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/r/r4rOntario

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44F, (F4M), southeastern Ontario. Hamilton and south areas

Tough spot to be in, I get it. We meet people at different times in our lives for many different reasons. I find myself seeking out a person who might actually be up to fullfill what I am looking for. I have been here a few times, most people talk a good game, or get what they want and never talk again. And/or very possible it is me and my take on things. I could be the problem and self aware enough to know that all of it is possible. I am fully aware that “hanging out” with a married person isnt for everyone and I respect that, but half in or half out isn’t what I am looking for. Hoping to find a fun friend who wants to chat and hang out a little and maybe then after that have some fwb kind of fun. A little about me, I’m pretty easy going and laid back. Love to read, check out nature, love the lakes and enjoy chatting. More importantly, to me, I am very great at listening. I am not single, definitely a big girl, we all have eyes. Hoping that you are single, a good communicator and also think the slow fade is bullshit and enjoy some good chats! Fun and funny, cute and like to chill as well. Bonus points for animal lovers.

1 Comment
2024/10/25
00:38 UTC

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31 [M4F] Newmarket, Ontario - Looking for someone to hangout with this weekend

Hello,

I'm in the Newmarket area for work and have nothing to do this weekend. I'm looking for someone to go on a walk with at Fairy Lake. It would be nice to enjoy the fall weather while chatting and getting to know someone new.

I'm 5' 10", a little chubby and more on the nerdy side.

Send me a DM if you're interested 😁

0 Comments
2024/10/18
04:05 UTC

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29(F4A)

Hey! I've been having a rough few weeks and am trying to distract myself. Message me if you'd like to chat. I'm open to talking about pretty much anything, but some of my interests are anime, games (puzzles, board/card games etc. Not a huge 'gamer' with video games), reading although I haven't picked up a good book in awhile, listening to new music.

Love memes and dad jokes. What did the cell say to his sister when she stepped on his foot? .. 'Ow! Mitosis!'

Please keep things SFW

5 Comments
2024/10/06
10:06 UTC

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27 [M4F] #Toronto Introverted Explorer Seeking a Fun Connection

I'm a 27-year-old guy, standing at 6 feet tall, who leads a healthy lifestyle and hits the gym regularly to stay fit. While I might come off as introverted, I’m genuinely curious about exploring new experiences and stepping out of my comfort zone. I’m looking for a kind, open-minded woman who’s interested in connecting and sharing something fun and meaningful together. Ideally, I’m hoping for a casual connection, possibly something like a friends-with-benefits situation, where we can enjoy each other’s company in a respectful, no-pressure environment.

It’s important to me that this experience is comfortable and enjoyable for both of us. I’m a laid-back, respectful person who values communication and mutual understanding. I believe that real chemistry happens when both people are on the same page, and I want to make sure we’re both at ease as we explore this new dynamic together.

A bit more about me: I’m clean, I take care of myself, and I’m all about keeping things drama-free. I believe respect, trust, and honesty are key in any connection, whether it’s casual or something more. I also appreciate someone who is upfront and values open communication.

If any of this resonates with you and you’re interested in getting to know me better, don’t hesitate to message me. Let’s chat and see if we vibe who knows, it could lead to something fun and exciting!

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2024/09/22
18:48 UTC

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M4F london

I am male 42 years looking forword to meet a lady 25-35 years and we can see from there how things goes Located in london ontario

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2024/08/30
05:17 UTC

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30s[M4F] looking for a relationship, coffee/chat

Open minded, enjoy the outdoors, always looking to build bridges, see other points of view. Walking through trinity bellwood, then going for pizza or trying a new cafe havent heard of before. Feel free to give me your suggestions, what exciting event or hobby are you interested in? Currently working, 5'10, tan, medium build love biking, volleyball, tennis, pickleball, football, hiking.

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2024/08/05
18:26 UTC

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30 [M4F] #ontario/online missing tye flirting, sarcastic jokes and the chase.

Happy sunday all, i have found myself back here after a littlw bit, things dont always work out as we know.

