A couple months ago, I measured myself according to the calculator and got recommended 28FF/G. I've since lost some weight (from 117 to 105lb) and taken my measurements again. Now, the calculator recommends 28DD/E.

I know this makes logical sense because my measurements have shrunk but I'm a little shocked. I think I've always had a bigger cup size even at lower weights in the past, but I guess things change. Anyway I just want to double check - does this size change make sense? It's hard for me to guess based on bras I already have, because I never had the extra cash to buy a bra in my ABTF size... but I can say that the 32DDD I used to have a bit of quad-boob in has actually become wrinkled and sort of baggy on the top and sides of the cups. I'm sort of looking forward to getting some bras in my size soon but I also anticipate losing some more weight so idk what's reasonable to buy or how often.

Notes: Sizes are in UK terminology, but I do live in the US. Also, in case anyone has specific recommendations, I think I'm rather projected and have somewhat narrow roots.

ETA: I think I'm also having a hard time wrapping my head around this because I expect DD to be so small, and I feel like mine look larger than that? But I've always felt like they were too big so idk if that's real or just an insecurity thing.

A couple months ago, I was wearing 40DDD bras. recently my bras haven't feeling as comfortable, so I decided to take advantage of cacique's sales that they were having this week. I got measured at the store and ended up trying some 40F bras, which fit just fine. The thing I'm confused by is that most websites says DDD = F in US sizing. Is the F size cacique brand only? Does that mean I'm actually a G in other US brands? What would be my UK/EU brand size be? Any help would be appreciated!

Hello all! I measured myself a few weeks ago and below my bust is 28", a little loose but still comfy would be 29". My bust is 31, bending over/laying down is the same. I did a size calculator and it said I would be either a 28D or 30C.

I ordered a 28D for myself and it just came in today, I tried it on, and I literally couldn't even get it on. I was even skeptical at first before ordering because I am small-chested and have only ever worn bras that have elastics in them and not the clip-backs. But I found that they don’t support at all and don’t believe they are my size since they feel like they push against me, and my breasts fall into where the elastic part is and below the cups, and the elastic tends to stretch out more so the bras are very loose near the bottom after a while

The back was the clips, but I couldn't even get them to connect. It was about 2-3 inches apart if I wouldn't have stretched it. So what would my size be then?? I'm so confused

If it matters, l'm looking for somewhat of a push-up bra, supportive, and I don't mind underwire or whatever. I don't know where to look now though. I got the bra from Boux Ave.

I apologize if any of this is confusing, I don’t have a very supportive female figure in my life so I quite literally know nothing about bras and what I should wear

hi! i have small breasts and i never can find a bra that fits me. i hate wearing bras because i feel extremely uncomfortable and after 8h my back hurts so much that I can't do anything except of lying in my bed. i always just thought that wearing bras is just not for me since i already have small breasts but i dont feel confident without it.

usually i wear 70B but i tried the calculator and it said i should be wearing 65C (EU). i checked and with 65C is too tight underbust and the cup is too big. 70B seems comfortable underbust but the cup is also still too big.

i tried to measure myself but its possible that i didnt do it right but if it can help in any way here are the measurements: loose underbust: 76cm, snug: 72cm, tight: 68cm, standing bust: 78cm, leaning: 81cm, lying: 76cm

what size would be the best in my case? i feel very insecure because of my small breast size and the fact that i can't find anything that looks good on me makes everything worse. my back hurts so much that i going to work seems like constant being in pain. thats why i'd be really grateful for fast advice.

also I'd like to ask if theres any way to gain breast fat back. when i was 13 i had eating disorders and it probably made my body kinda stop gaining shape, my body looks like a childs body but different height. i already recovered but sometimes im still losing some weight because of stress and i feel like the only thing that looks smaller are my breats. is there any way to get them back again? id like to not gain overall too much weight back since my bmi is around 17 and always the first thing that looks bigger after gaining weight are my hips so id like to avoid that if possible but i can of course consider gaining some weight if it will help me.

Hello, so I used the calculator a few months ago and got the size 28DD. I had been wearing (admittedly ill fitting) 32Ds. Tried on a few bras that were really tight on the band and weird in the cup. Decided to explore my sister size, 30D. I am so confused, why does it seem so tight? Is it just the brand? Am I delusional and I really am a 32 band?

