Hey! Once again winter is coming so I’m looking for someone chill before we freeze 🥶

I just returned from vacation and would love to meet someone chill and cute who’s not scared to get a little nerdy. If you’re down to hang tomorrow (or sometime before the freeze) and maybe go for a spontaneous adventure or bubble tea or something shoot me a dm :)

A bit about me: I’m tall, slim, handsome and black. I’m pretty chill, creative (I’m an artist) and a generally a kind and open soul always looking for fun moments. I’ve recently slipped back into my love for “nerd” culture and would love to share that love with someone. If you think we’d vibe give me a shout and let’s connect. Talk soon :)

P.s. what’s your favourite movie as of recently? Can’t wait to hear from you 😁

Hi there Reddit,

I am searching for a long term partner but obviously it doesn’t start that way so lets start with a fun date.

I am in my early thirties, cute, short, curvy but not overweight, and have redish hair. I am educated, well read, fun and bubbly. I like animals and love to laugh.

you are

• tall (over 5’10 ideally)
• I tend to be more attracted to white men but this is not a dealbreaker
• athletic or enjoy working out

-smart -over thirty and under 42

If this is you slide into my messages with a date idea

Hey there! I’m looking to meet someone who’s ready for something real. I believe the best relationships that starts with friendship and could grow into something more if the vibes are right. If you’re into sharing dreams, laughing at random memes, and exploring life’s deeper questions together, I’d love to hear all about what makes you tick.

I've been told I’m a great listener (though I’m not afraid to go off on the occasional fun tangent). By day, I work in tech, and by night you’ll find me gaming, testing new recipes, creating digital art, or getting out for some fresh air. I’m always down for some good tech talk too—especially if that’s your thing!

If you’re also looking for a connection that could go beyond the surface, drop me a message and introduce yourself! I’m excited to see what we could create together.

Hello Reddit community!

I'm a 32-year-old guy based in the Greater Toronto Area, and I'm hoping to connect with some like-minded individuals, who share similar interests. A little bit about me—I have a well-established career, and in my free time, I love to unwind by cooking. I’m always experimenting with new recipes, so if you're someone who appreciates good food and enjoys sharing a great meal, we’ll probably hit it off!

Another passion of mine is all things horror and sci-fi. Whether it’s diving into a captivating book, watching a thrilling movie, or binge-watching the latest TV series in these genres, I’m all in. If you're also into horror or science fiction, or even if you have some awesome recommendations, I’d love to hear from you!

I’m really looking forward to meeting some interesting and genuine people who share these hobbies and passions. Don’t be shy—feel free to drop me a message. Can’t wait to connect with you all! 😊

York Region mother of multiples looking for a new virtual connection. Someone to talk to through the day while kids are at school about parenting, life, sharing funny memes, and whatever else.

My partner and I are on the brinks of separation. Communication has been at an all time low. I feel lonely and don’t have many friends. I’m open to possibly meeting and doing things if interests align and time opens up!

Wanted to take a different approach than using the typical dating apps and see if I could find someone compatible on

Looking for someone to spend time with and get to know and see if there’s any chemistry that could progress to something deeper.

I’m a young professional living in the west end of Toronto. I love quality time and long deep convos. Pretty low maintenance and chill but dedicated and attentive when with someone.

I’m a big trivia/jeopardy fan(almost never miss an episode) Love watching sports, I play basketball and swim. Lotr, marvel, Star Wars and anime nerd. I’m a sucker for a good drama or documentary too. I also love exploring neighbourhoods in Toronto, spending time by the water or in parks.

Basically in a nutshell looking for someone who has similar interests and is interested in something more than casual sex (although I do enjoy being intimate with my partner and have a pretty high drive)

About me: 6’1, black, athletic, hygienic, regularly tested.

I recently moved to Toronto for my residency and I have been swamped with work. I am looking to start taking ownership over the fun parts of my life and not just be a zombie in the hospital. Hoping to check out some bars and other nightlife when I can finally! I know it's a Tuesday but I have weird hours and was on-call this past weekend!