Im 30 i work industrial mechanics on a contemtal style shift leaving my schedule flexible, ive always been the kind of man to get out there and get my hands dirty fixing things first.

I have a kid, im fairly bigger in general 6ft 5, i love other things like reading, cooking, sports games in person over tv isnt the same. Im pretty competative and sarcastic to a fault will make jokes and play around regularly.

Im looking to find someone in a silmular situation, who would love to chat, flirt, joke laugh together and steal eachothers time, im open to hanging out/metting in person if were consist and conent online first, not looking for those people who send messages once every other day need a bit more commitment than that for me. Im fairly flexible with age between 24 and 40 is a good range for me, if you have things in common thats a bonus if not i love to learn new things and try out things i hvent thought of or had the opportunity to so far.

Open to and likely will swap photos early to get that out of the way as we all know its a deal breaker for 80% of us even thought we dont say it aha.

Hope to see you around chats are open

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2024/07/28
16:53 UTC

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32M4F Deadpool & hangout in Burlington

Would any ladies be down to catch the new Deadpool movie and hangout afterwards?

I'm a 32 year old Caucasian nerd, measuring 6'4". I like making new friends who enjoy curling up and snuggling together. At this point I'm just looking for friends and casual fun, but I'm not opposed to embracing something more if it happens naturally. Zero expectations, and will not push for anything beyond hanging out afterwards. Respect & safety are important to me.

I'm a tech & board/tabletop/video gaming nerd with interests in science, space exploration, fantasy & sci-fi, reading & writing, and TV & movies.

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2024/07/27
04:53 UTC

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28[M4F] #Ontario, sarcastic, great personality, brings alot of humor to the table come rate on down.

Hello everyone, searching through the shadows this Friday evening, hopefully we can find a few stars along the way!!

I'm , 28 I'm a dad to one kiddo and I'm calling from ontario. Lately, I've found myself reflecting on the beauty of genuine connections and the joy that comes from sharing moments of witty sarcastic comments, little jabs and overall laughter teasing eachother until your like holy shit where did the time just go, yeah I'd love to waste away the day together through commentary jokes and forget where either of us are even just for a moment what do you think?

In my spare time, I enjoy working on home project improvements and repairs i woke as a maintenence supervisor/mechanic, I love reading, cooking and casual banter with dark humor and witty comebacks, but what really lights me up is meeting someone who shares a love for inappropriate jokes, witty banter, deep conversations, exploring eachothers minds learning all there is to be found and maybe even some more spontaneous actions or adventures if the moment strikes. Eventually we will be older and Wandering what if I did this, why not be a little more spontaneous now!!

If you're someone who values kindness, warmth, and the occasional cheesy joke, I'd love to get to know you. Let's chat, exchange stories, and see where this journey takes us. Feel free to send me a message—I'm excited to here from you

Looking forward to exploring our potential together!

1 Comment
2024/07/17
21:42 UTC

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39 [M4F] - Niagara region, looking for friends or more

Going through a separation and would def love to talk to someone who may have gone through the same or just wants to lend an ear or help me through. I like to play guitar, read, play video games, workout. I like trying new restaurants and hanging out.. also very 420 friendly

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2024/07/05
22:56 UTC

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26 [m4f] looking to maybe spark a relationship or make a new friend

I'm looking to meet more girls and hopefully become friends or maybe something more if we click. I'm shy and awkward and nerdy so I'm trying to put myself out there

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2024/06/08
18:58 UTC

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23M4F looking for a girlfriend

Been a bit over four years since my last girlfriend and I’m kinda tired of being single honestly, I’m definitely not a 10/10 in looks by any means but I can promise I have at least a have decent personality, relatively pretty funny to most people.