I retried the calculator and now it says a 28D or 30C, but I already feel like I’m busting out of a 30D! Is it the bras I’m buying, or just my shape? I actually really like the shape of this new bra, it’s the Skarlett Blue Minx which was suggested to me after my last post. Here is the imgur link (sorry i suck at formatting): https://imgur.com/a/mwCw0tP

Here are my measurements I just took (in a hurry lol):

Loose Underbust: 29 in Snug Underbust: 28 in Tight Underbust: 27 in Standing Bust: 31 in Leaning Bust: 33.5 in Lying Bust: 31.5 in

Thank you for any advice! I feel crazy trying to figure out what fits me! I got a Calvin Klein 30D that I don’t mind, but the cup shape just isn’t ideal 😭

My current bra is from Fruit of a Loom and is a 34A. I have trouble fitting into this bra and discovered this subreddit and did the abrathatfits calculator and it gave me 28DD. My current bra problems include: I have to keep pulling the bra down, gapping at the top and the underwire not touching my body. I tried looking for 28DD bras online and the sister size but I can’t find any. I want some advice on what I should do and if that is my correct size. All help is appreciated!

Hi everyone, I recently dived into trying to find ABTF, did the calculator and it threw back 36FF UK, I bought a panache clara because I thought it would work from the descriptions of general shape and projection (at least I think so, the descriptions do confuse me a bit), I think it fits? but the underwire shape does not, its very uncomfortable and digging into my sides, I'm not quite sure what exactly the issue is so im here for help!

Measurements are:

LU: 91cm, Su: 90cm, Tu:86cm, sb:109cm, Leaningb:113, Lb: 106 36FF (uk)

thanks for the input in advanced!

https://imgur.com/a/xLGiiMO

This bra definitely fits way better than the Cleo Demi Balconett I tried on the other day. I’m just not sure what the issue is. Are the cups too big or too small in this Freya Offbeat? I ordered in 34F. The Cleo was in 34FF. I feel like my boobs are just a weird shape 😭 Idk if the weight loss has made them different. It just feels like there’s more excess skin if that makes any sense.

Pics

Hii ! i’m a 70B (EU)/32B (US). I don’t know if i’m wearing the correct size because my cups are gaping on the top. I looked it up and google says that my cups are too big, but i feel like the sides of my bra are too small because the sides of my boobs spill out a little and it just doesn’t look right.

Hello, so currently I am wearing a 34AAA from Lulalu, I feel like it's decently comfortable but there is basically no cleavage. The calculator tells me that I'm a 30B or 32A, however I own a 32A from Victoria's secret and there is a decent amount of gaping in the cup. Would I actually be a 30B? I feel like that would be too tight on me? Any help would be appreciated. (Also, any size recommendations for the Natori feathers based on these measurements?)

These are my measurements in CM: (I'm also pretty tall at 5'11", I saw some women saying that being tall changed stuff).

LU: 77 SU: 76.2

TU: 73.7

SB: 82

Leaning B: 81

Lying B: 83.8

Online calculator here had me at 36ff/36g uk sizes but bravissimo lady measure me at 32ff.

I was wearing 36F and have figured out the cup was small, and underwire not right.

Bras in calculator sizes and fitting sizes both feel too weird to say which is right.

Who would be more accurate

So in the past couple days I've tried on a few different bras. I ordered stuff off Amazon, and I tried the Freya viva in size 36E, 34F and 34FF. 36E the cups felt a little too big, but 34F the cups fit they just project too much so I think 36E is probably accurate for me I just need a less projected style. But I thought those 2 sizes would have the same cup volume so I'm not sure how they both didn't fit the same.

I also tried on some boxed bras at walmart. Wonderbra, playtex, and warners. Out of those brands the 36DD cups were way too big, 36D cups were a little small, and I couldn't find any 34 band sizes at all. In the other walmart brands I could find 34 band in C or B or A but not D.

I don't understand how in one brand a 36DD is too big and in another a 36E is pretty close to right. Isn't there a standard that they're all following?

