successful encounter using this sub?

Genuinely curious if this sub has ever worked for anyone. It seems to be 99% horny dudes (like myself), and 1% female… but the “female” posts are either blatant scams or OF sellers. So seriously wondering if this page has any value, or if it’s just a massive sausage fest with a few scams mixed in…

0 Comments
2024/10/06
10:53 UTC

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18 [F4M] - Looking for a guy to have fun with me and satisfy my kinks

I will be visiting Charlotte on the 14th. Wanna find a guy who can help me have fun when I get here. Would like to have some wild nights and try my kinks with me. So if you're interested, I'm just one dm away!

3 Comments
2024/10/06
03:45 UTC

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M4F

29m looking for fun ;) very fit clean and long lasting ;)

0 Comments
2024/10/06
02:16 UTC

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23 M4A - looking for around my age (18-26)

I will be in Huntersville today! I am looking mostly for people to hang out with and get to know.

  • 5’7 120
  • Straight curious
  • Virgin

If u r interested in getting to know each other and maybe have some fun doing it, hmu! SEND PICS!

1 Comment
2024/10/05
13:10 UTC

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24 [M4F] Looking to chat or fun

Looking for some fun chat or some fun. I'm new to this kind of thing but am willing to have some fun. I'm willing to send pics and verify if need be. Closer to the Shelby are preferred. Dms open

0 Comments
2024/10/05
06:28 UTC

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At work bored

At work bored. Kinda horny. Kinda want to get fucked on my break.

6 Comments
2024/10/05
03:36 UTC

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53 M4F X-Large

Hello Ms Horny ;)

If you happen to be looking for what I think you're looking for, then you are in luck!

Cum over to my place and witness your legs spread, and part. Your feet ascend…

Cum listen to your aches of my thick cock stirring your wetness echo through my neighborhood, gurgles mixed with "F-F-Fuck oh fuck"

Cum watch me bend you over, tiptoe between your thighs. Grab your ass, make you fuck my big cock… pound into your juicy hips, slap on your ass… my cock radiating through your whole body

You murmuring gibberish with “F-Fuckfuck oh fuck”

Looking for light playful fun with a lady friend. Single white, respectful, zestfully clean, shaved below, can host and ready to do some stretching ;) Disease free with recent test papers

Profile is detailed… but please don’t stare!

0 Comments
2024/10/05
00:34 UTC

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FM4F fun time

25f and 45m looking to have fun. I 25f want to have the experience of a threesome with my friend. I love women so sit on my face while he’s inside me and I want to watch you with him. Will swap pics! We’re clean and 420 friendly.

0 Comments
2024/10/04
22:59 UTC

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26[M4F] - Looking near Matthews

Looking to receive head tonight or sometime throughout the weekend. Looking near Matthews. I have pics on my profile. Open to carplay too.

0 Comments
2024/10/04
21:34 UTC

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35[M4F] Charlotte NC - Looking for a plus sized pillow princess

I am in the mood to eat some pussy, preferably a big girl. 😊🥰 I guess I have an oral fixation and i’m in a BBW kind of mood . 🤷‍♂️ I don’t need any reciprocation.

My favorite thing is when I make your pussy cum from my mouth! There is no better feeling in the world- all i want to do is eat pussy!

I’m kind of curious how many orgasms i can give you in a sitting…

I like all shapes and sizes of women, i’m definitely not afraid of curves.
I’m over 6 feet, handsome face, white guy. 7 inch cock. I’m a bigger guy, like football player build, few extra pounds, but carry it well.

If your idea of a good time is spreading your legs and getting off then hit me up!

0 Comments
2024/10/04
21:28 UTC

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30M4F/FM Canadian Bull visiting CLT for a week with hotel room

About me:

  • Male
  • 30
  • White
  • DDF, clean/tested (every 4-6 weeks), triple vaccinated
  • 200Lbs with muscular gym body (I'm a strength and conditioning coach)
  • Heavily tattooed
  • Respectful, sane, working professional
  • Have an accent (bonus points if you can guess where from)
  • Hung, clean shaven
  • Previous Reddit success stories are posted on my profile for you to view and verify

Interested in meeting with couples, singles and groups.

Will provide full verification including face pics and NSFW (upon request), you will be asked to do the same. References from other Reddit couples can also be provided.

Based in the Canada but visiting Charlotte for a week and staying in a hotel by the airport.

DM/Chat works best!

