Bigger boobs than I thought??

Went to the mall today and stopped by Victoria’s Secret. I haven’t been sized for a while and couldn’t remember my old size, plus my chest has grown over the past few months, so I asked one of the ladies there to measure me. Apparently I’m between a 36D or 36DD?? I tried on both sizes and they’re so much more comfortable than anything I’ve tried so far, it was shocking. My chest hurts so much of the time and I get these really annoying bra lines and overflowing portions on the sides, I never thought that this was the issue. But now idk what to do because I can’t afford a good new bra and I only own one proper bra that an ex boyfriend bought me two years ago that is apparently way too small?? What do I do now? And have any of you had similar experiences?

Help! I recently found this page and used the calculator to find my correct size. I sized at 30F or 32E for comfort (UK sizing). My US sizing is 30G or 32DDD comfortably.
I bought Cleo by Panache Low Front Balconnet bra 30F and it was the first bra I have ever owned that fit me so well. However it is lacy and bright pink which does not do well under some shirts. I am now looking for a bra that will go well with tight tops and not show through. So I bought the Cleo by Panache Harper Molded T-shirt bra 30F. I figured since it was the same size, it would fit. However there were some gaps at the top of the bra and you could totally see the bra lines with a tight top.
I also tried the ultimate skims push up bra bra at 32F (32DDD) which was too large, so I sized down to the 32DD which was too small with my breasts coming out of the top. I also bought a skims plunge bra at 32DDD which was too small.
So I'm not for sure where to go from here. I just want a bra that I can wear under tight tops that also support my boobs.
Something to note is that my breasts are fuller on the bottoms.

i haven’t bought since my victoria secret days which was like 10 years ago lol sad but i have only had me down bras from my lil sis. i am a 36B. i need bras for my business casual days or going out. what are the bras you gals wearing?

i wear mostly 60s a-line/shift dresses, and i find modern bras with a rounded shape look really odd underneath, but every true vintage bra i see doesnt go lower than a 32 in band size or higher than a DD in cup size. does anyone have any recommendations for modern bras with a shape reminiscent of the 60s thatd come in my size or sister size? preferably one that pushes the breasts inwards for a straighter silhouette from the front?

measurements:

Loose Underbust: 28” Snug Underbust: 27.5” Tight Underbust: 26” Standing Bust: 33.5” Leaning Bust: 35” Lying Bust: 33”

Hello here is my original post

I bought the freya offbeat side support in size 34FF and 34G.. both have their fitting problems so is the style just not correct? Please give me some suggestions on what I could try from here, preferably from amazon.ca

The 34 band seems to be pretty snug and fits well wearing like a cape!

Size issues with 34FF, my larger breast has some spillage on the top, the wires are not comfortable inside the armpits.

Size issues with 34G - does not fit well on either breast big and small. Small there is obvious issues like wrinkling which yeah it's obviously smaller. Nothing I can do about that but with the larger breast there seems to be gaping as well. Wires are very uncomfortable underneath my armpits, the gore wires are overlapping.

Black 34FF, Pink 34G

I finally found ABTF with Ewa Michalak (it cost me, but oh wow was it worth it). It works under most tops.

I’m now in search of something that I could wear under fitted, thinner tops without the seams showing through. Maybe something lined/padded would work, but is it possible for moulded cups to not be a fit nightmare? Please share your favorites.

For reference for you (bless you):

My calculated size is 30G/GG.

• projected
• slightly fuller on bottom
• narrow/mid, short roots

My Ewa Michalak bra that fits is the polish equivalent to a 30G. It fits me for the two more swollen weeks of the month, and is just a little too big for the other half. My measurements are from a more swollen day, and I would guess I vary by about a cup size throughout the month.

