/r/r4rtoronto

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Looking to meet your fellow Redditors in the Toronto/GTHA? Welcome to R4RToronto!

Women and men alike are encouraged to post, don't be shy and meet some new people, you never know who you'll meet or where love strikes!

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If you live in Toronto or the GTA post your R4Rs here. Women and men are both encouraged to post, don't be shy and meet some new people, you never know where love strikes!

(Other places in Canada are also welcome)

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27M4F looking for Dominant F to fix me.

I'm 27M from Kerala India, I am currently at a low point in my life and this is me trying to get out of it. I am looking for a dominant F to take control of my life and fix me. I am 5'4 bit bulky, I am interested in technology, movies, politics, acting,culture and books. People have told me that I don't look my age and that I have a beautiful smile(although I'm lost). I believe that empathy is one of my dominant character trait. If you find this intriguing DM me, we will get to know eachother.

1 Comment
2024/11/01
05:32 UTC

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20MF4M looking for BBC bi 3some

20MF4M looking for BBC bi 3some in the gta, preferably toronto. Are able to host, should be able to drive to the location.

It will most likely be during a weekday during the morning/afternoon time. Prefer someone between the ages of 20-30, open to bi fun, have some experience, clean, respectful, and open to raceplay/other things.

If you have any questions or are interested, please reach out to me. Because of the flood of messages, i won’t be responding to messages with just “hi” or “hello”. Please introduce yourself, it’ll give you a better chance of me responding :))

1 Comment
2024/11/01
05:32 UTC

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28 M4FM Hung bi guy looking for friends and fun

Hi there friendly hung (pics on profile) bi guy here looking for men women or couples who are into big dick and fun times. HMU I host in Malton or can drive to you. Pretty chill not looking for anything serious. Ongoing if we click.

1 Comment
2024/11/01
04:45 UTC

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27FTM4M - free this Friday night?

Looking for someone to have fun with this Friday night!

I’m FTM (although more so non-binary), masc in the streets (my face and hair are quite masculine) & femme in the sheets (I love to be called a good girl/she/her)

Haven't had any surgeries. Average build with a juicy butt and size C tits. Submissive, mixed race (white/asian), and with a baby face.

Looking for a dominant man to fondle me, play with my breasts, and grind up against me…bonus points if you're older 🙊

Love a muscular dad bod. Please be DDF (weed is fine). Hygiene & cleanliness are very important to me!

Happy to exchange pics to see if there’s a mutual attraction ☺️

4 Comments
2024/11/01
04:38 UTC

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24M4MF any couples looking for a bi curious sub?

Pretty much what the title post, I’m white, in very good shape, average height, hung, & clean most importantly haha, happy to verify too

But I’ve been curious about subbing & the minds be wandering towards trying something with a guy so why not knock kill 2 birds with one stone🤷🏻‍♂️

Happy to share pics, ideally you’re close to my age but not a deal breaker, can host or travel too

1 Comment
2024/11/01
04:31 UTC

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31m4F cuck for true slut

Let me be your dedicated boyfriend. Care for you, spoil you, treat you well. While you sleep with anyone you want. Let me eat the cum if youre feeling generous.

I am a short guy, not skinny, and a small one. I am very obedient and generous. Bully me and make me do things for you that no one else will.

This can be as crazy as you want. Let's adventure together. I'm as serious as humanly possible

1 Comment
2024/11/01
02:12 UTC

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24F4FM or MM

Hi there! I’m a 24 year old blonde Caucasian woman looking for FM or MM.

Ngl I’ve never done this before. But I’m looking to be someone’s third. I’ve never fucked a girl before, so I’m gonna be a little more interested in the guy (sorry). Open to discussions / sending pics!

Please let me know your age & send pics please!

3 Comments
2024/11/01
03:43 UTC

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29M4F Seeking Casual, Ongoing Connection with a Fun

29M entrepreneur running two businesses, and as much as I love the gym to release some stress, it only goes so far. I love movies, cooking fun recipes or making my own, walking around museums, and music during relaxing walks with my dogs. Day trips to explore areas, hikes, and small town, sign me up.

Interested in an ongoing, casual "stress-relief" arrangement. Ideally, we’d meet up 2-4 times a month (more if our schedules align), for an activity, day trip, or dinner. Even when we can't meet, I’m all about teasing and flirting over messages to keep the fun going.

Looking for someone who’s confident, flirty, and knows how to have fun with foreplay. Whether you're sassy, bold, or just love to tease, I want to explore what turns you on and excites you, whether you share it upfront or we discover it together.

