Like the title says I am looking for a significant other, but i don’t mind being friends first. Looking for a real connection with someone that wants to have a relationship. Im a very honest and straight forward person so keep it real with me. Hmu for my socials ✌🏻

https://discord.gg/PsVA4vJA

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Hi I'm David. I created a discord for ambw, even though it's a small group right now it's a vibe with good and chill people. We post pictures, game together, share media we like, hop in the VC, future watchalongs, talk life and just banter as well. Hoping to see more of you in there and create friendships and share experiences and laughter, everyones welcome, every age and gender, introvert or extrovert, so please feel free to join. Link below.

https://discord.gg/cGbzJP7Q

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35F born & raised in NYC, looking for a serious & long-term relationship. I’d prefer local (NY/NJ), but I don’t mind long distance either.

I like drawing, baking, anime, manga, video games (big Pokemon fan), archery, cafe-hopping, and trying out new restaurants. I like going to the gym to stay healthy & for fun as well. Oh I also have 3 pets (2 cats & 1 dog), they’re my source of happiness 🩷

I’m also down for new friends! (Just specify that if you decide to message me)

If you want to connect, feel free to message me here (or any other platform that you prefer) 😊

lived in both areas, travel between the two, if you’re near or plan on being in either place let’s be friends :)

WHERE ARE THE SOCAL AREA PEEPS 30 up?

Send me a message if you are in florida. Korean guy here!

Looking for someone to meet up or chat.

Just curious to see if anyone is from the Bay Area or California?

Down for new connections!

I have no words tbh.. I am tired of asking for simple things & everyone on the internet act as if the bare minimum is so unheard of.. I'm tired of it tbh... Need a break for a few days to weeks before I start cussing people out fr.. I find it weird that so many people say they want one thing and will be in your inbox at 3am not to ask if you're interested in chatting, not to ask how you're doing, not even to ask if you're willing to sext - just BOOM in your face 🤣and when you don't immediately reciprocate it they get angsty like a damn teenager ... Scary.. This isn't just about potential relationships or hookups here, it's about common decency as a human being towards another human being. It's so unheard of anymore .. Which is also scary ..

Enjoy your weekend everyone... 😘 I'll try to enjoy mine also 😌

36 Mixed Korean male looking for friendship and possibly more. 🙂

If anyone is interested in any kind of conversation, stop by and say hi. I’ll be looking forward to meeting you.

looking for BW in uk im in Brighton：）

I was wondering if there’s a discord server for the subreddit

https://youtu.be/Sagi-UawbVI?si=2VM3jRIILNu9W1dT

I’m bored and just want mutuals (and maybe some long term 🍆 but that’s besides the point 😂). Doesn’t matter if M or F, I love chatting with everyone. My Discord is Kristophales if anyone has it as well (not really on any other social media). If not, Reddit’s cool ~

Has anyone tried that new dating app called Yuzu, Tantan or even the AMBW Facebook group? Any success or interesting stories?

Do you think i could pull it off?

Hey guys, I've adjusted rule 6. If you would like to let everyone know your social media handles go ahead and post it here, any day of the week! I will make a new one every month!

Feel free to share your social media links! If you have a business/products, I encourage you to let us know so we can support your business (if we can)!

Edit: Since there's low activity in the sub, I'll just make a new thread every month.

Not sure if this can be posted here but please let me know if not..?

Am I really that bad? Wtf does a people pleasing empath do that's sooo awful that we are literally treated like shit while the people who do awful things to others don't get penalized at all!???

What's wrong with this world? What's wrong with people?

I want to be done with making friends or finding a partner and I know these things take time.. but every time I get to know someone. Give up my valuable time that I can't afford to waste and boom. It's wasted tenfold. I'm often told how amazing and sexy and how my heart is so pure etc etc etc but then people go and proceed to act like fucks and treat you with SOOOO much disregard. Why? Who would even want to do that to people?

Do people actually wake up and decide "I'm gonna see what I can get out of this person and then just be tf gone" ? Because if so. That must be a really miserable life.. I can't imagine going out of my way to hurt people for MY personal gain.. yuck

One of the most common struggles in dating is knowing whether or not a woman is actually interested in you. 