I’m a lonely guy so obviously I’d be fine with short-term stuff if you’re looking for “fun” as people call it now lol, but I’d prefer an actual relationship. For girls, I don’t really have preferences, though I definitely feel that I like girls with brown or red hair (though blondes and dark hair are fine too lol). If you have a cute face that’s a major plus, i want to date someone who I’d wanna stare at lol

I’m blonde, have a stache and (depending on time of year) small (or longish off the face and poofy) beard, kinda got a dad bod going on but trying to lose some weight and I’m about 5’5 in height. Weigh about 150-170lbs depending on how busy I am with stuff that requires physical effort lol

My expectations for this are literally zero so, if you’re a girl, feel free to dm or comment, I will 100% respond to you lol

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2024/06/03
01:35 UTC

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27M4F Genuine guy looking for something real

Hey there, hope you're day has been well. I'm looking for a woman that would like to have an ongoing FWB or even a relationship should we match with each other. I am 6.1ft, mixed, and a very kind guy, I love to make everyone laugh or smile. In the past, I was cheated on but I've recovered and I want to come back out there and talk to ladies again. I am disease-free. I enjoy making a woman laugh, music, time together outside, making out, eating pussy and I'm down for most kinks you may have, I am 420-friendly as well. I live downtown Toronto and I have my own place. In terms of the woman I'm looking for, all races, sizes, and body types are welcome, I do not judge and I'm very easy to deal with. Should any of you ladies be interested message me through a Reddit chat and we can send pictures to each other, and go from there. I'm very respectful, please don't be shy to message me, everybody wants some sort of intimacy in their life.

Come Introduce yourself to me :)

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2024/05/29
02:52 UTC

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28[M4F] Ingersoll/London/Woodstock - Looking for someone to connect with

Hey there, thanks for checking out my post!

About me: I live in Ingersoll, recently moved here. I'm 28. I'm 5''10. I've got dark hair, brown eyes, I'm relatively fit, from the island of Ireland (yes, I have the accent 😅) I love yoga and jogging and going on adventures but I also enjoy staying in and playing games or reading or binging shows. I can host.

You: Playful, kind, good energy (that doesn't inherently mean bubbly, I've known people who some would consider 'dark' and they were still absolutely wonderful people to me). Age doesn't really matter, attraction is definitely important! This can be a one-off thing, or it can continue. I'm not the sort of person who just abandons people.

I'd love to communicate with you first, we can share pics and work out whatever needs to be worked out until we're both comfortable.

And hey, even if you're not interested in this, shoot me a DM and let me know how this post reads to you. Always looking to improve.

Thanks!

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2024/05/05
00:40 UTC

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33 [M4F] Fergus - Poly guy looking for another partner

33 yo guy who already has a primary partner but has plenty of affection and time to spread around.

6’5, 300lb giant teddy bear with a big beard and who wears a kilt all summer.

I am looking for someone long term who wants to spend quality time together and enjoy the small joys of life.

I was a chef for many years before switching careers into IT and I still love cooking so let me make you all my favourite dishes or request some of your own. I find food is the best way to get to know someone so hopefully our taste preferences match up.

I also love teaching people how to cook new dishes so if you’ve ever wanted private cooking lessons these ones are free, just send me a message to sign up.

When I’m not working or cooking I like hiking, camping, fishing and have recently gotten back into archery so if you want to learn to shoot a bow I’d gladly teach you.

Willing to talk about almost anything for way too long and tend to go on tangent after tangent so it hopefully never gets boring.

1 Comment
2024/04/16
22:27 UTC

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20 [M4F] southeastern’ish ontario, looking for someone to chat with about anything

Looking for some near my age to chat with about stuff like how our day went or our personal interests, speaking of which, some interests of mine or listening to music, games, nice walks whether it’s raining or the sun is shining…just not during a storm tho😅.

It would be nice if we were close to the same region, but I am open to just sticking online and chatting here. Not sure what the limits to what we can chat about should be, just no trading nude pics, so I guess I’ll let you decide if you chose to dm me…and uh, yeah, that’s everything.

2 Comments
2024/04/10
05:18 UTC

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28 [M4F] #Mississauga Bubble tea and see where it takes us?