Over the past 2 years or so I've been struggling to find a new bra that fits properly ever since my breasts have started growing again. Before it stopped fitting I was wearing a 36B Maidenform demi pushup bra that fit pretty comfortably without issues until my breasts got too large for it. When I last went up size up I used the calculator and determined I was a 38C and I bought a few of the same bra in different sizes around that range (currently I have the 38C, a 38D, and a 36D). The 38C fit okay for a while besides feeling like my breast tissue would fall out of the cups if i moved too much, causing gapping whenever I'd bend over or push my arms together (the shoulder straps wouldnt quite extend as far as I would have liked but it was manageable). I also tried this calvin klein bra ( https://www.macys.com/shop/product/calvin-klein-seductive-comfort-lace-demi-bra-qf1444?ID=2929187 ) in 38C, but the cups would wrinkle and the gore dug into my sternum too much to be wearable. Currently I am trying to make the 38D work, but it has the same issue as the 38C with the shoulder straps and my breast tissue slipping in addition to all of my bras now cutting into my breasts when I scoop&swoop and not sitting flush with my breasts. The underwire on the 38D also digs into my armpits just a little, most of the cups on the bras i have tried feel too wideset for my breasts. My ribcage is a bit wide and my breasts sit a little closer to the center of my chest, which makes it hard for them to sit properly in most bras. Suggestions on the cheaper side would be greatly appreciated!

Here are my most recent measurements as well as some pictures of the bra fits(the 36D and 38D):
Loose underbust: 38in
Snug: 36
Tight: 34
Standing bust: 41
Leaning bust: 45
Lying bust: 41
Bra fits: https://imgur.com/a/bras-rcJfm8T

Hello! I’m lucky to have come across this group as I have had issues finding a comfortable bra since middle school. I’m needing help with my shape and a measurement check. I have had three babies in the past five years all breast fed. I have recently lost about 50 lbs. this has caused my bra to be empty at the top and very visible outside of my shirt. I’d love to wear sports bras more but I get major uniboob. My shape I believe is very shallow. Without a bra they lay very flat. Torrid told me 42DDD and I have been wearing that size for years. My suggested starting size was 38 E/F. I was expecting a smaller band but not a jump in cup size! Excited to try new bras but I also need them to be budget friendly, which I know good bras normally aren’t! I

Thank you all for being here to help girls like me!!

Loose 38.5 Snug 37 Supper tight 36

Standing 43 Leaning 46 Laying 44

Hello!

I've been reading and re-reading past articles on the matter but my results feel way out there. Here's what the calculator said in inches:

Underbust - 56
Tight underbust - 53
Standing Bust - 59
Leaning Bust - 62
Lying Bust - 60

Results - 54DD

So, I understand how transwomen's breasts often form in a more conical shape and from what I can gather, balconette bras are my friend. I just tried the recommended size and it left huge gaps since I'm not filling a DD cup.

I'd love to find something that would push them together and/or push em up to try and create cleavage for some of my tops & dresses but being a large person with smaller boobs is horrible on finding things to fit. I understand that cleavage is not necessarily desired since it may mean the bra doesn't fit.

For example, most over 48 start at a C cup so there's no way to test larger bad sizes with smaller cups...and it be cute at all.

Thank you in advance for anyone who can show me the way!

so im trying to buy a bra online (risky i know) and most instructions ive seen are to measure just under your bust on your ribcage. when i do that i get a 27 inch band size, which i would round up to 28. but on the Victoria’s Secret page, it says to measure from the band of my bra to above my bust, about where the cup meets the strap. when i do this, i get a 31 band size, which i would round up to a 32. is this more accurate? is victoria’s secret sizing just different in a way that necessitates a different measurement method?

I took the advice of someone here today and went to Macy’s to try on bras to get an idea of sizing (there are no other stores that sell anything beyond a D in my area). The goal was to figure out a couple of sizes I could order in different bras than the ones they sell. Somehow I’m more confused than ever.

First, my measurements: 32.5 32 30 38 40 37.5

The calculator gave me a 32FF UK (32H US)but now I’m not sure my measurements are correct.

Or maybe it’s a shape issue? I was confident that I’m projected until I started trying on bras and the Natori ones fit (I seem to remember them being recommended for shallow breasts). I think I’m narrow since my breast tissue doesn’t really go into my armpit. As far as height, I’m now thinking I might have short roots because the Wacoal bra seemed SO TALL and there was a gap at the top of the bra.

I tried on four brands, which is all they had: Wacoal, b.tempted by Wacoal, Calvin Klein, and Natori.

I forgot to look at the name of the Wacoal one, but it was an unlined lace bra. The 34D (closest size I could find) was too big which threw me for a loop.

The b.tempted ciao bella balconet was too small in a 34D, though the 34DD seemed to fit okay.