• Loose Underbust 29.5
• Snug Underbust 29
• Tight Underbust 28
• Standing Bust 37.5
• Leaning Bust 40.5
• Lying Bust 39.25

Measurements (inches):

1. 37
2. 36
3. 35
4. 49
5. 53.75
6. 50

My breast are full on top, and I think they're projected? I'm not sure, but they're very pendulous. My best fitting bra is a 38GG, but the back band rides up and the straps dig into my shoulders. Over the last few years I've bought my bras from Herroom, and after deciding to check my bra size again today their calculator says I'm a 36HH, which is very different from the ABTF calculator. I'm just looking for some guidance on what size I should go with.

Been deep diving in this subreddit for a few weeks trying to find ABTF since I’ve never had one and it’s about time I did. I now know that I am projected, pendulous, and very full on bottom. I did the calculator, and ordered a Panache Envy in the recommended size (38F). I tried it on and, after getting the underwire in my IMF and then swooping and scooping, for the first time ever, I found a bra that actually works with the shape of my boobs without any gaping at the top, the gore tacks, and my boobs are actually supported. MIND BLOWN.

However, the underwire presses uncomfortably into my rib cage, even when I am just standing up with good posture. It’s not terrible, but after 8 hours of trying it out, I was definitely in pain. Based on what I’ve read here, I think this bra may not be projected enough for me and the pressure from my boobs may be pushing the underwire into my rib cage. I know that underwire isn’t exactly comfortable anyway, and that I am also not used to the feeling of it, but I would like to try a bra of similar style with more projection to see if that is more comfortable.

I did try on a Fantasie Fusion in 38f at the store that did fit and I think this bra does have more projection, but unfortunately I didn’t like the pointy boobs look that it gave me under my shirt. Does anyone know of other bras that give more projection than the Panache Envy that are still good for very FOB? (Been scouring the subreddit but can’t find much other than Polish, which I can’t afford right now.) Any help or advice or (commiseration lol) would be much appreciated :)

Here are my measurements in case it helps:

Loose underbust: 39 Snug underbust: 38 Tight underbust: 37 Standing Bust: 44 Leaning bust: 47 Lying bust: 44

Thanks! This subreddit is amazing!

I get so overwhelmed looking for a bra that fits, that I just settle for whatever I can find. My best fitting bra right now is a fruit of the looms no wire t shirt bra (42DD). There is no support though and make my breasts go to my belly button almost. Or I have a Delmira 40D bra that is old and raggedy. My breast spill out of it and have lots of side boob. I am in the US. My measurements in inches are:

1. 41.5
2. 40.5
3. 39
4. 50
5. 51.5
6. 48

I believe I am full on top. I need a bra that supports, lifts, and helps bring my breasts together (they tend to naturally go sideways). I want to feel confident as a 30 year old woman. Any help is so appreciated!

Hi! I’ve recently gone from a 38G to a 38A and I am totally at a loss for where to shop for sports bras now. I can’t seem to find anything that will fit my new chest while still being supportive. I am specifically looking for something that will offer “high impact” support for my HIIT days. Thank you so much in advance.

As so many other have - I stumbled across this group after searching for Pepper reviews. Ive never liked the way my body looks in bras, considered myself a member of the IBTC and recently just stopped breastfeeding so am wanting to treat myself to new bras. Always worn 34A and bras have always gapped at the top and never felt wide enough to cup my whole breast. After reading the resources posted in this group, I now realize I just never have worn the right sized bra.

Size calculator recommended starting with a 32C/D. Just quickly popped into target to test out that size option. Just looking at 32D I could tell that it would be too big. 32C band seemed uncomfortably tight but C cup size fit varied between bras, some seemed to be just right, others too big. Unfortunately I didn't have time to try on anything else.

Measurements are: Lose Underbust 31.7, Snug Underbust 30.5, Tight Undercuts 29.3, Standing Bust 33, Leaning Bust 35, Lying Bust, 35.2

I have very broad shoulders, shaped more like a v (athletic build) and a wide rib cage but it dips in under my bust which is why I think the 32 band just may be too tight? Im fuller on the bottom side of the breasts, and slightly shallow if not shallow.

Looking for guidance on what sizes and any brands or styles to try!

Thanks!!!

