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Hey! I'm looking for some women to chat with😌

I'm the charming, witty, outgoing and laid-back type. Love big laughs and deep chats. I'm Irish but raised across Europe, so a bilingual French-speaker as well as speaking few other languages, and welcome diverse cultural and linguistic connections.

I'm an educated professional by day: well read and well travelled, athletic and driven, friendly and charming, sincere and attentive. Just as happy dressing down for a quiet night in, or dressing up for a big night out.

Hobby-wise: I love doing things with my hands (cooking, gardening, DIY), and enjoy working out (HIIT cycling, pilates, swimming, or just spending time in nature). I love discussing history and (geo)politics, and IRL socialising (optionally involving a coffee/drink in an outdoor terrace). Voracious reader, and since the pandemic Ive been tearing my way through reading material. I'm always happy to discuss and share recommendations on books, movies, series.

Right now, interested in great connection where it all flows effortlessly and we just 'get' each other. Where we can be our own person, yet also entertain each other. Friends first, but a spicy side is welcome. Be adorably obsessed with each other, and stimulate each other in mind, spirit, and body. I'm happy to chat, call, etc, and potentially to meet if there is genuine spark, chemistry and rapport.

If it sounds like we're looking for the same thing, let's connect and brighten up each other's day :)

Why is this constantly repeated to me? That and along with "you're a bad b*." Single mom (2 teen kids and was married to their dad for 10 years). Good career.

If Im so great, then why are these men risking losing a "bad b* with a lot to offer."

They always want to stay friends. Say they care deeply for me. When I ask for feedback, I don't get any. It's always "you're great, I'm the idiot f* this up." Ok... but WHY? Lol

So, I'm on Reddit hoping for complete strangers to give me some possible insight.

Hello, my name is Brian. I am 37 m from the mid-Atlantic region of the United States.

I will admit I lead a bit of a non-traditional lifestyle. The things I value most in life are typically non-materialistic things. You could certainly say I lead an alternative lifestyle. Personally, I love it :)

That said, my dating life has not always been great. Which is totally fine. When you do things that are non-traditional not everyone is likely to jump on board. Over the past year or so I have used reddit to try and explore what type of relationship I could get into with my lifestyle.

Since I am a bit alternative in my lifestyle it is hard to explain what I am looking for. I thought I would try and make a post that my do a better job of what sort of relationship I am looking for. I am very happy where I live. I love living with my parents. I am not currently interested in moving or living with somebody else.

This by and large keeps my dating life casual. Which is perfect for me since I do not want to have any kids or start any sort of family.

As for what I want to do in a relationship and dating :) I keep a simple life. I just love weed, listening to music, going for country drives, going on neighborhood walks. I would love someone to work out with, go on hikes with, go kayaking with. So someone active would be great :)

I love going out for lunch. But I know people can be busy during the day so I would be super happy going out to dinners to. I do not like going to the movies all the time. But it would be a lot of fun to have someone to go to the movies with occasionally :)

I do not have a huge social circle. But I would not mind spending time occasionally with family and friends. I am ultimately more of a homebody so I am not the right person to date if you want to go out every night. But maybe once or twice a week might be perfect :)

We would not have to hang out together every night of course. But when we do I would really enjoy chill night in. Maybe a workout, getting a quick meal, listening to music, taking some edibles and watching a couple of movies perhaps. That sounds like a great night to me.

I am not a huge traveler going to places like Europe or Asia is just a bit much for me. But what I really enjoy are like simple weekend trips. Perhaps we could get an Air BNB within a couple of hours of us. Get up some Friday morning. Take a casual drive. And have a fun and relaxing weekend somewhere :)

Obviously, we would never live together. Never have kids or anything. But we could spend whatever time we have together and have a lot of fun :)

I am curious what sort of person this sort of relationship might appeal to? Thank you all so much.

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Not into hookups looking for real deal some one who is willing to be there for each other for who we are.

I’m a 20-year-old engineering student about to graduate, and I deeply value straightforwardness and meaningful connections over the casual nature of today’s dating scene. My focus has been on personal growth through reading, cooking, and learning guitar, which allow me to express my creativity and reflect on life.

While I’ve never been in love, I chose to wait for the right person, and now I'm actively looking for a mature, responsible man who shares my values and interests.

I appreciate genuine relationships and keep my circle small, cherishing a couple of close friends and a strong bond with my supportive family. I’m seeking someone who aligns with my outlook on life, values commitment, and is ready for a serious relationship.

While I don’t have physical expectations for how my partner should look, I would prefer someone who is around the same height or taller.