Next was the Calvin Klein perfectly fit modern t-shirt bra (has a criss-crossed gore in the photos). 32DD was laughably small. 32DDD was much better, though I think it was too wide.

Finally, Natori. I tried the feathers first and thought it was really pretty. I didn’t expect my boobs to fit at all because I think I’ve seen this recommended for shallow breasts on this sub. 32DD was ridiculously small. 32G actually fit pretty well, though I did think the band was a bit tight on these after doing the backwards flip. 34DD seemed a bit small, too, but 34DDD seemed like it fit. They did not have a 34F for me to try. I tried on the Natori Bliss Perfection and Hidden Glamour next, both in 34DDD because that was the biggest size in a 34. I thought they both fit well.

Photos

So, my questions are:

• Are any of these shapes right for me?
• Does the Feathers fitting mean I’m shallow?
• Any recommended styles for me to try?
• Sizing recommendations?

I was interested in Polish bras before this experience (thinking I’m projected with narrow roots), but now I’m not sure if I’m right or those would fit. Thoughts?

Hello all! Looking for some recommendations. But first, a bit about my boobs:

Loose UB: 35 Snug UB: 33.5 Tight UB: 32.5 Standing B: 40.5 Leaning B: 46 Laying B: 42.5

Recommended size: 34FF/G UK, 34H/I US Shape: Very projected. Top full. Center full. Soft tissue.

Previous (incorrect) sizes: 42DDD before significant weight loss. 42G while breastfeeding. 38DD Postpartum and after significant weight loss.

Historical fit issues: like most women, I was wearing a very loose band with tight cups. I found my breasts would often spill in the center with gaps on top, so I had both spillage and gaping. The band rode up in the back. The straps usually slip down, even after some adjustment. Underwires are a strong preference, but some bras have pinched in the armpit or pressed uncomfortably on my sternum. My clothes showed very clear bra lines.

Better fits: I prefer balconette bras over plunge styles because it helps to avoid the excessive cleavage I sometimes get, spilling out in the center. I prefer bras that lift and separate for the same reason. I have generally gravitated toward molded or padded styles as they tend to be more flattering under clothes, but I may change my mind given a proper fit.

I recently purchased this bra from Lane Bryant in 34H (US). I bought it because it was on sale and I was hoping to check the fit. It is much better. I fill the cups. The band does not ride up in the back. However, it does feel tight. That may be because I’m not used to a fit. Nothing pinches or in uncomfortable. I did feel some easing in my muscles as well, which is great, and there are no visible bra lines. However, the straps do fall down even after some adjustment. I feel this is likely not the best shape for me, and I need something more projected, perhaps with straps that are not wide set. That said, I do feel the size and s correct.

https://www.lanebryant.com/lightweight-spacer-cup-smooth-balco/prd-601237156.html?country=us&currency=usd

I also bought this wired sports bra from Panache in 34FF (UK). https://us.panache-lingerie.com/shop/product/wired-sports-bra-digital-bloom?size=34FF

It fits like a glove. Perfect.

But I need recommendations for regular bras. Given the good experience with this sports bra, I’m feeling a little brand loyal. But I could branch out if something possibly perfect comes to mind.

So please, given all you know about my shape, size, and fit issues, what are your best recommendations?

Back again, see my previous posts for more information please.

https://ibb.co/album/VWhgj1

I was recommended to try some high apex bras from Freya, so I went ahead and got me two Freya snapshot bras in different sizes.

When I tried on the 30DD the gore was floating amd there was wrinkling in the cups. I felt like I had to tighten the straps to the max in order to get some support and lift, which of course is not right. When I put the bra on the tightest hook, it fit me a bit better, but I am still not happy with the fit.

The 30E was better, the gore was tacking properly, but the rest of the fit was a nightmare as well. No lift and support at all, and wrinkling again.

Because it is a seethrough bra, you can also really tell how the wires sit, and I think the wires might be too wide for me? Also, is the cup too big on these bra's? Or is it, once again, a shape mismatch? I am getting a bit less confident I will find a bra that fits...

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I have been lurking here at ABTF for probably about a year or more and reading all the fit guides and doing post searches on specific questions but I'm just really at a loss. I've ordered eleventy billion different bras to try over the past couple of years and I have yet to land on one that is comfortable, fits well, and gives me a pleasing shape. Part of the problem may be that I've gained quite a bit of weight over the past 5 years and this has magnified my usual fit issues by 1000.