As a single man looking to go out and meet people in person, versus the endless swiping, it can be intimidating striking up conversations at bars or on the dancefloor. Was thinking it might be more fun to go with a wing(wo)man!

A bit more about me: I am 6'2", have a big smile and a slim runner's build. I enjoy staying fit and being active. I like to go camping, running, biking and play volleyball. I enjoy going to concerts and listening to all kinds of music. I won't shy towards a dance floor, but I won't conquer it either! As my post history suggests, I have made some other posts on reddit, and while I am indeed looking for things across a spectrum, I am definitively looking for a drinking/dancing buddy too. Will always respect your goals and interests, so reach out and we can chat! Cheers!

Male 31 brown non smoker non drinker seeking a fellow brown female to date and see where it goes. I’m clean sober and not into anything crazy. Ideally looking to meet someone who is looking for a date and relationship.

Looking to get to know a chill laid back girl !! Born and raised in Canada from the GTA 420 friendly I enjoy long drives, going to the gym, movies, history and alot more.

about me: 27 male toronto.

i like netflix, cartoons, video games (pc), reading, spirituality, ufo, vegan food, nature walks.

im looking for: hangout, doing activities together, dates, sex, relationship.

message me if youre interested

Hey y’all ! I’ve been in canada for a year now, this is my second fall/winter, last year I couldn’t really enjoy as I was busy adapting to the environment and my college. I’m looking for some buddies (No gender barrier, Better if they’re around my age ;) to hangout with and make some fun plans. I’m into standup, go-karting, Musical Instruments (I play Ukulele :p). Also, I’m open to explore anything new, As I feel I have not seen even 1% of what is out there in the world. Hmu if you feel like we’ll vibe together.

Straight to the point – I’m looking for a man who knows how to keep a woman happy without being told how(iykyk 👀). If you don’t know what that means, this post isn’t for you. I want to settle down and have kids, so please be serious and looking for the same 😊

I’m 33F, brown girl, 5’5, BBW, curvy/thick and working on it and avoiding an arranged marriage. I have a great sense of humour (sometimes dark) and would describe myself as a performative extrovert when necessary! I’m on the nerdier side, but enjoy getting dressed up for my man. No racism, misogyny, or homophobia 😊. I respect and treat everyone as equals and expect you to do the same.

I’m looking for a good man who wants a deep connection. Romance, affection and constant flirting is a must. You’re looking for bestie turned bae turned mother of his children. Let’s dive in, laugh, connect and get to know each other.

Eligibility requirements: Man, 30+(or at least wanting kids soon), 5’7+, funny, caring, protective, romantic, respectable, smart and gentlemanly. I like an old school gentleman, good morning texts and all the other green flags. Clean, hygienic, basic human life skills.

Send me a purple heart emoji, your ASL so I know you read this and are serious 😊

Male 30 brown 5.11 athletic clean ddf and non smoker non drinker seeking a female to go on a movie date with me. I work full time and I do drive. Can pick you up and drop you off if it helps. I’m muslim by faith if it matters. If you are stuck in life and looking for a company for an evening or just want to hangout dm me.

I do speak Urdu, Hindi , Telugu.

Hello! I'Juan, a 24-year-old, 6'2", white, have a quite unique accent, moved here a year ago and I'm looking to make some meaningful connections. If it leads to something more, that's a bonus!

Polyglot: I speak five languages, which has opened up so many amazing conversations and experiences.

Almost Graduated: I'm close to finishing my studies and excited about what's next. Maybe to start pilot school soon.

Independent Living: I don't live with my parents, so I value my independence and self-sufficiency.

Aspirations: I have short and long terms goals, my dream is to become an astronaut and I'm passionate about the business world.

Health-Conscious: I'm currently on a diet and enjoy learning about nutrition and wellness. Still trying to find my sport, maybe we could be a tennis dual? Oh my, so many options.

I try always my best to be kind, to not judge and to be understanding. Very easy going. Totally up for a blind date.

If you're looking for someone unique to hang out with, a language buddy, a movie theatre companion, or maybe even a co-adventurer for trying new things and exploring the city, let's get to know each other better! 😊

Hey everyone! 26M living in Toronto Canada.