What I'm looking for;

  • Someone into the entire experience
  • Enjoys getting dressed up for a fine dining evening, to spontaneous moments that might end in the car, at my place, or wherever the mood strikes us. 
  • Physically someone who takes care of themself and stays active.
  • Ideally 24+ but as long as we’re on the same page it’s not a deal breaker. 
  • DDF, clean & hygiene-conscious.
  • Fan of the subtle, sexy moments that build up naturally. 
  • Loves that slow, teasing energy that keeps things exciting and leaves room for anticipation.

So if you've read this far and this sounds like what you’re looking for, send me a message with a little about yourself, something you’re passionate about, and SFW photo. I like to tease, so sending an NSFW photo right away ruins the fun—make me work for it.

*Quick Note: I’m not closed off to the idea of something more if we click. But with the demands of my professional life, my free time and schedule have become a bit unpredictable, which has made traditional dating tricky. Looking for a more flexible arrangement that still allows us to enjoy each other’s company without the typical pressures.*

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2024/11/01
03:35 UTC

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32M4F - Looking for weekday afternoon Oasis Aqualounge partner

Any woman interested in exploring Oasis together and have fun on weekday (any day in Mon - Thursday) afternoon?

I am 32, tall, average body type, Korean, and not hung, but almost average size down there.

We can have a private room and have a good and relaxing time together. I will pay for the fee for you as well.

DM me with your photo and brief introduction if you are interested. (woman only please)

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2024/11/01
02:41 UTC

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33 [M4F] - Looking For An Evil Married Woman. The Best Wives Cheat.

Unbelievable, outrageous, abhorrent, but true. Deep down you know it too. You know you need to cheat on your husband and get these desires out of your system. It's how you can you live out all your wildest fantasies and when you go home to him be completely happy. A happy wife makes for a happy life. Don't you agree? Don't you want your husband to live by that adage. You do love him, let me make you happy so that he can be happy.

What better way than with an evil man like me. Someone who doesn't give a fuck about your husband. Someone who could be his best friend, take him out to dinner, and leave you in a hotel room with three other dudes while I distract him. I enjoy being generally evil and helping married woman live out their fantasies. I can be quite dark, so I'm not for the faint of heart or people looking to fall in love. I'll never love you. This is just pure fun. I've never been caught and I never will be. Ping me if you think your what I'm looking for.

1 Comment
2024/11/01
02:28 UTC

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30 M4M looking to suck in Scarborough

30 White M horny and looking to suck some dick in Scarborough. Come pick me up and feed me ur nut. i am DDF and discreet. I swallow. HMU with stats and a cock pic if ur interested

1 Comment
2024/11/01
02:23 UTC

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31 [M4F] Let's eat some raw fish for dinner

I'm tall, well-endowed, and in good shape. I’m looking for a fit woman who is just as stressed about work as I am—let’s laugh it off together while we eat sushi at Miku.

At 31 and 6'1, I hope you’re in decent shape too. I’ve tried my luck on r4rToronto before, but I’m back, hoping to connect with someone genuinely looking for a friends-with-benefits situation.

I’m all about safe play—kinky and open-minded but nothing too extreme. I’m happy to share pictures and test results.

By day, I work a 9-5 in tech, and outside of that, I enjoy long walks on local trails, working out, tackling my reading list, and I’ve recently taken up online chess. I’m also curious about pickleball.

If you’d like to chat more, hit me up!

1 Comment
2024/11/01
02:19 UTC

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「23 M4F Hamilton」 looking for a woman that wants to be eaten out

I'm 23, 6'1, white, 185lbs with an average build, long hair and a beard. Up on the mountain. I'm Just looking for woman of any age, body type or race thats in Hamilton or the nearby area that would like to have their pussy eaten out, ass ate, get their clit sucked on and if you're into it sit on my face with no reciprocation needed. I can't host or drive unfortunately but I'm down with car fun if you've got a car or outdoors as well. Additionally note, if you don't shave your pussy thats super hot and if you squirt thats hot too.

1 Comment
2024/11/01
02:05 UTC

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19 M4F Looking for single mom FWB

Tbh you don’t have to be a MOM but it’s just something i’d enjoy I feel like i’d be good with kids (NOT IN A BAD WAY OFC OFC). Im 19 brown and hairy and also a virgin af so like just dm me i’m down for whatever.