Bubble tea date, talk, and see where it takes us? I'm open to other suggestions and like to go with the flow. I can drive either to Toronto or Burlington radius-ish

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2024/04/07
01:50 UTC

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23f any Northeastern folk want to be friends? 😅

I’m from one of the handful of small towns surrounding the Timmins area, I won’t reveal which one right now for security reasons, but I may after we get talking a bit more and feel comfortable sharing my location.

I live in the woods with my boyfriend and his parents, and I don’t have a car or license so making new friends after high school has been difficult for me, especially with the pandemic having happened. I’m a homebody, unemployed, with a bit of a chaotic schedule, so connections I do make often don’t stick because it seems most people my age can’t really relate to me anymore :(

I love arts and craft type hobbies, nature and landscape photography, cross-stitching, board games and puzzles, walks out in nature, learning about history, reading, watching movies, documentaries, tv series’s, YouTube videos, and playing the odd simple and cozy video game from time to time. I predominantly enjoy comedy, romantic comedy or family movies, but I also enjoy a good fantasy world! I’m not a big horror fan as I don’t do well with gore, and have anxiety, but I oddly enough don’t mind and can enjoy true crime and mysteries if that’s your thing!

I mainly speak English but I’m trying to learn French to better connect with family. I’m 420 friendly, but I don’t drink alcohol. It’s fine if you do though. I’m a part of the Lgbtq+ community and my politics are left-leaning. I would also prefer to speak to people in their 20’s as well.

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2024/03/27
01:27 UTC

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66 M4F #OSHAWA/GTA

I originally posted this last week, and had a couple of responses, but never went much further. I'd love to hear from someone who's interested in meeting and having coffee to see if we might like to get to know each other further. If the lady that answered me last week is still interested, please let know. I muted our conversation and now can't access it.

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2024/02/24
14:40 UTC

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40 [m4f] looking for a dance partner March 16 in Niagara

Hey Niagara! What's up?

I'll be traveling to your city March 16 for a drum and base show, and I need a dance partner or 2.

I'll be staying at a hotel close to the show, and will probably get into the city a little before doors so we can meet for a coffee or drink prior to the show.

Looking to have a great time dancing, and vibing!

Dm me and let's chat!

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2024/02/22
05:49 UTC

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34 M4F - #GTA Ontario - Looking for a Long term South Asian Affair Partner

🔍 What am I looking for: A long term affair partner who can connect and hold conversations, be available to chat throughout the day/night as practical as possible, someone who has a good outlook on life and is willing to keep this discreet. Not looking to change either of our situation, but to add a little bit of spice to life.

⚡ Why specifically SA: I'm a South Asian as well and to be able to connect mentally is equally important as physical attraction. Being from a similar background would make this easier I believe. Also helps manage expectations as well.

🙋🏻About me: I'm a MM, 34, 5'8", dad to a wonderful 2 year old, have a successful career, work out regularly, attractive and good looking I've been told, a good listener, love food (cooking), music (I play piano and guitar) and exploring new places. DDF, non smoker.

🙋🏻‍♀️About you: South Asian, Preferably a married female, may or may not have kids, Age between 30 and 45, educated, someone who takes care of themselves, non smoker. Love for movies and series a bonus. I do not have a physique preference, as mentioned the mental connection is first and foremost. Preferably located in the GTA area, Ontario.

If this post has piqued your interest, please dm me.

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2024/02/21
16:46 UTC

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40[m4f] ontario

I am looking for a nice lady to spend time with, I am not looking for any commitment, just mutually agreeable terms, I can help with bills, grocery and be a good partner. If interested message me directly.

Thanks Sam

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2024/02/05
17:44 UTC

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21M4F Relationship around Cornwall area

Hey, I'm 21 years, I am bilingual, I am looking for a partner around the Cornwall area, I'm looking for someone that is an outdoors lover and that loves to keep active, and has a strong sense of humor, determination and drive.

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2024/02/02
11:58 UTC

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41 [M4F] New to Newmarket (and I'd love to meet someone in the area)

I recently relocated to Newmarket, and I'm interested in making a new (preferably local) connection.

Nice conversation and some laughs sound like the perfect place to start. I drive, so you don't need to live down the street, but somewhere close by would make it easier to be spontaneous.

