Does dry humping without underwear can cause pregnancy if the guy had pre cum?

So me and my bf had protective sex back in October 7. We're both paranoid so we always check if there are any leaks in the condom after we finish by pouring water inside and we also make sure not to have any cum on our hands so we wash our hands and disinfect with rubbing alcohol all the time during the deed. We never do it raw and he always pulls out even with the condom on and finishes outside. We always did it by the book to make sure we won't make any mistakes. However I haven't had my period since then and missed a whole month. According to my flo app I'm 14 days late. I have an irregular period so usually it's nothing to worry about and it's not my first time missing a month however it is my first time to miss a month after having sex so I'm just getting worried if I'm pregnant right now. I still can't go out to buy a pregnancy test since I came back home and my parents are very strict and doesn't let me go out just for anything other than school (we're having a long holiday rn). I'm in college btw. Lately I've been experiencing the usual clear discharge sometimes it's white and sticky as well as some cramps. The typical things I experience before having my period however I've heard pms is similar to pregnancy symptoms. Can someone give me any reassurance or some advice? Am I just late? Is the stress affecting it? Am I actually pregnant? I'm really scared.

Hello, I was giving a handjob as one does and my partner pre-came and it got on my hands. I sanitized my hands twice with Purell and put water on them. Maybe about 5-10 minutes later I flicked the bean…. My partner is worried but even though I think it’s quite impossible there’s a bit of me that thinks nothing is impossible and I also have paranoia issues. Yes I did take sex ed but an issue at this level of specificity wasn’t really discussed either. I would appreciate it if someone settled mine and my partners two teenage nerves because we are trying to be safe here 👍

Hi there so I’m 19 (yes I know very stupid) and I had sex with my boyfriend without the condom this time and my parents were very strict about that and well I took a test yesterday and it came back with I thought was A line at first I called my friend freaking out and it went completely white on the one side with the other — but mine goes in a cross if positive could any momma help me?? Or anyone I can’t send photos on here could you dm me to help I’m just really scared right now I’m going to take another one in two weeks just in case but a cross appeared for a hour (next day) yes I kept it cuz I was scared and thought there was a line and I had a dream there was one so I checked and there was a cross then it went away into a line that doesn’t even connect to the whole thing I’m just really scared and confused

On 10/30 (day 12) I had a ton of clear sticky discharge. But then today two days later (day14) I have what feels like ovulation cramps. This same pattern has happened in prior months too. Did I ovulate today or two days ago?

I had unprotected sex on September 29th which led me to take a plan B pill within an hour. I was suppose to start my period around the 23rd to 25th of October, but I have yet to get it. When I track it, I am currently 8 days late. I took two pregnancy tests; one on the 26th of October and the second one on the 30th. Both of which were negative… My cycle length variation is around 28-33 days. Other than having discharge for a few days this week, I don’t have any symptoms that I could be pregnant. I’ve also had a cold and I’ve been under stress. Do I test again? I’m just confused but I want to be on the safe side as well.

Hi all, my Flo app told me to take a pregnancy test today (2 days after missed period) and the first test I took, CVS brand, was positive clear as day around 4pm. It didn't feel real so I bought the 3 pack of early response. I took the digital one first at maybe 7pm and it said "no." I couldn't sleep so I cracked it open and there are 2 lines - not sure if this happens regardless. Then I took the early response early result just now at 9pm and it's also negative. Is it still possible I could be pregnant?

So yesterday was my gfs last day of ovulation and when we were having sex the condom broke. I wasn’t fully penetrated only partially. My worry here is pre ejaculate. She took a plan B this morning. We’re both getting worried the more we think about it.