A desperate new mom trying to feel better about her post child body.

New here. So many questions.

I wasn’t going to make a post because I was going to figure it out myself and I didn’t want to be a bother here. However, just feel like I am so confused.

My measurements are: 35, 34.5, 32 40.5, 42.5, 41

I think I am projected, FoT, and full in center and got a size 34H US, 34FF UK. I also believe I have teardrop breasts (confused about difference between teardrop and pendulous). I am not quite sure I understand projection though. What is average projection versus above average projection? Which is important for below.

I’m also stuck on bra refommmendations. I understand seemed, balcony bras appear to be the most recommended for my breasts and molded bras wouldn’t be since they don’t have much projection. I need a bra that is lined/padded where you don’t see my nipple in addition to not being sheer. I also need a bra that is not going to make my boobs jiggly on top where they are coming out of the bra. I feel like most of the bras that are recommended are going to be jiggy and they’re either only VERY lightly lined or see through. Is there anything else that I could try? I’m at a loss at this point. I’m willing to try something like the Panache Envy which I was going to buy on Amazon and return if I hate it, but I don’t feel like this is going to be at all what I want/need.

I am currently in a Victoria’s Secret Full Coverage, and have both a 36DD and 34F. I definitely have spillage on the 34F which is how I found this sub.

Loose Underbust 35 in

Snug Underbust 32 in

Tight Underbust 30 in

Standing Bust 40 in

Leaning Bust 41 in

Lying bust 38 in

Suggested Starting Size: 34E/F in UK sizing. Suggested Starting Size: 34DDD/G in standard US sizing.

I wear a 34DDD but it still does not give me enough support. There’s always a cup gap and I usually have to fasten the back to the tightest hook otherwise it is loose. I have tried UK brand M&S and they are good but it is a hit or a miss as some of them have thin straps that dig into my shoulder. US brands no matter what size I pick it just does not fit properly.

Please give me any suggestions for daily wear, strapless and low-back bras. I usually wear no padding and with an underwire. I am looking for a minimising yet lifting effect 😭

Hey everyone! It’s the time of year where everyone with boobs gets to suffer through one of life’s most trying pasttimes: swimsuit shopping.

I really want a cute bikini set - one that’s flirty and feminine, like a cherry pattern with ruffles. But so many swimsuits nowadays offer little to no support, and my boobs don’t fuck around.

So I wanted to ask what everyone’s favorite bikini brands are! Looking for answers from all sizes because I’m sure other people are wondering the same thing, but I’m personally a 32DDD/34DD, so I’d love some recs from other big busted gals.

Thanks!

I’m looking for recommendations for a strapless bra. The issue is I’m a busty girl (Knix size 7+ and Curvy Kate 42I in US sizing). Have any other busty girls found a good strapless? I need it for a wedding in July that I am in. TIA

Link: https://ibb.co/album/y6mh63

It seems 90% of the unlined bras I've tried are unflattering under shirts. They give me a weird misshapen D shape rather than a smooth figure.

Pros from these bras: I like the shorter wires and gore height

Cons: force my breasts into weird shapes (probably because they aren't dense - in that way), clearly no where near my IMF

Am I basically being shoehorned into Comexim? Anything I should bring up with the fitters at a local specialty store? They carry Curvy Kate, Freya, B.Tempt'd, Carnival, Coquette, Elila, Elomi, Fantasie, Goddess, Montelle, Parfait, Shadowline, Triumph, and Wacoal.

Financially, I can't afford ordering a bunch of Comexim's for them not to fit

Hello! I'm so excited to have found this community. I know I have been wearing the wrong bra size for awhile, and I'm finally ready to be fitted properly again. I'm in the US and wearing a 38B. I used that size in Third Love's Quiz and ended up with a recommended 38B1/2 which I purchased. The new bra is the t-shirt with underwire and I can feel the underwire poking me under my arms/side boobs.