1 Comment
2024/11/01
01:52 UTC

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23 (M4A) Never recieved a BJ before

Hey there, I am m 23 caucasian, 510, 220 lbs. I am a little chubby and have brown short hair. I am looking to receive my first BJ soon but am kinda nervous about it. I am not overly picky with your looks or age. I live alone near downtown and can host but not travel too far. Please include a description of yourself when you send a DM

1 Comment
2024/11/01
01:51 UTC

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33/33 [MF4F] Cottage country/ Anywhere-polycople looking for 3rd to join us

So it’s always difficult to put these things into words of who we are, I’m a tall(6’1), in shape, bearded blue eyed white guy who works in a variety of trades, I’m a master mason, a decent carpenter, I’ve built high end wooden boats, and am currently working as a logger and a farm hand in cottage country Ontario. I guess I should say my hobbies are working the farm, and doing mini construction projects around the house(currently rebuilding cabinets in the kitchen and building fences for our sheep. I enjoy watching tv(currently finished the last of us, and 1923, fixing cars, hunting/ fishing (Im a status Indian, who was raised to hunt trap and do outdoor gathering by my grandfather and I believe in continuing the practices) and doing the outdoor backwoodsmans life.(Ask about my awesome axes). Finally I enjoy helping my partner, (with the homestead there is always more chores and more work to be done, with 120 animals. (hopefully if you respond;partners.) But we are both dreamers and I want to help her accomplish her dreams. I’ve also gotten into warhammer recently as the painting the models soothes my soul in the morning.

My wife, is a short 5’4 ex goth(as she says it never leaves you completely)dyed dark hair women who is gorgeous in so many ways that it’s hard to describe. Whose hobbies include, walking her dogs, and caring for her growing farm that has sheep, pot belly pigs, chickens and turkeys. She now has a medium flock of sheep that are the love of her life. She also enjoys going out and checking out antiques and going hiking and checking out the woods, plus she recently got into shooting/hunting because of me and I would say I like doing all these things too. As she describes, she never has days were she’s not learning something new on the farm or in life.

We currently rent a farm but we both dream of one day starting a homestead up north in one of the unorganized townships, to build our dream home and be left alone from the pace of the world that’s slowly killing our idealized country living.

(NSFW) We have a great sex life, when we aren’t weighed down by business and the tiredness of physically demanding jobs. We’re very much both like to give more than we receiving but we both always finish happy. Though to mention My wife was formerly only interested in women till she met me and knows her away around a female body, she is very dominant with other women, but can be a switch though she is collared by me and she loves it. She tells me I’m well endowed and that she would love to see another woman try to tackle me but we can keep that for you to find out. (End NSFW)

So what can I say, ask questions since I can’t think of everything to put onto this profile, the polyamory was originally brought forth by her and I’m not gonna argue with it and hopefully you like the idea too.

We’re just hoping that you might be up for the idea of children one day, look after yourself, and that you might wanna see where this goes.

We live a pretty idyllic life, and we are hoping someone finds this interesting as well.

P.S We are both are here to answer questions but my partner doesn’t like to deal with the early conversations and getting ghosted. She’s shy and please respect that.

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2024/11/01
01:51 UTC

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55 m4f Join me after ball hockey #woodbridge #toronto

Friday night I will be playing ball hockey with a bunch of guys in Woodbridge. Usually they go for coffee at McD after. I would prefer someone who looks and smells better for drinks, conversation and more if we are both feeling it. I prefer hotel over car fun but we can see where it goes. Maybe we will just have some laughs.

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2024/11/01
01:45 UTC

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MF4M 33/36 East GTA Looking for a local bull for longterm use

Looking for a local bull for longterm use. Treat me like your human fleshlight.

Hotwife looking to connect with a local bull for a more long term relationship. A few MUSTS:

  • Be able to host! No CarPlay
  • Be local (East GTA / Durham or downtown)
  • Be on the dom side (not looking for super aggro type but someone who is good with taking charge)
  • Be into quick dirty hookups. Not looking for sensual type of hookups. Ideally I want to have a relationship where I am used as a human fleshlight.
  • Be free evenings or weekends
  • Clean, D&D Free, Discreet
  • Hubby would be joining at first so be comfortable with that
  • Be comfortable with some discreet pics and vids. No faces.

Haha kinda a long list but assuming you are still reading and are still interested we would love to hear from you.

If you want a response please reply with “fleshlight” and tell us where abouts you would be able to host and how often you are free?

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2024/11/01
01:41 UTC

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[M4A] 22 year old looking for some spooky fun

Regular masc dude who wants fun am engaged and needing real satisfaction I love taboo and fucked up shit love hentai let's get to know each other a bit first haha I dint host but willing to travel if not too far and love to get lit and have fun willing to try anything.