I'm tall and in good shape, I have a successful career, and I enjoy many different activities throughout the year. Let's meet for a drink and take it from there.

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2024/01/29
22:23 UTC

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35y/o[w4a] covid cautious woman seeks friends and more

hello, thank you for reading

i'm looking for like-minded covid cautious people to talk to online and potentially in real life if things click.

if you think covid is over/ don't care about being protected, i am not for you

i want people in my life that i feel like i can trust with my health and have open communication with each other

i'm not really particular about other personal attributes other than just being a generally kind and sensitive person that cares about their own health and their communities health

would be nice if our political views are aligned, but i think covid cautious people tend to have similar views in this area.

if you are interested, please message me with your covid practices at the moment, and also your favourite type of breakfast, just in case someone responds without reading the whole post

anyways, hopefully this reaches its intended audience. i hope you are out there looking for me too

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2024/01/13
00:26 UTC

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20 [F4A] looking to chat and see what happens :) please read before messaging me

Hi, I'm not partying or anything for new years, I never do. So I think it'd be a nice night to chat with people.

I'm a really creative person, and when I have more energy, I think it shows in my conversation. I like talking about life, the universe, spirituality, mental health, etc.

I love music, I'm a musician myself. I listen to many different genres, grunge, punk, and rock. Being the most common.

I'm bipolar. I also have what I believe is a psychotic illness, or features. I try to manage it, but it'll always be with me.

I love art, crossword puzzles, cooking, yoga, dancing, horror films, etc. I'm actually a super big horror nerd. And have a huge interest in body mods.

So hi!

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2024/01/01
02:00 UTC

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30 [M4F] Niagara region - Single dad looking for something real.

Honestly, I'm getting tired of the dating scene lately. consistently being met with people who aren't sure what they're looking for.
I want to meet someone to build a family with, someone who I can look to as a partner and a friend. I have a kid from a previous relationship and she's my absolute world, I love being a father and it's my main driving force, I want to have more and build a family. I'm looking for someone who values communication and is understanding/empathetic. really at the end of the day KNOW what you're looking for!
some quick info about me: 30 years old, 6ft, brown hair, blue eyes, bigger guy but re-started my workout journey (if you want a pic just message me I have no issue sharing). work from home FT, love to watch movies and TV shows/anime, big PC gamer (if you are awesome, if not no problem!), I love to cook and will gladly cook for you, I love to laugh and try my hardest to find the joys in life everywhere I can.
If this is something you're looking for too and you're in my area shoot me a message and I'm sure we'll hit it off as I love to chat with just about anyone! :)

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2023/12/11
22:55 UTC

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27 (F4A) Muskoka, Ontario or Primarily Online - Looking for Friends

Neurodivergent / Presently medically unwell and struggling to maintain a safe living situation (so am definitely not always the most available; I'm sorry I can't be.)

A few things that are important to me include mutual (of all the following): empathy, recognition of nuance and circumstance (generally awareness), understanding, respect/comfortability, autonomy, !esp. emotional respect and understanding and safety and open communication. I also care for the health and wellbeing of myself and others and am not very good at being shy with that.

It's not at all personal, me judging people for "typing wrong" or me being picky but I can have difficulty reading text that isn't typed out to some degree "correctly" because it's harder for my head to process.

I tend to prefer to voice chat online or send things to each other (with delayed responses being okay and understood) versus involved, esp. fast-reply conversations: my head isn't very good for typing!

I prefer to chat for a while on here first though, before I give out other contact info.

6 Comments
2023/11/18
17:52 UTC

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39 [M4F] Ottawa - Let’s bond over movies, music, and video games and see where it goes

Hi there, I’m a 39-year-old disabled male living in Ottawa, the capital of Canada and one of the most beautiful cities in the world. I have a great sense of humor, a positive outlook on life, and a lot of love to give. I’m seeking a meaningful connection with someone who shares my interests and is open to chat, friendship, or more.