Fast forward to when I found this site and my measurements are as follows:
Underbust = Loose - 90cm, Snug - 87cm, Tight - 84cm Bust = Standing 103cm, Leaning 104cm, Lying down - 101cm. Which gave me US 36DD.

I also did my measurements in inches and that gave me a US 34G, that seems off to me as I cannot believe I was wearing such a small cup for what I really needed. But for reference those measurements are:
Underbust = Loose - 34 1/2 in, Snug - 34 in, Tight - 33 in Bust = Standing 40 in, Leaning 41 in, Lying down - 39in. Which gave me US 34G.

Hoping to confirm my measurement and then also get recommendations beyond ThirdLove for some new bras. In store options are great if that's an option for my size. I hope I measured correctly, but I checked the numbers for both cm and inches several times.

PS - when I do the upside down and backwards test on my old bra and new Third Love bras, they all feel loose which does help confirm either the 36 or 34 band I think.

Thank you!

I used the calculator & have tried multiple bras but there is so much gapping or it is tight on the sides. I lost any volume I had after breastfeeding. Extremely flat & nothing fits. If it even remotely fits all it does is flatten them more or I have gapping on top.

What brands do small chested people buy? I have tried: Arie Natori Victoria secret Pepper

Measurements:

Underbust tight: 29.5 Snug: 30 Loose: 30.5 Bust: 32 Leaning: 33 Laying down: 31

Looking for help(uk sizes). Just realized my proper size after many years wearing bras way too small. I’m a 36h. Tried a few different molded cups, and they don’t seem to fit really well. Found out unlined fit my shape way better and look more natural. I like the freya offbeat plunge, and tried it in 36gg and 36h. The h fit good, except the gore wires keep flipping on top of each other, instead of staying side by side. Anyone have any information as to why that happens. Band fits well as do straps. Also tissue is very soft, still full but a lot of sag. Thanks for any help or recommendations. Ps any mesh/ non lace bras do people like?

Loose Underbust:36 Snug Underbust:35 Tight Underbust:34 Standing Bust:43 Leaning Bust:46 Lying Bust:45 Sizing System:uk Units: inches

Side/Underarm Fat Issue

Through this sub I found what I think is a good size for me. The calculator gave me 34C/36A and I’ve found that’s probably the best size. My issue is that most bras fit well and make the boobs look good but the amount of underarm fat that gets pushed up and out is ridiculous! I’ve lost a decent amount of weight over the last year and a half but did it slow like I was supposed to but I can not get over how unattractive this is. What are my options? Go up in band size? But then the cups don’t fit. I’m feeling so discouraged and unattractive :(

Please don’t ask for my measurements again. They’re on a post it note somewhere and I don’t really think it’s relevant anymore since i spent months going over them and the sizing and trying on so many bras.

I was chatting with my best friend recently and she asked me how I was fairing with my weight loss.

I told her that I’ve lost about 30lbs now and have dropped 2 clothing sizes, and that the only downside is needing to replace large chunks of my wardrobe because I don’t have things that fit.

I mentioned that the worst (in terms of both aggravation and money) is needing to replace my bras. As I’ve lost enough that even tightening them to the tightest hook was no longer cutting it (not that they really fit all that well to start with)

That it was a lot of time and effort just finding something that fit(ish) before. Having to go down a couple of band sizes and up several cup sizes, because I’ve lost padding on the ribs but not any volume, meant that there were limited options to try locally. So that instead of looking for (US)38DD/DDD, I was needing (US)34G/H which are more difficult to find outside of specialty stores and also significantly more expensive [It is what it is, and as long as it fits properly I’m okay with that]

Her response was “have you tried Dillards?” ~Yes, what they carry is all too wide in the band and too shallow in the cups ~

“Well is there a Lane Bryant in town? Big boobs have to shop there.” Also tends to wide and shallow (then explained that shallow in this context refers to breasts gradually increasing to the maximum fullness, which is not what mine do)

She send me a link to their website (I get that she’s trying to be helpful) and I’m looking at their stock photos of their wired bras and all I can think is

“Almost all of them have floating gores”

“Lots of these are quadding at the top”

“That one has no support so the boobs are hanging down into the cups with zero lift”

If they can’t show the models in their own stock photos in bras that fit, would I really expect them to get anyone else into a bra that fits? Like, this is the one place where you would think that they would want to make sure the fit is on point 🤦🏼‍♀️

I probably wouldn’t have noticed any of this before ABTF. I am probably going to be incapable of NOT noticing these things hereafter.