2 Comments
2024/11/01
01:41 UTC

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22[m4f] #gta/kw college student seeking for this weekend

Sorry for the late notice but I'm finally free this weekend away from home with parents and looking to spend Saturday night with a girl around my age (can pay for a room or go to your place and open to see where things go as well past this weekend if we vibe) 😗. My looks: East Asian, 5'8, 150lb and have a really nice pair of hands. I'm mainly looking to spend time trading neck kisses, cuddling (kinda miss being held lol), edging each other and open to oral and sex if we get along well enough of course. Also, bonus points if you have a nice smile lol. Can verify in dms. Anyways, lmk if interested in dms, thanks!

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2024/11/01
01:35 UTC

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40M4F - Steady fwb wanted

Not the usual r/r post, but here goes nothing. After so many tries I've given up on the idea of a "normal" relationship, I'm still not against it, I'm just not chasing it, but I miss that physical connection, so I'm trying to find a steady fwb who is kind of in the same boat. Emphasis on the friends part, so we'll have to have some stuff in common. As for me, I'm a homebody, not into crowds and mayhem, I do like the outdoors, hiking, fishing, camping, board games, or binging shows. I'm handy, like to goof around, I can be morbid sometimes, my humour is definitely not for everyone. European born and raised, so if you're into accents, I have a thick one. Accent!... You dirty minded you... I'm usually easy to get along with, I can talk about almost anything. I try to treat people the way I'd want people to treat me. Not into drama, etc. I'm not interested in anyone attached, guys, or completely insane people (yes unfortunately I had the pleasure once, maybe I'll tell you about it one day) I also have a super weird sleep pattern so if you have insomnia, we already have something in common. As for a type, I don't really have one, women can be attractive in so many different ways. I do seem to have a weakness for short, "nerdy" women. I'm 5'10" 200 lbs, did grow a "covid belly" that seems to be here to stay, "rough" looking, so if you are into pretty boys I'll save you the time, I'm not one of them, I do have a few tattoos, strong, and I work in home renos. As for the bedroom stuff, if you have any specific questions regarding R rated stuff, I'll answer them in private. I'm only interested in single women, no couples, swingers, men, etc. Happy hunting everyone!

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2024/11/01
01:26 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Mississauga - How spontaneous are you?

Hello fellow lurker!

A bit about me: I love to have fun and explore different kinks and fantasies. I'm open to various experiences but I also have a knack for respecting boundaries and limits, while also being really good at what I do (I know every guy says that but you can find out for yourself if you give it a shot). It's important to me that my partner feels like a princess and is treated with the utmost care and respect.

When it comes to kinks, I'm pretty open-minded and enjoy exploring new things. Some of my favorites include being dominant, but I can switch things up depending on the vibe.

Aside from the steamy stuff, honestly l'm feeling overall very happy with my life, especially professionally. I'm active when I can be, have a great friends group, and love learning and trying out new things. The kink is an accepted part with who I am - but other than that I like to consider myself chill and down to earth overall if you’re aiming for a chill vibe. Just be upfront about your expectations… even if that means you just need a quick release and be on your way.

I dress well and always make sure to smell nice. I keep myself in shape and prioritize good hygiene. I'm laid-back, respectful, and I always put comfort and safety first. Recently tested (can provide results) and 420 friendly. In terms of hobbies, I love working out, going on hikes, and travelling.

My aim? To share a memorable, no-strings-attached good time with a like-minded LADY and hopefully peek someone's interest who is looking to be pleased and treated like a pillow princess. Open to all races/ethnicities so don’t be shy :)

If you’re good with this so far and up for some laidback fun, shoot me a message with your favourite place to be or better yet, your favourite position or even a kink. Also if this is still up, I'm still looking :) To keep things interesting, include a little about yourself as well. Your picture gets mine, SFW, blurred or NSFW. Will need a verification or don’t bother.

1 Comment
2024/11/01
01:24 UTC

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22 M4F - looking for fwb

Hey everyone, just a tired uni student here looking for someone to chill with. Would love to get to know some of you and see if we get along as friends and you know, benefits wise.

Me:

  • 5’7
  • Straight
  • athletic build (not much abs tho)
  • 6 inches
  • Wasian
  • pretty sporty, mostly soccer
  • Gamer
  • Vanilla but am open to trying some things
  • 420 friendly
  • brainrot enthusiast
  • Located around Richmond hill and can commute to Toronto or wherever
  • can’t host often

Im not really picky and would be down to get coffee and see how things play out.

Let me know if this tickles your fancy. Cheers!

1 Comment
2024/11/01
01:17 UTC

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49 M4F Vaughan let me eat you till you cum

I’m 49 years old married and I love making women cum with my tongue especially love the feeling of the vibration when you cum on my tongue. Let’s chat and make everyone happy;)

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2024/11/01
00:43 UTC

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26 M4M I want to get sucked while my gf is away😈

26 M athletic body 6 feet tall attractive BWC, my gf is away and I’ve always wanted to get sucked off by a guy and thought there’s not a better time than tonight ;) if you’re interested DM me i can send some pics on there!