I enjoy movies of all types, from action to comedy to horror. I like to watch them on Netflix, Prime Video, or Disney+, depending on my mood and availability. Some of my favorites are The Matrix, a sci-fi masterpiece that explores the nature of reality, Sunshine, a thrilling space adventure that depicts a desperate mission to reignite the dying sun, and Event horizon, a terrifying horror film that involves a haunted spaceship and a portal to hell. What are some of yours? I would love to hear your recommendations and opinions.

Besides movies and music, I also enjoy playing video games. Some of the games that I like are Forza, a realistic racing game that lets me drive various cars on different tracks, City skylines 2, a city-building simulation game that allows me to create and manage my own urban metropolis, and Warships, a naval warfare game that challenges me to command and fight with historical ships.

I also love music of most types, but I favor DnB, EDM, and rock. I like to listen to them on Spotify or YouTube, depending on the quality and variety. Some of my favorite artists are Etherwood, a British producer who creates soothing and soulful DnB tunes, MiTis, an American artist who blends classical piano with uplifting EDM beats, and CHVRN, a Russian musician who crafts dark and atmospheric electronic sounds. I also like the deftones, an alternative metal band that combines heavy riffs with melodic vocals, smashing pumpkins, a rock band that experiments with different styles and genres, and foo fighters, a post-grunge band that delivers catchy and energetic songs. Who are some of yours? I would love to discover new artists and genres with you

I also like to watch sports from time to time, mostly hockey, because I’m Canadian and proud of it! But I also enjoy F1 when I remember to catch it and find baseball alright to watch. I used to watch it when I was teen and follow it much more closely. It’s a very fun sport to watch. I have also watched a bit of NASCAR, but really have not kept up with it at all, so I don’t know what’s going in that world at all.

I’m looking for someone who is kind, honest, and respectful. Someone who can make me laugh with their witty jokes, smile with their sweet compliments, and feel good with their warm hugs. Someone who can accept me for who I am and not judge me for my disability, but rather appreciate my strengths and support me in my challenges. Someone who is interested in having deep and meaningful conversations about movies, music, or anything else that sparks our curiosity and passion. Someone who is willing to share their thoughts, feelings, dreams, and fears with me, and listen to mine with empathy and understanding. Someone who is looking for a genuine connection that goes beyond the superficial aspects of appearance, status, or location. I don’t care about your age, race, or location. I just want to connect with someone who has a good heart and a good vibe. Someone who can make me happy and be happy with me. If you think that’s you, please send me a message and let’s get to know each other better. Thank you for reading my post and I hope to hear from you soon. 😊

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2023/11/01
21:02 UTC

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39 [M4F] Hamilton metal gamer dude looking for new friends

Hey all, 39m Hamilton here, looking for new friends, maybe more. I’m 5’8, blonde/blue, and I have a beard. Alternative-looking, metal dude.

Interests:

music (mostly metal, but try and find something I’m not at least a little knowledgeable about)

video games (roguelites like Binding of Isaac, reluctantly League of Legends, but I like a little of everything, was playing Valorant and Overwatch recently)

film (mostly horror, top 3 of all time for me are The Shining, The Exorcist, and Hereditary)

Things I’m passionate about:

I’m finishing my Library Technician Diploma, so community outreach mixed with access to information for everyone.

I also write, mostly horror but I’m all over the place and always like feedback on my work.

Actually being empathetic, not just telling people you are (I’m aware of the irony of putting this here)

Metaphysics and the occult (specifically the psychological aspects behind these things, dw I’m not looking for rabbits or hats)

Women I’m interested in:

-Gamers! (if you wanna play League or Valorant, the next few requirements don’t apply, I’m always looking for new gamer friends)

-Childless and not looking to change that

-Within Ontario, ideally in Hamilton

-Openminded and not preachy (this applies to religion, lifestyle choices, politics, etc)

Bonus points if you have a cute doggo or kitty! If I seem like your type, inbox me a number of pics of your pets between 1 and several thousand. Or just say hi, you do you.

1 Comment
2023/09/05
21:06 UTC

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