I'm crushing HARD on a woman. Total tomboy but lots of similar values and interests. I don't connect with women very easily and she doesn't either. But instant sparks. The NRE is mind blowing.

So I need some tips from any BDSM folx out there. I've always been submissive with men. She's a switch but prefers to be submissive. We naturally have a bit of a power dynamic due to her being 15 years younger than me and I'm offering her glimpses into things she has always wanted to explore (such as paganism and poly/CNM). But she's way more experienced in queer sex and kink. I've only had one girlfriend and feel like I can barely flirt in girl! lol 😂

I'm a therapist by profession and naturally a caregiver. She got turned on when I told her she needed to take her contacts out before bed and jokingly said "okay mommy," and OMGods y'all... she asks if she can cum and I've enjoyed being a little more aggressive with our sex than I normally am with men, mostly just doing things I know I enjoy (hair pulling, biting, pinching nipples and choking). Shes into impact play but I haven't had the pleasure of experimenting much there yet.

She's sick today after an amazing night with me and my husband (she initiated). He's gone for the night and I'm finding myself pulling out all the stops to take care of her (she's a very independent single mom who prioritizes taking care of her daughter and doesn't remember to take care of herself). But I'm finding not only a profound sense of purpose showing her how she deserves to be loved and cared for but I'm also like crazy turned on by the potential of this dynamic.

Age play isn't my thing and most Caregiving resources seem to lean that way. But I am digging the whole idea of a kind of Mommy/Caregiver kink. So gimme whatcha got!!! Please! Tips, memes, resources, all welcome! TIA

Recommendations?

Just one video of a woman calling me mommy, that’s all I want at this point. All lesbian porn is either completely vanilla or just bdsm. I want praise, degradation, being called mommy, calling other girls mommy, etc. Does anyone know where that is?

So I know pup play is part of the comprehensive culture of gay men sexuality, but is there any prevalence of it in wlw relationships?

For some reason I suddenly had an awakening and found out I wanna do it with my partner but I don't know if its weird for me to partake as a lesbian.