Yeah, weird topic. So my ex and I broke up and it was ugly. Now I’m paranoid that I could have a kid… Whenever we had sex we always used condoms. Always used them properly, squeezed the tip and rolled all the way down. Realistically what are my chances of having a kid with my ex…

So I have been taking Aurovela Fe 1/20 since July 2024. I take it pretty consistently around 9pm everyday if not between then and 11pm. I don’t miss pills and take the whole pack with 4 placebos. My bf and I use my pill and the pull out method for protection. Lately I have been bloating more than usual I think and peeing more the past 2 days. This has kind of sent me into a spiral of testing I tested 15 days after our most recent intercourse and before that it’s been 21+days. (We have sex at least once a week) All tests have been negative so I don’t understand why I still feel the need to keep testing. Any advice or opinions would be helpful

So I’ve been taking my birth control junel fe 1/20 it is a combo pill, I had unprotected sex the morning of my last day of last period. He did not cum inside of me, meaning we did the pull out method and it was atleast 5 min after he pulled out to when he finished from giving him head. I know that swallowing you can’t get pregnant, since the organs aren’t connected, I am just wondering what my chances are? I did take 3 tests after the 21 days since all of them were negative? This period I had was a day of bleeding that wasn’t enough to fill a tampon but I still needed it, then the next day I had nothing, the day after that it was the same as the first. It has been a month since I had sex and I don’t show any symptoms of being pregnant. Just want to hear some other advice!

Hello Reddit. This is my first time posting here ever.
3 months ago, me and my partner had intimacy. The first time we did it it was without a condom, but he didn't finish and it was just pre. Since then my period has been off - I've had it more often than usual. I had it 2 weeks ago and now it's starting up again, and before that it went on for 2 whole weeks. I don't know if this could be because of a different health thing or an imbalance of hormones - but I haven't felt any other symptom of pregnancy apart from let's say bloating. I haven't been moody, I haven't felt nauseous, I haven't felt any different.
I'm just worried about this because I don't really have anyone I could rely on to talk about it or even have access to a doctor. My parents are hardcore catholic and I can't even imagine their reaction to this information. I can rely on my partner, but we're still young and it'd be really scary to share with his parents; they're good people, but I don't want to burden them.
Any responses or advice would be helpful
I can't go to a doctor because I don't drive and don't have insurance - so that's not an option.

my bf and i had protected sex (condom and pull out), the condom didn’t slipped/broke when we checked. my period was supposed to come last month between 23-28. i am delayed for almost 2 weeks. it was our first sex that we really enjoy and we haven’t had sex for a while because we were scared.

my last period started 20th of september, when my bf and I had sex it was october 11th, i thought i just finished ovulation, but i only got the clear discharge after a few days after my bf and i had sex which means i ovulated late. that month was also the most unhealthy for me, i was eating irregularly and sleeping late. i’ve also read that having sex for first few times can make you delay because your body is still adjusting and your hormones spike because of the pleasure.

i have never been this late in my period. could i be pregnant knowing we used condom and pulled out?

Hello everyone. So I had unprotected sex (spur of the moment usually we use protection almost always) October 19, although ejaculation occurred outside of my body completely and long before so, and supposedly ovulated October 7-10th. My period was due October 23-24ish, and I still haven’t gotten it. I have been diagnosed with PCOS last year in March, and although I’m still skeptical that I truly do have it, my blood tests and ultrasound said otherwise. I usually am around 3-4 days late give or take since I was in BC. I got off BC 4 months ago, and my periods have been pretty off since then with being 5-6 days late usually but I had no reason to be concerned, I haven’t missed a period since I was 17 (started BC right after). I took one of the early detection clear blue digital yesterday, and it was negative. Came up pretty quick too. So now I’m wondering, is it possible? Did I test too early, and if so, should I wait another day or two before taking another? I plan on calling my GYN Monday to get in for a blood test and check up, but I’m pretty paranoid about it as right now isn’t the best time for us. I’ve been having pms symptoms like I do every month, my regular “period pimple” I call that never fails to show up a week before my period, lower back ache, and slight cramping for the last 6 or so days but no period.

Okay guys so no judgement... but last monday and tuesday my boyfriend and I were really stupid and had unprotected sex. He pulled out and everything, but I know precum can still be a problem and my app said that I was ovulating that tuesday (I know apps can be innacurate though) so double whammy of stupid. I took a plan b on wednesday but I know that it doesn't really work if I'm ovulating, but then again my app could've been wrong. Do yall think I have a high chance of being pregnant?