By your calculator, I am currently a UK 36G, or a US 36I. I'm full on top with extreme fullness in the center (meaning my nips are on the outside of my breasts when bending over unsupported). I am not splayed though. I *think* I have a narrow root but its hard to tell with the extra weight. I'm also not sure whether my roots are tall or short because I experience some issues for both conditions. Maybe I'm average in that category. Also my tissue is very soft and my breasts are rather pendulous unsupported.

The typical issues are 1) I often experience a bulge at the top of the breast (I call it blubbing out of the bra) and have found that bras with stretchy top lace works best for me. 2) Wires often poke me in the underarm area (this is why I think I have narrow roots). 3) I cannot stand the feeling of "kissing cleavage". If my boobs are touching one another, even slightly, it drives me batty. Maybe the extreme center fullness has made me extra sensitive to it. But the typical molded "t-shirt" bras (which often plunge more) usually allow my breasts to migrate toward one another, sometimes causing a bit of a bulge toward the center. 4) I prefer unlined bras as the molded ones are not forgiving or flexible and usually either create a bulge or massive gaps. There's no in between.

I have tried many bras, can't remember most of them, but I do recall that every single Sculptresse I've tried, despite seeming to fit well, has a wire that presses uncomfortably hard against my ribs under my breasts and has wire casing that is rough and rubs my skin uncomfortably. I loved my Panache wired swimsuit and wired sport bra for years but not so much the last time I bought one. I'm not sure if I changed or Panache did. That said, the best fit that I've landed on recently is the Panache Serene. It is very tight in the band though and so I use an extender. Additionally, it isn't comfortable enough to wear all day and into an evening of slouching on the sofa, as that position causes it to dig in uncomfortably. I'm also not fond of the super-projected almost pointy profile and feel rather conspicuous with it. I would much prefer a more rounded shape.

I'm hoping the experts here have some other suggestions for me to try.

Y’all. My favorite bra died last Friday and I figured it was a good as time as any to re-size myself. I used the six measurements calculator and got a 38GG/I. I was wearing a 38D/DD. “Believe the size,” I muttered to myself as I ordered two uncomfortably expensive bras.

They arrived yesterday and as I opened the package and lifted the first one out, I actually said out loud “ain’t no fucking way.” And then a tried it on and said “oh, this is what a bra that fits feels like.”

It’s so comfy I almost fell asleep in it and the girls look and feel fabulous. Moral of the story, believe your size and read the shape guides.

I did the bra that fits guide a few years ago and it was good for ages. However my weight is fluctuating and I think I need a new size. My mom helped me measure last time but I can't ask for a while until I see her.

Current bra size is 34f however I am having issues with the underwire under my armpit hurting and having to move my skin around there back into the cup, sometimes getting bruises. I am getting red marks under the front from the underwire so I thought it was too small however the red marks show the underwire is sitting actually below where I would need it by around 1-2cm from the bottom of my breasts.

Confused because no marks are left on my back and I can pull the band quite far out even on the tightest setting. The bras themselves are new or brought within 6 months so I know the bra isn't stretched out and old.

I am also full on the bottom like a teardrop shape and naturally sort of wide apart at the front when topless (can't remember the term for this).

Am I wearing too small or too loose a band?

Helloo,

I am thinking of buying bras from 'Next'. I used the ABTF calculator and got 30G as the starting size and a sister size of 32FF. My measurements ⬇️

Loose underbust - 31

Snug underbust - 30

Tight underbust - 29

Standing bust - 38

Leaning Bust - 41.5

Lying Bust - 39

However, I checked the size guide on Next, which says [28-30 underband measurement = 32 band size] and [30-32 underband measurement = 34 band size]. I am unsure what size am I supposed to get. It is my first time trying to find the right bra. Can anyone share their experience with Next and assist me with which size I should buy, please

I plan to purchase the DD+ Lace Bras 2 Pack [non-pad balcony] - https://www.next.ae/en/style/st482001/a29818#a29818

The reason I think I’m 36G (UK sizing) is because I’m waiting to see if a 34 w/ extender will do better for me, just waiting on the new bra to arrive.

I’ve heard amazing things about polish bras and also that they’re scary LOL I don’t know why but that’s made me intimidated by them but I am so desperate for a bra that doesn’t give me back pain! I’m currently wearing a panache envy balconette which looks like it fits well and everything, but it still gives me back pain (which is why I’m trying for a smaller band). I would like to maybe try polish bras, but I have no idea what would be good for my size and shape. If anyone could help me narrow down brands/styles, I would really appreciate it!!