Now I- as someone who’s short at 5’5 and been both fat at 201 pounds and Asian thin with a below average face- don’t depend on receiving IOIs. If I did, I’d be spending forever and a day for something that would never happen. That would make me reactive instead of proactively trying to create attraction from nothing.

However, I know a lot of guys do want to know what these signals of a woman’s attraction are, so I’m going to break down some really common ones. It’s easy to overthink things or misread the signals, especially when they’re subtle. 

But there are actual signs, called Indicators of Interest (IOIs), that women give off when they’re into someone. Recognizing these IOIs can make the difference between missing a great opportunity and taking things to the next level.

I’ve broken down 13 IOIs—10 of which apply to most guys, and 3 that are specifically relevant for Asian men. These are the kinds of subtle, often non-verbal, cues women give when they’re attracted to you. 

(Sidenote: There is a cultural context to consider too as many Asian girls or just anyone coming from either a highly culturally or religiously conservative background may not show any public displays of affection whatsoever, but are completely willing to get freaky once you’re in a more discrete location.)

Here’s a breakdown:

1. Smiling at You

This is one of the most basic IOIs. If a woman is smiling at you frequently, especially when you make eye contact, it’s a good sign she’s interested. A genuine smile indicates comfort and attraction.

2. Playing with Her Hair

Women often play with their hair subconsciously when they’re attracted to someone. It’s a way to self-soothe or signal interest. If she’s twirling her hair or running her hands through it while talking to you, take note.

3. Maintaining Eye Contact

Holding your gaze for longer than usual is a strong indicator of attraction. If she’s not shying away from eye contact, it shows confidence and interest in you.

4. Leaning In When Talking

If she’s leaning closer to you during conversation, she’s trying to close the physical gap—both literally and figuratively. It’s a signal that she’s comfortable and wants to be closer.

5. Laughing at Your Jokes

Even if your jokes are kind of cheesy, if she’s laughing, it’s a great sign she’s enjoying your company. Laughter is a strong IOI, especially when it feels genuine and frequent.

6. Asking Questions About You

If she’s asking about your life, interests, or background, it’s because she’s intrigued. She wants to know more, which is a clear signal that she’s interested in getting closer to you.

7. Mirroring Your Body Language

When a woman starts to mirror your body language—whether it’s how you sit, move, or gesture—it’s a subconscious way of building rapport. Mirroring indicates comfort and connection.

8. Touching You

This is one of the stronger IOIs. If she touches your arm, hand, or shoulder lightly during conversation, it’s a way of showing she’s comfortable and possibly interested in escalating things physically.

9. Complimenting You

Whether she’s complimenting your looks, style, or personality, compliments are a positive sign of attraction. It shows that she’s noticing details about you and likes what she sees.

10. Bringing Up Shared Interests

If she starts talking about topics she knows you’ll enjoy, it’s her way of trying to find common ground. It’s a signal that she wants to bond with you over mutual interests, which is always a good thing.

Now, let’s get into the 3 IOIs that are especially relevant for Asian men. These are culturally specific signs that can give you a clearer sense of whether or not she’s into you as an Asian man.

11. Interest in Asian Culture

If she’s asking about or bringing up Asian culture—whether it’s history, language, or pop culture—it’s her way of trying to connect with you on a cultural level. Even if her reference is a little off, like mentioning anime and you’re Chinese, it still shows she’s trying to bridge the cultural gap.

12. Complimenting Your "Exotic" Traits

When she compliments your dark hair, eyes, or other features that are uniquely Asian, it’s more than just a generic compliment. She’s expressing attraction to you as an Asian man, and that’s an IOI that can be especially powerful for breaking through societal narratives.

13. Mentioning an Asian Ex-Boyfriend

If she casually brings up that she’s dated an Asian guy before, it’s a clear signal that she’s open to dating Asian men. This is her way of letting you know that she’s attracted to Asian men specifically, and isn’t influenced by anti-Asian stereotypes or biases.

These 13 IOIs can completely change the way you see interactions with women. By being more aware of these cues, you can respond confidently and escalate when the time is right. For Asian men, recognizing these last three IOIs can be a game-changer, helping you understand when a woman is interested in you not just as a man, but as an Asian man.

Here’s the full video breakdown of these IOIs if you want to dive deeper into how to spot them and what to do next:

Watch the video here