I don’t even know what to do anymore all my tests were coming up negative but my period is still really late. (18 days) The only thing I’ve had is spotting. I just tried to take a test but it was one of the strip ones and I got confused which way round to put it that was my last one now I literally have no idea what to do. the last time I tested was like 1 week and a couple days ago. I had sex last on the 18th and doesn’t help I keep seeing all this stuff about cryptic pregnancies on TikTok. I actually just want to cry curl up and die all at once and I can’t even tell anyone in my life about it. I’m so terrified

Thought I was on my 7th day after my pill free week, but was actually on 6th. No condom used, but he pulled out. I also have the copper coil in place. Took LNG as well because my bf told me to, but I'm scared that's reduced efficacy of everything. What do?

Hi everyone, I am 29F and my husband 28M have started actively trying. This is the first month we decided not to avoid pregnancy.

We tried during my fertile week and I’m just wondering how many of you think it’s possible we conceived since we did do it 5 days before ovulation and then the day of ovulation. I know that it can take awhile and my period is due in 8 days. I have early tests that I plan to start taking 6 days before my period is due.

I had cramps a few days ago and a prickly feeling on and off during the day, with lower back pain. Last night I experienced heart palpitations that when googled it came up as a early sign of pregnancy. ( could be anxiety)

Other than that, I feel fine so I’m not sure if I’m just over thinking. Has anyone experienced these symptoms and turned out pregnant?

This might be stupid but my sex ed is not very good at all and I have this crazy anxiety having to do with pregnancy. I want to overcome this fear bc it’s so bad but I just need reassurance

so in two scenarios, one scenerio my partner touched his shaft while peeing , don’t even think he had pre cum but say he did and he washed his hands with water. Then touched multiple surfaces and by the time he touched his tongue with his hands (about 10 minutes after him touching his penis) his hands were 100% dry. after he touched his tounge he gave me oral. Would anything happen in scenerio 1 ?In scenerio 2 my partner had finished and I wiped the sperm off of him with a paper. without touching it i think but washed my hands with soap. After that I accidentally touched his lip with one of my fingers but made him wash his mouth with soap. Would scenerio 2 cause pregnancy. Both time hands were fully dry which once dried sperm cannot chase pregnancy right? I’m not sure if I was ovulating around this exact time so I’m kinda worried.

So I'm (24F) a bit anxious and just looking for some advice. Over a week ago, my boyfriend and I had some close contact. There was no actual penetration, but he did finger me, and there was probably cum on his fingers. Also some cum on his penis was near my vagina, but again, no actual penetration. This all happened the night *after* my predicted fertile window ended.

My period is supposed to start in 5 days, but right now, I’m noticing some dark brown discharge, which I never get before my period. I’m planning to use one of those early detection pregnancy tests tomorrow morning, since it says it can be used up to 5 days before a missed period.

Is there a real chance of pregnancy here, or am I overthinking it? Thanks in advance for any insight

Hello Good day, what are signs of early pregnancy? Im overthinking a bit and yea it is bad ( yes i have a problem and i can't do anything about it right now ). Regarding the situation, we tried piv with condom but I couldn't get it in cause i was really anxious that what im doing may bite me in the ass one day so we only rubbed but with the condom still on and we didn't try to do piv again. And before this day we had dry humps where she would have nothing on and i would make sure i had underwear and boxers on. do i need to be worried about pre cum? I did remember putting the condom on wrongly at first and switched it but i was nowhere near ejaculating at the time not even a tiny bit cause i was kind of anxious. I know im a wuss with the overthinking. She has irregular cycle and probably has pcos cause she can go up to 49 days with no period. On flo ( not reliable i know) her ovulation was on oct 4-11 and we did the condom part on 27 and before that were the dry humps. Im kinda worried right now cause she hadn't pooped in 5 days and im worried if that is a sign or my brain is going haywire.

So sorry for the long post, hope anyone can give me some insight.

Tl;dr: dry humped, had non-piv with condom, put condom on wrongly at first, worried about pre-cum and that haven't able to poop for 5 days is an early warning sign.

So 4 clearblue ultra early tests and 6 cheap red dye tests came back faintly positive. So i went to the hospital to get my bloods taken, and they said my hCG levels are at 48 and need to be at 50 to be 100% pregnant. Im so confused? I thought you didnt have hCG in you at all if u werent pregnant? And why are multiple tests coming back positive, even red dyes? Am i pregnant but too early on? They said test again in 1 week and if its positive to ring the number on the letter they gave me (explaining miscarriage, chemicals and ectopics) Not knowing is literally driving me insane.. i was just wondering if anyone else has had a similar experience. TIA

GF missed her Sept period, so she took 2 line tests in early Oct (both negative). Then she missed her Oct period and took a line test on Oct 29 (negative). To be safe, she took another test on Oct 30 - this time a digital First Response test.