Shape: Full on bottom, center full, narrow gore

Loose: 36in Snug: 35in Tight: 32.5in Standing: 43in Leaning: 45in Lying: 44in

This community has been a lifesaver in helping me figure out my true size and why normal bras have always hurt me, and helping me feel like I’m not crazy for not being able to wear a Victoria’s Secret bra like everyone else in my life :’)

I do not have self-supporting breasts AT ALL, never have. Sucks but there's nothing I can do about it. 

I want to wear this dress to a big date on Saturday. It has some support because the bust area is tight and it sort of compresses my boobs against my chest (I wear a 30F UK). I'd really like to impress this guy. But I'm worried about looking kind of... trashy? I don't want to waddle up to the bar like a dork when it's obvious I have saggy tits and I need a bra. Also, when I get cold and my nips harden, they look asymmetrical. It's not about comfort, the dress is very comfy. It's about looking conventionally attractive. He'll find out about them eventually (if all goes well lol) but by then he won't care anymore. This is about first impressions.

I'm not looking for any type of "don't worry about what other people think! you rock that dress, queen!" advice. That's a nice thought and all, but having confidence isn't my main concern. I just don't want to embarrass myself.

If it isn't a good idea to wear this in public/to an important date, is there a quick option (something I dont have to order online - I only have 2 days) for making them look perkier? Like something that I could just buy at the mall?

Sorry for poor image quality, my phone sucks. I think the dress looks worse in these zoomed in pics. But minus my wonky boobs, it's actually really nice.

TIA!!!

https://imgur.com/a/M1rpTUi

ETA this isn't about getting compliments. For the most part I like my body and I kind of like how the dress looks despite my saggy tits. Again, this is entirely about how presentable I'll look to other people.

Hi, I’m looking for bralettes suitable for my size (28G or 30FF per the calculator) that prioritize comfort over looks: smooth fabric rather than lace, no or minimal hardware, full back, straps wide and centered. I’m rather short, with narrow shoulders to go with my narrow rib cage, and pendulous breasts. Of course I don’t expect anything like the lift, separation, and shaping of conventional wired bras because… physics. I just want enough lift and flopping control to be comfortable at home and look basically more-or-less OK under a loose shirt in case I have to answer the door.

I’ve tried several, unsuccessfully, from Eby, Forlest, Cosabella, and Knix. The best so far:

True & Co Lift scoop neck bra in XS DD/DDD. Pretty decent lift and comfort overall, but the band rolls up and the zero separation/uniboob situation can cause some sweat and itch after more than a few hours.

Molke in XS Cosmic. Not bad if I wear it inside out (thanks to advice from another person on this sub) to prevent irritation from the seam between the band and cups. Better for separation than True & Co bra. But although the band feels like the right size when I put it on, after a few hours it creates uncomfortable pressure. Considering going up a band size to S.

Any other suggestions that those with similar goals & shape have had good luck with?

I have learned a lot for my own shape but my mom is totally different to me so I have no idea where to start for her.
Loose ub: 90
Snug: 87
Tight: 82
Standing b: 107
Leaning: 108
Lying: 110
Rec: 36 E/F UK
She has had breastlift done. She has fairly close sitting breasts with a wide root (gore never lays flat on her sternum and her breasts touch completely). When she leaned over there was more tissue above the nipple for which I forgot the professional name, but basically more tissue on the top.
From what I remember browsing this sub, she would need a plunge but other than that, I am lost. The last bra we got her was a 36 (admittedly from a brand that has looser bands) and that slides up her back, so I am wondering if she could go for a 34 maybe? Afterall her snug is almost 34 inches (and I personally find that the measuring tape digs in more uncomfortably than a bra does)
Please recommend some bras and what size I should order her for.

I am from the EU, so Zalando and Asos are my best bet for good return policies... There is no way I would find an F cup in shops here.

Thank you in advance!!