1 Comment
2024/10/04
20:01 UTC

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50s fem guy, Charlotte Lakewylie Rockhill Belmont areas, can you ?

Looking for a man that enjoys fem sissy guys, or another fem or sissy guy. I need someone that can make my little tits and nipples feel good and my little boy clit. Alot of guys have looked at my last post but no one has replied with a serious offer. I need a person that can make and want all my fem sissy side come out. I'm very pvt and discreet. Also very clean.

4 Comments
2024/10/04
02:14 UTC

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28 [M4F] Uptown - Can I lick your tanlines before they disappear?

There is nothing more beautiful, sexual, and a huge turn on than some amazing tanlines. And before the hot weather ends and they go away I would love to be blessed with the opportunity to explore your body before the cold front takes us away.

Please be aware that I do want to remain discreet and am somewhat of a public figure (not trying to brag) so please be lowkey as well. I was once active in the hotwife scene so if that’s you than I’m completely okay with that! Married, single, taken, as long as you’re up front I’m open!

Tell me about your desires, your experiences in the past, and a fun fact about yourself!

0 Comments
2024/10/04
00:25 UTC

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32 [M4F] Uptown - VERIFIED HUNG Puerto Rican seeks size queen

I’m an outgoing, intelligent yet very laid back person. I’m Latino of Puerto Rican decent. I seek fun, smiles and passion in the bedroom. I stand 5'11, 180 lbs. with a 9 inches below. I have a very high libido and I enjoy marathon session of deep pussy pounding penetration. Im seeking a multi-orgasmic females who can handle a man with extraordinary size pics and videos in my profile.

0 Comments
2024/10/03
17:01 UTC

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46 [M4M] S. CLT/Matthews - looking for a connection with an older man 65+

Interested in a connection with someone to go on dates with, but equally interested in something sexual. I'm vers & kink-friendly.

Preferably something short-term/long-term, not interested in one-night stands. No body type preferences.

0 Comments
2024/10/03
16:29 UTC

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Available

Just cleared out all my messages. Sorry if i did not reply back had too many messages. Im now able to receive new messages and hopefully keep up.

1 Comment
2024/10/03
11:49 UTC

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29M Virgin

As I sit down to write this, I’m filled with a mix of nervousness and hope. I’m a 29-year-old introvert, and while I’ve come to terms with many aspects of who I am, there’s one area of my life that’s been a constant source of frustration: my lack of experience with women.

I’ve always been shy and a bit awkward around the opposite sex. It’s not that I don’t want to connect with someone; it’s just that I’ve had my share of bad luck and missed opportunities. When I see friends who seem to effortlessly glide through relationships and dating, it’s hard not to feel like I’m missing out on something essential. And at 29, I’m still a virgin.

For a long time, I told myself it didn’t matter. I’ve focused on my career, my hobbies, and my friendships, telling myself that the right person would come along when the time was right. But as I approach 30, I can’t shake the feeling that I’m running out of time. The idea of entering my 30s without having experienced intimacy feels like a weight that’s only growing heavier.

I want to make something clear: this isn’t just about losing my virginity. It’s about making a connection with someone, feeling close to another person, and experiencing something that most people take for granted. I’m not looking for a casual hookup just to “get it over with.” I want this experience to be meaningful, even if it’s just a brief moment in time.

It’s not easy for me to put myself out there. As an introvert, the dating world often feels overwhelming. The idea of going on endless dates, trying to impress someone, or navigating the complexities of modern dating apps is daunting. I’ve tried, and I’ve failed, more times than I care to admit. Each rejection or awkward interaction feels like another nail in the coffin of my confidence.

But I’m not giving up. I’m writing this as a way to take a step forward, to put my intentions out into the universe, and to see if there’s someone out there who might understand where I’m coming from. I’m hoping to find someone who values connection and intimacy as much as I do, someone who sees beyond the surface and is willing to take a chance on someone who may be a little different from the norm.

I know this post might seem like an unusual way to approach this situation, but I’ve realized that if I don’t take some kind of action, nothing will change. So here I am, being vulnerable in a way that’s uncomfortable but necessary.

If you’re reading this and can relate to what I’m going through, or if you know someone who might, I’d love to hear from you.

0 Comments
2024/10/03
10:34 UTC

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20 M4F Latino 5'7 230lbs 6in

Looking for a girl to each out, have fun with, or just chill with open for just friends too

0 Comments
2024/10/03
06:55 UTC

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18 [F4M] Looking for FWB

Long term FWB or one night NSA. I'm 18F, older men preferred.