I'm a 5'6 individual with black hair and slim, brown skin, I believe that connection and compatibility matter most. Expecting someone with age of 21-30 not older than that

I'm not into casuals or any type of short term relationship. And I would like to have get married and have kids someday. Ping me your intros and things that, actually matters to you

i am a single 38 m from illinois. i am looking for that special someone. a female between the ages of 30 -39, lives in the united states. i am a nice honest guy. i have job. i dont have any kids. i am a non smoker cause i am allergic to cigarette smoke. i dont drink. i am a Christian, however, i will not rub my religion in your face or anything. i am white with brown hair and brown eyes. 5'11. i am looking for an honest female who is seeking a relationship. if you like to get to know me, please message me.

Feel free to dm me🤙🤙

I'm a 5'8" thick Latino teddy bear from Southern California, who's super affectionate but suffers from anxiety and depression I have shoulder length black hair, with nothing special brown eyes, and light olive skin, just looking to be loved. I'm a NEET (please look that up.) I like spooky things like the paranormal or the supernatural. I like to cook and learn new recipes, I'm into music and really wish I was talented enough to make my own, I like rock, metal, punk, indie, electronica, some hip hop/rap. I do smoke weed but it's not my whole personality. I play video games quite often, I am a console gamer.

I'm physically affectionate, really clingy, and have a really dark and irreverent sense of humor I would like someone with those same qualities as well as attractive, monogamous, and child free. I want a long term relationship with no children. I'm looking for a woman who is kind, caring, and supportive, who's willing to put the time in and make me a priority in their life.

I'm looking for something IRL, but have no qualms starting online as long as we can make plans to meet if things go well, I'm willing to relocate. If any of this interests you please send a selfie along with a brief intro, one word replies will be ignored.

Recently got out of a pretty one sided relationship. Did not end the best. Feeling pretty open and down could really use a friend with some healthy conversation. Would be better if in we were in the same time zone. Thank you for reading and I pray this post was received with love.

Kenosha Wisconsin

Kenosha Wisconsin

Hey there. I'm an engineer located in South Florida and I am looking for a woman that I can hopefully have a long term relationship with. I don't really want a long distance relationship so I'd prefer to meet someone more local if possible.

My hobbies mostly include playing videogames and watching YouTube. I also like golf, skiing, musicals, classic rock, and chess. I also like to travel and I try to go on at least 1-2 big vacations per year. I'd like to find someone that shares at least some of the same interests.

Theres pics of me on my profile. Feel free to message me if you'd like to talk more.

(F) 28

Hi 41yr name is Marshall,I'm still single looking for my soul mate...give me a call or text if you want to see if we connect. 321-890-3161

So I've been feeling a bit lonely lately.. more than usual anyways lol and I feel like it's finally time I put myself out there again to see what i can find. I'm not looking for anything in particular, so feel free to hit me up if you find me interesting at all. I'll gladly give out socials or selfies if asked :)

My hobbies include things like being out in nature, swimming, gaming, movies, gardening, and a good number of other things. I'm a bit awkward at first with people so try not to judge me too hard if i seem nervous or uninterested. I will warm up to you over time dw

From the East Coast US, but i'm happy to travel wherever as i have family from tennessee to south carolina, and my dad's half is from England.

There's this guy I was dating for awhile, we were an on and off type of thing, but he had hurt me multiple times emotionally. He would break it off with me, remove me off Snapchat and it hurt, a lot. After I would try and get over him, he would come back into my life, and I would forgive him. I've given him so many chances, and taken him back so many times, but I keep hurting myself just for the sake that I truly loved him. I would say that I'm over him, but once he's in my life again, I have to have him back. Some days I feel like I'm just his little fuck toy and once he's satisfied, then I'm put to the side until he wants me again. I want someone who is serious about me, who wants me for me, but it's so hard to find anyone anymore. I've never made it a whole year with dating anyone and it hurts. Just once, I want a whole year with someone. Just once. I hate being single and I hate these stupid games, I want to date someone to marry and have a future with them and if someone doesn't want that with me, then they can find the door and leave. Am I really asking for a lot, someone to date, to marry and grow old with.

I like gaming art and anime.

Not posting on my main for privacy reasons, but I'm looking for someone f18 - f22 to have something more than a physical connection. I don't go for looks because I myself know I'm not the best looking person. I'm quiet and Introverted and I don't message first because I don't want to bother you. I love a good personality and I'm a good listener. Dating apps don't work for me because there's better ways to use money and I hate taking pictures of myself. I love deep conversations and something that'll get me to talk is romance and memorable moments. Pronouns aren't a problem and I'll respect your boundaries.