[For the record, I wasn’t looking for solutions from her I just wanted to vent. And then went off on an internal ADHD™️ tangent with the website]

I joined this subreddit to have a better understanding about my breasts. I have read the guide which is available in the menu but TBH I am not being able to understand what is the meaning of Root Width and Root height and How do I check mine. I need help because I am having issues with everything.

I bought a Elomi Charley 95I and it fits everywhere perfectly except it gives me quad boob on my clevage. What do I do? Size up the cup or band or try a different bra?

original measurements: loose 31 snug 30 tight 29 standing 39 leaning 45 lying 42 calculator size: UK 30HH

hi everyone, several posts later and i’m getting closer to finding abtf. per suggestion, i tried the ewa michelak BM and SF styles in 70JJ. i purchased them secondhand, so the band is stretched out (they measured at 35-36 inches when stretched as far as possible).

i was pleasantly surprised with the fit, this is definitely the closest i’ve gotten. i took the SF for a test drive for a few hours on the tightest hook and while comfortable at first, unfortunately the underwire slipped below my IMF as you can see in some of the pictures and was quite painful by the end. same issue happens with the BM though I think it fits slightly better. the gore also doesn’t tack completely to my chest but definitely better than anything else i’ve tried and they both keep my breasts separated and no spillage even when i lift the underwire up to my IMF. other than that it was quite comfortable, the only discomfort i had was the bottom part of the underwire rubbing against my ribs when it slipped too low. i also saw someone comment under another post that for some people with a lot of projection, the slipping underwire just comes with the territory. is this true? can anything be done? i just want a comfortable underwire bra!

what next? should I try this size in a brand new bra or go down a band size? please help, i don’t want to give up! 🙏

Hi, I'll have to travel for ~24H (4 hours till plane departs, 12 H Flight, 8 Hour till I get home by train), how do I survive this? I have comfort wireless bra from Curvey Contour, however it is a bit too shallow and feels compressive. I also have wired plunge lace bra from Freya that feels more supportive and less compressive on boobs... But I do feel the wires sometime. Which one should I choose?

PS. If I stand upright without bras my boobs would feel heavy and sore soon... But should I take the bra off and give myself a break on the plane? I ride economic class so there isn't muching lying down

Thank you in advance

Hi, so I tried the panache envy in a 32D, and it’s overall a pretty good fit. It’s cut a bit too high for me and there’a a bit too much material on the top for me (I’m FOB and maybe a bit too shallow for the style) but it’s overall flattering. I don’t even mind the extra fabric on top, but under shirts I literally look like a fembot with triangular boobs. Even in loose shirts it looks too triangular for me. Are there any similar seamed bras that are very similar in style that are cut a bit lower for very flat on top breast, and also a bit more rounded shape?

I’m looking for some recommendations for a comfortable bralette or wireless bra that has good side support, but doesn’t feel as restrictive as wearing a wired bra. I’m unwell at the moment and will be living in pyjamas for the next few weeks, so just want something comfortable but also supportive.

Very cheap crop-top style bralettes don’t work for me because my breast tissue has migrated a lot after years of wearing poorly fitted bras, so I need something with enough structure at the sides to support my ongoing efforts to move my boobs back into the right position! Cheap bralettes just give me sausage boob - one continuous strip of flesh from armpit to armpit 😂

I’m a 34E/36DD, and in the UK.

My size is 30G (UK) however my bras are visible on the sides when I am wearing tank tops. Is there any brand dealing with this issue? Or should I go to a sister size to narrow the cup and make the bra not visible whilst wearing the top?