It showed positive.

She's on birth control, not TTC, so she understandably called me in a panic. Five subsequent line tests, including morning tests, over the past two days were negative.

I'm extremely confident she isn't pregnant, but we are pretty upset given that is seems to be a common issue (found many posts about digital false positives).

Anyone have similar experiences with digital tests?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Am I pregnant???

my boyfriend and I had sex a few times a night about 2 weeks ago. We used condoms, and used lube as well. we checked all the condoms after because he thought maybe one had popped but they were all fine. After this my lower stomach hurt(don’t think I’m pregnant just overthink too much), and currently I have gained like 4 pounds which I think is wierd, because I’m super skinny and usually don’t gain weight like that. I don’t work out as often so that may be the case. But anyways, my lower stomach is super tight, hard to poop sometimes, and pretty gassy lately. I’m thinking it may be IBS ( irritable bowl syndrome), but I’m really young and not very educated. I’m also having period like cramps but ik that you can’t really get pregnancy symptoms that fast. Someone please please let me know.

Hi I had sex now with a condom he didn’t cum just precum maybe and my period is due on November 9th according to the app is their a possibility of pregnancy like this? I’m worried

im panicking as i haven’t had my period for this month. i gave my partner a head and he ejaculated on my body. i cleaned my body and he wiped his hand with wet wipes (only his hand and not his head). we proceeded to make out and he proceeded to use his fingers on me. after a while, his tip touched my hole for a few seconds (i think, it felt like it since since my back was facing him).

1. is the wet wipes enough to kill the sperm and not cause pregnancy even if it has been inserted?

2. when our genitals touched, is there no pregnancy possibility given that his head probably has saliva where sperm could possibly survive? or is it possibly dry when it made contact?

i still haven’t got my period and im overthinking a lot rn.

hi! me and my bf had protected sex the other night. the condom we used was perfectly okay cos we always make sure to check after if the condom has a hole or maybe broke while we were doing it by putting water and checking if anything leaks before we throw it away. and that night we were sure nothing was leaking.

now a day after it (roughly 24 hours), i’m now spotting. checked my calendar and seems like i was ovulating yesterday. but idk if i should rule out just normal spotting because for context i got off birth control pills last May (around 7 months already) and i’ve been on it for 2 years. since then my period has been coming late with my cycle lasting for at least 35 days but this is the first time i ever experienced spotting. ++ my bf is on the bigger side and it always kind of hurt in a way when we have sex but we used lube last night so it didnt really feel painful.

Just want to know but should i buy plan b today (tbh idk just to be safe??) or wait it out ti’ll i get my period which is roughly 12 days from now based on my calendar. hope someone can give some insights not so sure how to go with this + if anyone can explain why I’m spotting would rlly help! thank you!

I'm so scared. I'm 18(f) and my bf fingered me really REALLY REALLY HARD CORE bc I was telling him to in the moment. Caused multiple orgasms, and tbh it was rlly rough and fast fingering. No cum on his hands so that's fine, not worried about that part. Just his fingering was rlly rough and fast this time than previous times bc I told him to.

And after, we had protected sex, he came but I pulled away fast but still he came (with condom on. condom was newly bought so no deterioration). I asked him for reassurance awhile ago and he promised me everything is fine because he checked everything if it leaked or not because he knows how scared I get. I saw it myself, the condom was still in tact and anyways it was his second time cumming so it wasn't that much cum left.

But that was 3 days ago. Ever since the fingering, I felt a soreness in my hole for the past 3 days. It was all bc of the fingering, not even when we had unprotected sex. But Im scared because I still feel sore. When I pee it stings and there's slight blood leaking out.

Could I be pregnant or is it just an injury, please help. My period ended 5 days before we had protected sex. Please advise. I also have a couple questions—

1. could you still get pregnant if u do intercourse before ovultation?
2. What should I do now?