2 Comments
2024/11/01
00:41 UTC

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32MF4F for fun and more

Hi, were looking for a woman around 30s/ mid 20s or higher to join us for oasis downtown and then possibly more if you're into that. Let's chat and see how it goes

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2024/10/31
23:45 UTC

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28 M4F- stuck in my anxious cocoon

Hi there

I’m a 28M, born and raised in Toronto.

I’ve been working on it intentionally but I’m not comfortable with myself and my sexuality… yet. I’m fine when things are platonic but I still get really anxious around women whenever intimacy is on the table. I’m hoping to meet and connect with someone who’s comfortable with themselves and their sexuality. I’d like to pick your brain about it and hopefully it’ll rub off on me or at least inspire me to continue with the self work I’ve been doing (im tired).

I experienced some trauma a few years ago and did a lot of therapy and inner work to overcome it. I’ve moved past it for the most part but I still haven’t regained much confidence in myself and my ability to act on my sexual desires is non existent.

I’m hoping that connecting with someone who is kind, patient and open will help me regain that confidence and comfort that I lost. A friends with benefits situation would be awesome. The friend part is really important to me because I value trust, connection and safety.it would be cool to find someone who I can be intimate with but also someone I can text, see movies with and have fun with.

I’m black, 6 feet tall, 190 pounds, and have black curly hair. I think I’m pretty average looking but I try to dress well and I prioritize my hygiene to maximize my presentation. I’m pretty shy and reserved but I open up fairly quickly. I enjoy movies, learning how to draw/paint, watching/playing sports, meditation, reading, writing short stories and spending time in nature. Sexually, I’m pretty vanilla and inexperienced but I’m open to exploring and my main goal is to always maximize my partner’s pleasure.

I’m not super particular about who I meet, I’m pretty open minded. No real preferences outside of someone who is warm, kind, confident and patient. Ideally I’d like something ongoing.

If you feel inspired to send a chat, please include your favourite movie so I know you’re a real person.

Happy Halloween 🎃👻

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2024/10/31
23:42 UTC

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28 [M4F] athletic and educated black male looking for casual safe fun

I am educated and career driven with an athletic build. Im laid back and gentle. Im interested in women all shapes and sizes Id love to find someone thats open minded and has realistic expectations. Someone that is judgment free. I just want to have a safe, fun time. Id also like to find someone that likes to experiment, as in just trying stuff to see if they like it. I also love simple vanilla stuff. I hate the the feeling of pressure to have your best performance 10/10 times

i just want something chill and fun. Last but not least. Safety is really important to me i use protection for oral and fornication. I know a lot of people arent into that which I understand rightfully so. I just want to have peace of mind and protect myself first. if youre ok with these limits send me a message!! And we can talk!

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2024/10/31
23:06 UTC

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29 M4F #GTA #Brampton Looking for a Friend (wb)

Hey i'm 29M and I'm looking for a friend with benefits. I'd preferably like someone near me but won't mind driving for the right person. I want to hang out, watch netflix, 420 friendly, go get food, maybe go on some dates, go to the movies and etc. I want someone I can chill and be myself with. I'm big on texting, but don't mind phonecalls. I'm a better listener than talker some times.

A little about me - I'm over 6 feet and on the chubbier side. I love riding my motorcycles, having a good laugh, brainrot, my dog, eating, cars. I'll have the occasional drink but I'm not a big time drinker, I do enjoy smoking weed here and there. I can’t host so that might be a dealbreaker 😆

If you’re interested let’s talk

1 Comment
2024/10/31
22:52 UTC

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24M4F, Looking for a GF

Been a bit over four years since my last girlfriend and I’m kinda tired of being single honestly, I’m definitely not a 10/10 in looks by any means but I can promise I have at least a decent personality, relatively pretty funny to most people.

I’m a lonely guy so obviously I’d be fine with short-term stuff if you’re looking for “fun” as people call it now lol, but I’d prefer an actual relationship. For girls, I don’t really have preferences, though I definitely feel that I like girls with brown or red hair (though blondes and dark hair are fine too lol).

About me: A 23 year old software developer living in Toronto. During my free time I am mostly watching anime or movies, playing video games, and cooking. Love going out on walks, and hiking!

My expectations for this are literally zero so, if you’re a girl, feel free to dm or comment, I will 100% respond to you lol

1 Comment
2024/10/31
22:41 UTC

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