Edit: Apparently asos and zalando have different brands and sizes in different countries so I will include the brands that stock 36 E/F and/or 34F/FF here:
Zalando: Agent Provocateur, Anita, Ann Summers, AVA, B by Ted Baker, Bluebella, Boux Avenue, Chache coeur, Calvin Klein, Chantelle, Dorina, Gorsenia, Gossard, Hunkemöller, Lascana, Lindex, Lipsy, Magic Bodyfashion, M&S, Next, Passionata, Self, Shock Absorber, Simone Perele, Triumph, Vivisence, Wonderbra
Asos: honestly, I checked all the bras and all the plunge bras are padded or moulded for this size on ASOS, so I guess I cannot use it for this ^^"

Hi,

I made a post yesterday about my incredulousness that my current bra was several cup sizes too small according to the abtf calculator. The comments generally agreed it was too small but there wasn't a consensus about just how much too small it was. This was entirely my fault because I've since discovered I picked just about the worst bra (moulded cups, low cut/half cup style, push up type effect) possible for people to discern the fit problems. So I've found a couple of (hopefully) more suitable bras to help people discern what size would be good to try.

So the size I currently wear is a UK 38H and the calculator thinks I should wear a 40JJ or K. My boobs are full on top and projected. The roots of my breast are, for lack of a better term, short but I'm not sure about the rest.

(in most of these pictures it looks like one of my boobs is distinctly lower than the other but that's not true in real life, it's from positions I had to make to take the photos. Tried my best to avoid it but failed, sorry!)

Here I am in a curvy Kate Victory in size 38H:

https://ibb.co/album/R2PtRm

Even I can tell that this bra fits terribly! The gore is floating, the band is definitely too small (not painful digging in but definitely not comfortable) and the underwire is at least a cm below my imf (and I can't manoeuvre it into a more suitable place) which is causing lots of wrinkles and folds at the bottom of the cups and my breasts don't get the support they should.

This is from Playful Promises but I'm sorry I don't know the style name, again sise 38H

https://ibb.co/album/mDFBys

This one I've actually only worn twice before so shouldn't have stretched and yet the band feels remarkably comfortable, not tight at all. The gore does start to gape away from my body about half way up but the bottom is flush with my skin, the underwire is right in my imf. To my eyes it looks like my breast tissue is nicely contained within the cups.

And finally this bra is actually a 40GG (so the band size is what the calculator thinks is right but should have the same cup volume) and is the style Grace by Deja Day

https://ibb.co/album/N1BFNK

I've worn this a bit so the band is actually slightly loose (wearing it on the second row of hooks). Again the wire is right in my imf (though the little decorative frill under the wire annoyingly flips up because of my belly fat) and while my boobs are a bit widely set for the gore it clamps perfectly to my skin. Again to my eyes this looks like the cups fit relatively well, I don't see any spillage and it feels like all the tissue is contained in the cups.

So hopefully these bras are a bit more suitable than my last to check my size! From looking at these pics I do agree that I need to try a bigger size but I'm guessing more a 40H or HH max. I can't see how I could fill a JJ/K cup! I'm wondering if my boob shape might be confusing the calculator. However I used to wear bras that were definitely several sizes too small and suffered serious quad boob and wires poking into my side breasts so it's possible that has blinded me to the more subtle signs of too small cups. So what do you all think?

My original post is here: https://www.reddit.com/r/ABraThatFits/comments/1eb4y1b/fit_check_measurement_check_is_this_bra_really_3/ in case anyone is curious, it has some great comments as well as my measurements (which I've triple checked now) if that helps.

Thank you so much to anyone who answers either this or my previous post, your advice and help is so very appreciated!

I recently lost a lot of weight and had a lower body lift. Now I have saggy skin in my upper back and under arms, plus my girls are pretty saggy. My measurements suggest I am a 36D. I need a bra that will help the back fat while making my girls look perky without overflowing out the top. Any suggestions would be amazing. Under 50$ preferably! Thanks in advance!

I have a couple recommended bras to try on (thank you all!), but I’m not sure how to do so. Because I’m not 100% on which size I’ll need, I want a few of each to make sure I’m getting it right. My local stores don’t sell the recommended brands (Panache and Cleo), and ordering several of each bra in different sizes online feels a little intense. Am I overthinking this?

I’d also love some additional recs, if anyone is willing to offer some. My measurements are 32.5 32 30 38 40 37.5 The calculator gave me 32FF/H. I’m projected and full on top, and lots of bra wires seem to go too far into my armpit so I think I have more narrow roots. I can’t tell if I have tall or short roots (this one still confuses me even with the link in the wiki).

Recommendations so far are Panache Jasmine and Cleo Blossom. Thank you for any help you can provide!