About myself: i am fairly career driven. I am an account manager and have my own place downtown. In my spare time, i enjoy reading, being outdoors (hiking, skiing, biking, beach volleyball), travelling, and just chilling at home. I enjoy going to concerts and trying new restaurants. I am also very open minded and always down to try new things. Not a huge partier although the occasional night out can be fun.

This is pretty important, I am childfree, and do not want kids now or in the future. Looking for a like minded partner who wants to DINK and live an awesome life! Together I hope to travel alot, focusing on ourselves and our relationship. I think not havings kids is an excellent way to maximize our enjoyment of life.

Physically, i am 6"0, and in shape (i workout regularly at my condo gym). Blond/brown hair. I am not picky about "types", i find compatibility matters much more for me.

Send me a DM if you think we'd be a good match! I am happy to share pics of me in DM too

Hello R4RToronto_Clean,

I've had a couple of lovely conversations with some people from my previous posts, but sadly all off the chats ended with them changing their minds due to considering themselves emotionally unavailable, but undeterred I thought I'd give it another go! 🙂

I 27M am a single, thoughtful, respectful, and clean white guy rocking an average to slightly dad bod build (working on it), located east of Toronto around the Pickering area of the GTA!

I'm looking for someone whom I can text good morning / night to, someone whose life I can genuinely take interest in, and ask how your day was, or an event you recently did was (like a girls night out, weekend road trip with friends, etc.) I'm looking for a friend who wants a deeper connection, someone who would every once in a while like to cuddle up at the end of a long day to a nice warm drink and a show / movie and just simply enjoy eachother's presence. I don't want every last waking second of your life, I just want to compliment your life, support your ambitions, hold your hands during the dark times. I just want a friend to connect with on a deeper emotional level 🙂

If the vibe is right down the road it can be just more than cuddles obviously, but not looking to rush! If we find ourselves on that path I'd like to build up a true deep emotional and sensual bond before that so we can well establish what YOU want / like, help you with any insecurities you may have so when the time is right there will be nothing holding you back from the full potential of what you deserve 🙂 not looking for an "I got mine" scenario, and I have a few quirks that definitely ensure that 😅

A bit about myself: I enjoy watching nostalgic films and tv shows (e.g. avatar the last Airbender), love boardgames, and some video games (not a gamer by a longshot), not a Micheline star chef but dabble in cooking, into old school wax sealing, like stained glass (would eventually like to make my own!), and more stuff just can't think of them putting myself on the spot atm 😅

If I've peaked your interest feel free to shoot me a DM! I am an open book and will entertain any questions you may have for me 🙂

Why does it feel so frowned upon to not want kids in the dating apps? I feel like that gets rid of 95% of the people on there 🤔

Anyway. With that out the way here is me:

33 year old slim male with long hair who's been in Toronto for over 5 years now, originally from the UK.

I've currently on a career sabbatical to try and recover from the chaos of the last 5 years and I'm hoping to do a road trip from Vancouver to Toronto within the next year or so. Anyone fancy being a co-driver? The sabbatical is going well so far I think, maybe I'm getting a little too used to this?

Some things about me:

• spends way too much time at the beach
• has no sense of taste or smell (not covid related)
• had lots of open heart surgery
• enjoys games of all kinds (video/card/board)
• enjoy watching NBA and various motorsport
• i have a cat who is incredibly nosy and will never leave my side 😭

All I ask is that you are single and looking for a long term relationship, with settling down in Canada/Toronto your main goal. Please send a pic to get mine back :)

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Looking to meet someone for a meaningful relationship. I believe the best connections are built on trust, communication, and a bit of humor to keep things fun.

A bit about me: I am a cybersecurity professional working in a remote setup and lives midtown. Outside of work, I love traveling, hiking, and exploring new spots to eat.Easy-going by nature, but I’m driven when it comes to my goals and what I want in life.

I enjoy listening to jazz and sufi music to relax and unwind.Honesty, empathy, and kindness are values I live by, and I am looking for someone who shares them.

What I’m looking for: Someone who is open to getting to know each other, with the hope of something serious down the road.Extra points if you enjoy outdoor activities, hiking , park walk, or are just a fan of good conversations.