2 Comments
2024/10/03
05:51 UTC

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Bear/chub looking to suck. M4M

Hmu Asap. Looking to swallow up some cock asap. In east clt. Mobile. Head good asf.

0 Comments
2024/10/03
05:30 UTC

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43 [t4f] Huntersville looking for strap-on play 🥰🥰

Hi there! I'm a transgender woman in town for a few months. I'd absolutely love to find someone who would want to use a strap-on on me. Weekdays and weekend nights are free!

2 Comments
2024/10/02
21:13 UTC

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20 [M4F] want to get freaky and take my virginity

Hey my name is Eric and I’m in the charlotte area and was wondering if anyone wanted to help me lose my virginity. We can talk more in chats I hope to hear from you ;)

0 Comments
2024/10/02
18:18 UTC

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Mooresville 34 [M4MF] I want to watch again

Are there any exhibitionist here?? I have found myself to be a bit of a voyeur and I’m looking to watch a straight couple have sex. Doesn’t have to be anything more and I do not need to join.

I have met up with a couple in the past and it was an absolute blast . I am very respectful of boundaries and honestly a pretty normal guy considering him on here lol. DM me if you want to put on a show.

0 Comments
2024/10/02
17:32 UTC

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29 F4F - Going to be in CLT this weekend

Looking for a cute girl to sit on my face then return the favor! I'm a 420 friendly, curvy but athletic. I will be around the university area for the most part.

1 Comment
2024/10/02
16:58 UTC

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23(M4F)-ENC for a kinky fwb (Read Post)

I enjoy all sorts of bondage kinks. Shibari, candle wax,I enjoy roleplaying, impact play, edging/orgasm denial, forced orgasm, nipple breast binding, rope bondage, breath play, wax play, sensory deprivation, oral receiving and giving, anal, face fucking, face sitting group scenes overstimulation, even strap on, and more plus I’m always open for more so don’t be shy let’s see how we hit it off!

0 Comments
2024/10/02
16:21 UTC

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29M4F virgin

I’m in a bit of a unique situation and could really use some help. I’m 30 and about to head off to the Army in a couple of weeks. One thing that's been on my mind a lot recently is the fact that I’m still a virgin. I know this might sound trivial, but it's something I’d like to experience before I start this new chapter of my life.

I’m not looking for a quick fix or a one-night stand just to “get it over with.” I want it to be with someone I can connect with, even if it’s just for a short time. I’m aware that this might sound like I’m putting too much pressure on myself, but it’s hard not to when it feels like everyone around me has already had this experience.

I’ve been pretty shy around girls, which has made dating difficult. I have never kissed a lady let alone seen one naked or even touched one and now I feel like I’m running out of time before I ship out. And now I’m worried that going into the Army without having this experience might make me feel even more out of place.

So, I’m reaching out to see if anyone is willing to help a poor sap out.

0 Comments
2024/10/02
11:09 UTC

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50s sissy fem guy looking for one guy. Charlotte Lakewylie areas

Trying one more time, I know there's a guy out there that likes fem or sissy men,I'm a normal guy in public but fem and sissy or boyish in pvt and I'd want my own guy. I want to date hang out with him go and do things. But at home I definitely want to be the fem one. I don't have alot of experience so if you don't that's ok, if you want a passionate romantic guy that wants to make you feel like your being loved by your lover let's chat. Tell me what you enjoy in and out of the bed room.

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2024/10/02
10:47 UTC

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23 M4M smooth college student looking to suck dick and get fucked. Pics on profile.

Smooth bubble butt looking to get fucked and suck dick. I’m really good deep throating and I’m submissive.

3 Comments
2024/10/02
03:19 UTC

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[F&M4F] Couple for F near Charlotte

F 28 white BBW, M 32 BWC Wanting to experience our first FMF with a woman between the ages of 21 and 32. We live in rock hill, SC which is 30 minutes from Charlotte.

We are kind, caring, funny, and nerdy.

3 Comments
2024/10/02
02:07 UTC

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33 [F4M] Charlotte - need to get bent and creampied before I die

hey, not literal death lol but like before I die from being horny. I would preferably wanna be with a mid sized- dad bod and older guy or a man over 30

10 Comments
2024/10/01
20:39 UTC

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