If interested, send me a message!

Hello all,

Another week, another shot!

I am recently divorced. I work a lot. I’m an introverted extrovert. I have a beard and tattoos. I’m rough on the edges. I swear a lot. Looking to connect with somebody who’s serious about getting to know one another who values trust honesty, and communication and is super kind to others. I am attracted to all races, creeds, religions and nationalities. I do prefer woman who have curves. I’m also an ass man so bonus points if you’re a cutie with a bootie. I know I know, super cheesy. But that’s me. I have a fairly stable life. I drive, have my own place, have my shit together. I don’t smoke, drink or do drugs but I’m not against people who do. If your weekends are all about going out, drinking and shit like that, it probably ain’t going to work. A bit more about me below ⬇️

• 41, Caucasian, 6’1
• Super chill & friendly
• Best smelling guy you’ll meet. Period.
• I’m a Dad of 2 beautiful kids.
• I’m a big nerd, love space and comics, sci fi and horror. Games.
• Lover of Coffee
• Nature walks & Hikes are my jam. I love to throw on my AirPods, find a trail and just go.

Can send a SFW pic if you are willing too also! Hoping to connect with you!

Lastly, I know what I want & I know what I’m ready for. I’m getting tired of people telling ME that I’m not ready for something. The only person who can truly know that is myself. Same goes for you. I don’t want a penpal and I don’t want to waste anyone’s time.

Ideally *date* > *cuddle buddy* > *relationship*

I hate apps but work from home and since Covid have had trouble meeting people in organic ways. Never married and have no kids. Looking to finally adopt a new dog after 4 years of intense mourning. My first career was a 10 year gruel in local television and am trying to figure out what my second one will be. Currently studying non-profit management in my spare time.

Looking for a leftish dude that's somewhat into music or art etc. If you look like a washed up 90's musician that's great too. I like movies/coffee shops/live music. Most of my 20's and 30's pre Covid I spent seeing local indie shows (raves when I was younger) and reviewing local community theatre. I really love Madonna and The Prodigy as well as drum n bass, happy hardcore, 90's dance music, indiepop, early 00's era sXe Hardcore/Emocore, crappy radio rock, cancon, indie/folk, acoustic singer songwriter stuff, dreampop etc and generally smaller shows and would never expect to drag a man to a stadium concert to see say Lady Gaga (I'll go on my own or with a gay friend unless you really want to go lol) and looking to see how the West end has changed after a decade in the East end as well. Would like to find a boyfriend eventually and definitely not looking for hookups. Coffee dates/Patios (while still warm) possible/Shows/Movies with a drink before are a good Winter date idea for me. I'm not too hung up on politics in terms of romance but you really do have to support Gaza at this point.

My last LTR was pre Covid and I also lost a good best friend who was my concert/activity buddy who passed away during that time so looking for activity partners who open to sharing interests. I've dated a bit causally post Covid but had somewhat of a negative experience with someone who didn't feel it was appropriate to take their partner to shows....which was really disappointing to be honest.

Concerts I've seen so far this year and still plan to see so you get an idea of my taste: Madonna, JJ Wilde x2, Glorious Sons, Julia Holter, (missed Cat Power because I was sick but that was a big one I wanted to see), Fightmaster, Caribou, Crumb, Discovery Zone, Katie McBride, Ginger Root?! some Wavelength shows/Project Nowhere. Coming up is Godspeed, Bibi Club, Nouvelle Vague and Refused. Oasis is obviously happening and will be my third time. I also really like hanging out at smaller places like Baby B etc and would like to check out more places like that.

Always trying to figure out whether to get a synth and learn to play it or take the easy way out and learn how to play guitar. I tried Sitar classes and failed huge.

I guess since it matters I'm thin (ish), very white, and about 5'7 and dress like a slob half time time and then pretty fashionable if need be.

•	Just moved here; looking to connect with people who value low-key, meaningful connections.
•	Severely introverted and appreciate quiet time, solo hobbies, and the occasional outing.
•	Into reading, horror movies, quiet cafes, and art museums. Would love to discover low-key spots around town.
•	Strong appreciation for thoughtful small moments.

• If it matters: non-smoker, non-drinker, I do eat rice 3x a day.

If you don’t mind a bit of awkward silence, and can be comfortable without constant yapping, let’s connect.

Hey I'm looking for a cuddle buddy, no making out, no oral, no sex, no overnights. I'd like a friendship to go along with it though

I'm open to alot in terms of cuddling. Cuddling in a bed / car, any cuddling position, holding each other tight, cheek kisses, neck kisses, body kisses, caressing each other, light massage, any amount of clothing etc

I'm in my twenties and have an athletic / lean muscular body

If you are potentially interested, let me know and we can discuss further about boundaries and expectations. Again my boundaries are no making out, no oral, no sex, no overnights

So I witnessed a miracle. A friend of mine posted on here a six months ago and he landed a lovely date that has now turned into a loving relationship. So I thought I'd try and give a shout into the void.

I am a 35 yo queer trans femme who works in the core as a management consultant. I work a bunch and have no desire to try the apps and I have no time for chasers. I am open for situationship, cuddle buddy, casual dating and seeing where things go, or whatever unfolds.

About me, I am as comfortable in a canoe in Algonquin as I am dancing past last call at the Wiggle Room. Or, as in my element when hanging out at the local bar enjoying a pint with friends as I am at a reading group at the library. I'm always up for a great road trip, cooking a feast, trying a new brewery or restaurant, or deep heartfelt conversations. I have spent like 20 years working on my mental health and I am thrilled with where I've gotten to with all this hard work. While I think of myself as kind of plain, I definitely march to my own beat from time to time.

People who have passions and let themselves get excited about something are the type of people who I am attracted to. I am into all genders; what is more important than any one gender or sexuality is being at ease with your own. If you have deep passions, loves, or something that just gets you excited when you talk about it, chances are we'll be able to keep a conversation going.

What I am not after is trans-chasers, or people who are insecure about dating a trans femme. I am not looking to chat forever online before meeting up. Folks who are not interested in trying something new, making a mistake, or taking a calculated risk, probably aren't going to like the things I get myself into.

If this doesn't sound absurd to you or if I have piqued your interest, give me a message with some thoughts and a little about yourself. I'll get back to you and give more details and we can make something happen.

recently separated, and ready for new adventures. I’m passionate about wine, cooking, and travel—especially spontaneous trips to Vegas. Love a good meal, a great conversation, and enjoying life’s simple pleasures. Looking to meet someone genuine who’s up for fun, whether it’s a night out, a weekend getaway, or staying in with a home-cooked dinner. If you’re easygoing, adventurous, and enjoy good company, let’s grab a drink and see where things go.

I made a post this summer, chatted with some amazing people but had to put dating on the back burner with some life stuff that took priority. Giving it another shot with the changing of the seasons!

Secret rebel currently masquerading as a corpo drone, constantly trying to get back at loblaws, while figuring out how to get around this city with construction galore. Hoping to find a smart, fun, physically active partner who wants company for her dog walks this fall and I dunno… nonchalantly fall for each other I guess. As an added bonus, we can finally become real adults and be each others emergency contacts.

Currently busy growing a mini jungle at home, adding to my Spotify playlist each week, getting excited like a kid again with the upcoming hockey season, playing random rec sports each week to stay active and sneaking in standup comedy/concerts as much as possible. Getting set for some fun fall travel adventures while BBQing my heart out while I still can, petting any dogs that make eye contact and helping the local economy by hitting patios when the mood strikes.

Physically I’m 5’11, 197.5lbs (tbh 200 is my self imposed upper limit and I’m counting that .5), light brown complexion, shaved head and a thick black beard (now featuring white strands!) and live near King West.

If any of this intrigues you, feel free to send me a message.

Well,here I go again. My specifications are 6'0, 80kg, European/Spaniard, black hair and brown eyes. Beard is optional and detachable (although it requires several days to get it back)

Hobbies. I am more into chill activities than partying (yup, not into places with loud music where I need to talk by yelling to your ear). That doesn't mean that I will refuse to try kayaking with you every now and then, just that a regular Netflix and chill under a blanket sounds good to me as well. Also interested into learning, so documentaries, zoos, language exchange... Will likely catch my attention.

So, about you. I want someone around my age (no, not interested in 18yo girls). Don't care about race, or your religion. I am much more interested into you being able to keep a conversation. And no, you don't need to study to just speak with me, but I expect someone that can deliver engaging answers, someone capable of speaking even if the topic is outside her field, can land more than 2-3 words together. Beyond that, we can negotiate.

And that would be it. Living at North York, BTW. If you are still interested, HMU

Looking for a mature lady in her 60's, 70's or 80's. I know people in that age group don't use reddit a lot so if anyone knows of someone who is looking for a guy like me, let me know! Wanting companionship.

Hello /r4r! I don't know about you all, but last year has been a crazy ride for me. Heartbreak and happiness, letdowns and adventures, visiting loves ones and being alone. I ended up making a huge change of course in my life, got a new job, made new friends and lost many old ones. It's been a while since I've been this content with where I have ended up. Somehow, somewhere though, something feels a little amiss - I miss having someone to share everyday with. If that's you too, well maybe we can hit it off and see where it goes? 😊

Anyway, a little about me - I'm basically your friendly neighbourhood funny guy™ (mostly self proclaimed), that usually ends up in more funny situations than not. Like no seriously, the amount of stupid life stories I have is sometimes a little worrying (try me). I'm a little awkward around new people but once I warm up to you I'm mostly funny and witty, you just better hope you enjoy being assaulted with puns. If you like shitty jokes, you should message me your best (worst?) one!

I used to watch a ton of TV and movies, and I still try to keep up when I can - I watch pretty much anything and always looking for recommendations. Also, if you haven't seen the show Severance you should stop and go watch now. I'll wait. I always love talking / fangirling / discovering stupid fan theories about stuff, so if you want to talk about it, I'm all game! Book recommendations are also welcome - I reallly want to get back into reading as many books as I did as a kid. I love some science fiction, but I'll read anything interesting too!

Okay, let's see, hobbies? Oh god I have too many to list. I sometimes feel like I'm on an endless rotation between new and possibly pointless hobbies that I get into for a while and then completely abandon. Do I enjoy puzzles? You bet I do. Magic Tricks? Pick a card. Juggling? Actually no I hit my face with the ball and then stopped, but anyway. Photography? Been there snapped that. Am I particularly good at any of these? uhm... well, I'm fun at parties at least! Point is, I love learning new stuff, so if you've got a hobby you want to share with someone (or just want to learn something random together) you should most definitely count me in!

So what am I looking for? Mostly to meet cool people to do cool stuff with - road trips, travelling, 1am ice cream trips, or just making spontaneous plans - or just generally my person I guess. Maybe it'll lead to something more, or perhaps we'll just get a new friend out of it. I've got a group of friends I hang out with every so often, but honestly most of them tend to be flaky and it's just such a pain having to coordinate stuff with everyone all the time, sometimes I just want to grab someone and go do something in the moment, you know? Or jump on a discord call at the end of the day and rant about work or share a funny thing that happened that day. (Does anyone here still like talking on a call?!)

I work in tech and I'm very passionate about what I do, and love talking about it. I don't expect you to be in / familiar with any of it, but I would appreciate someone who doesn't mind me explaining and talking about stuff to them (and of course, be willing to share whatever they do / love with me in return). I feel like when something is such a big part of our lives, that's something you definitely need to be able to share with someone in some capacity.

I don't particularly care about where you're from / how tall you are / etc, all I care about is that we have some common interests and you're actually interested in meeting up and seeing where it goes! I'm honestly a little tired of the whole only talk online for a day or two and then get ghosted routine. I'm not the most physically attractive, so if that bothers you - well now you know.

Anyway, that's all from me, if any of this tickles your fancy, DM me with your best/favorite pun and perhaps a little introduction about you? I'm happy to share pictures / other social media / discord if you prefer talking there (I know I do). Either ways, if you've made it here I hope you have a great day :)